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... ... @@ -1,5183 +1,329 @@ 1 -1 2 -00:00:13,139 ~-~-> 00:00:17,669 3 -ICT: MacBooks This is going to be a four 1 +(% class="hover min" %) 2 +|1 |00:00:13,139 ~-~-> 00:00:23,939 |ICT: Welcome back, folks, this is going to be a four part series. And right away, let me get your expectations in alignment. This first installment or Part 3 +|2 |00:00:23,939 ~-~-> 00:00:35,999 |one is basically one of those commuter episodes going back and forth to work. You can listen to it that way, because there's not really anything in this one 4 +|3 |00:00:35,999 ~-~-> 00:00:45,479 |that's going to be graphic intensive numbers, no charts, nothing like that no market makers secret concepts being revealed on some charts. It's basically a 5 +|4 |00:00:45,479 ~-~-> 00:00:56,789 |hypothetical conversation with my younger self, I get questioned a lot by email, if I could go back in time, you know, what I like to do differently. And I kind 6 +|5 |00:00:56,789 ~-~-> 00:01:08,189 |of like twisted that whole idea to come up with this perspective. And if I could go back and tell myself what I know now. And this is basically a hypothetical 7 +|6 |00:01:08,189 ~-~-> 00:01:09,719 |conversation with my younger self. 8 +|7 |00:01:18,570 ~-~-> 00:01:29,190 |If I could go back to the start of it all, knowing what I know now, said, everyone. How many times have you looked at a circumstance in your life, not 9 +|8 |00:01:29,190 ~-~-> 00:01:38,640 |just in trading, but in anything, that every facet of your life you wish you could go back knowing what you know, now, I used to hear my grandparents say 10 +|9 |00:01:38,640 ~-~-> 00:01:51,570 |things like that. And I was like, I couldn't relate with it at all to it. But being 47 about to turn 48 years old. There is a laundry list of things, I wish I 11 +|10 |00:01:51,570 ~-~-> 00:02:01,980 |could go back and change not just in my trading journey, but in all facets of my life. So I shared a bunch of those personal things today on my Twitter feed. If 12 +|11 |00:02:01,980 ~-~-> 00:02:10,290 |you haven't been over there, you can take a look at that and see my my open discussion about many of the frailties in my personal life coming up as a 13 +|12 |00:02:10,290 ~-~-> 00:02:25,980 |younger man into where I am today. I want to talk a little bit about some of the things that I wish I could go back in time and tell my younger self. Now, the 14 +|13 |00:02:25,980 ~-~-> 00:02:39,240 |way you can use this for yourself is take what I'm saying with a great deal of appreciation, because I weathered a lot of storms, financially and personally, 15 +|14 |00:02:39,930 ~-~-> 00:02:53,700 |to get to what I know now. And you may be a very young person, and or an older person just now getting involved in the markets, you're going to have the same 16 +|15 |00:02:53,940 ~-~-> 00:03:02,670 |growing pains that everyone else has. And some of these things are going to be things you probably read in books, heard other people talk about. But I'm going 17 +|16 |00:03:02,670 ~-~-> 00:03:12,270 |to give you my personal spin on some of them and how it applied to me. So it's kind of like a little bit of a little history book of what I was plagued with in 18 +|17 |00:03:12,270 ~-~-> 00:03:25,140 |my first six years. And the first six years of my trading development, the first six years of my trading, development is plagued with everything you could have 19 +|18 |00:03:25,140 ~-~-> 00:03:37,500 |possibly done wrong. And I want to kind of like use this discussion to kind of like go through some of the major hurdles that I had. And again, since I have 20 +|19 |00:03:37,530 ~-~-> 00:03:51,150 |children, adult children now they can hopefully listen to this, and mine. The, I guess the experience portion of it. Because a lot of the things that I've put on 21 +|20 |00:03:51,150 ~-~-> 00:04:04,230 |my YouTube channel, and I've taught over the years, it's heavily technical. There's a lot of things that are going on in the chart. And I am always accused 22 +|21 |00:04:04,230 ~-~-> 00:04:12,780 |of being long winded. And again, if you're not into you really understanding what is most likely going to plague you if you just want to go through it 23 +|22 |00:04:12,780 ~-~-> 00:04:21,390 |yourself and have all that experience. Have at it and don't even listen to this video. And there's no harm and you're not listening to this part. You could 24 +|23 |00:04:21,420 ~-~-> 00:04:32,220 |really just say, Oh, come on, it's gonna wait the part too, but it's meant to be a resource for you to glean experience from without having to go through the 25 +|24 |00:04:32,220 ~-~-> 00:04:45,930 |suffering portion of it. So if I were to go back in time, and I could sit at a table and talk to my younger self, what would I tell him or me where to focus? 26 +|25 |00:04:46,260 ~-~-> 00:05:00,330 |What should I as a younger person, focus on in my development as a trader. First thing, don't seek the approval from others right away. That's the number One 27 +|26 |00:05:00,330 ~-~-> 00:05:10,920 |characteristic of a successful trader. Now, you might not agree with the things I'm going to say in this episode, I'm just speaking from my own personal walk, 28 +|27 |00:05:11,310 ~-~-> 00:05:25,620 |and the things that I had to endure. When I first started, the first people that I looked to get approval with, with my family. And I love my family, both my 29 +|28 |00:05:25,620 ~-~-> 00:05:35,820 |immediate and extended family. But none of them shared in my excitement, they gave me all the reasons why it was a poor decision, it was a bad idea to get 30 +|29 |00:05:35,820 ~-~-> 00:05:44,040 |involved in it, I'm going to just lose money, and just accept working for the rest of your life. And it's simply not in the cards for me, I didn't want to do 31 +|30 |00:05:44,040 ~-~-> 00:05:51,690 |that. So you don't want to seek approval from your family, because they're not going to understand what you're trying to do. They're going to give you all of 32 +|31 |00:05:51,690 ~-~-> 00:05:59,250 |the heartfelt reasons why they're going to try to protect you from yourself, when they don't really understand what it is that you're trying to do or learn. 33 +|32 |00:06:01,470 ~-~-> 00:06:07,980 |Don't seek the approval of your friends. Number one, your friends are only going to be interested, once you start making money, when they start seeing the 34 +|33 |00:06:07,980 ~-~-> 00:06:19,500 |changes in your life, Then, and only then weird friends be on board with it. Your friends, much like your family, really don't feel comfortable with you 35 +|34 |00:06:19,530 ~-~-> 00:06:30,240 |being successful. Because if you tell them what you're going to do, and you get to the point where you succeed at it, you act like a mirror for them. And they 36 +|35 |00:06:30,240 ~-~-> 00:06:43,860 |will always look to you, as of a reminder of what they failed to pursue in their own life. So again, don't try to seek the approval of others, Family First, and 37 +|36 |00:06:43,860 ~-~-> 00:06:45,780 |friends, because it doesn't work out. 38 +|37 |00:06:47,160 ~-~-> 00:06:47,700 |Third, 39 +|38 |00:06:48,270 ~-~-> 00:06:58,800 |don't go to work, and tell your co workers that you're going to be quitting your jobs. And I made all those errors, okay. And many, many times I've shared the 40 +|39 |00:06:58,830 ~-~-> 00:07:12,630 |low income high our heavy workload job that I was doing, as a young man, when I was beginning this journey. And I just don't think that it's a good practice for 41 +|40 |00:07:12,630 ~-~-> 00:07:21,360 |anyone to go to work and tell their co workers number one, they're going to be given you again, all the worst feedback you're ever gonna hear. Yeah, right, 42 +|41 |00:07:21,360 ~-~-> 00:07:31,230 |you'll be here with me the rest of your life, you're going to retire from here, all those things, okay. So when you get this feedback from your co workers, 43 +|42 |00:07:31,260 ~-~-> 00:07:38,550 |you're going to hate going to work even more, because you might have liked going to work it to some degree and hanging out with the people you work with. Talking 44 +|43 |00:07:38,550 ~-~-> 00:07:52,410 |about sports, looking up movies, talking about the opposite sex, all these things that you had a common, I guess agreement on or an interest in, will start 45 +|44 |00:07:52,410 ~-~-> 00:08:01,620 |having a great divide, because you're going to look at them as a source of annoyance. And they're just gonna look at you as your pipe dreaming. And you're 46 +|45 |00:08:01,620 ~-~-> 00:08:10,290 |not going to get to where you're going. And it's going to be fun for them to watch, you fail. And you don't want to have someone constantly poking you every 47 +|46 |00:08:10,290 ~-~-> 00:08:19,140 |day. It looks like you're still here, I guess I'll see you to work tomorrow. No types of things is what I had to endure. So don't tell your co workers what 48 +|47 |00:08:19,140 ~-~-> 00:08:28,530 |you're going to be doing. Don't tell your boss, what you're going to be doing. You're going to basically fire your boss and fire your co workers when the time 49 +|48 |00:08:28,530 ~-~-> 00:08:39,300 |is right. But you don't want to broadcast it. Because all it's going to do is provide them a timeline when they think you should be doing it and teach you the 50 +|49 |00:08:39,300 ~-~-> 00:08:48,480 |entire time. So your family is going to constantly give you heartfelt advice of why you shouldn't do it. Your friends are going to say I'm not really 51 +|50 |00:08:48,480 ~-~-> 00:08:57,240 |interested. But if you get successful, I might be interested in so what why tell them, your co workers are going to give you every negative thing because they 52 +|51 |00:08:57,240 ~-~-> 00:09:09,030 |hate their life too. They're at the same place you're at you're trying to escape. So why would you want them to pump you up? That's what we do as humans, 53 +|52 |00:09:09,030 ~-~-> 00:09:20,700 |we want to have our peers say Yeah, that's a good idea. But how many times in your life? Have you ever had that experience? I can tell you, unless it was my 54 +|53 |00:09:20,700 ~-~-> 00:09:32,880 |fifth grade teacher, Mr. lorber. Or it was my uncle that talked to me about commodities when I was 16 years old. And taught me about narrow sideways 55 +|54 |00:09:32,880 ~-~-> 00:09:41,310 |channels and 123 tops and bottoms and head and shoulders and all those bull flags and things. At 16 years old, I was looking at it and it was going in one 56 +|55 |00:09:41,310 ~-~-> 00:09:49,590 |ear and out the other. Okay, so when you tell all your family, your friends and your co workers, that's what's happening, and they're not going to say you know 57 +|56 |00:09:49,590 ~-~-> 00:09:58,320 |what, that's brilliant. I wish I would have thought of that. That's the real that's the reaction you're expecting, right? It never works out that way. But 58 +|57 |00:09:58,320 ~-~-> 00:10:08,610 |yet we all do it as humans. We want to Have that that's a good idea, response and it never comes. So what does it do? It causes deflation. You don't want to 59 +|58 |00:10:08,610 ~-~-> 00:10:18,300 |be around these people, because now you're like, I wish I would have ever said anything. But once you put it out there, it's done. And lastly, strangers. As a 60 +|59 |00:10:18,300 ~-~-> 00:10:28,200 |young man, when I was doing my job would finish off, you know, filling up the candy machines and the soda machines and coffee machines and such. And I used to 61 +|60 |00:10:28,200 ~-~-> 00:10:43,830 |do a vending route ended a long day, 13 hours or so. And during my route, I felt this an unreasonable desire to tell other people that I don't even know. Yeah, 62 +|61 |00:10:44,010 ~-~-> 00:10:52,950 |I'm looking at a market and hope it goes up. And then bah, bah, bah, what? What are you talking to me about that for? So when you tell strangers or if you meet 63 +|62 |00:10:52,950 ~-~-> 00:11:02,820 |someone in the pub, okay, are you at a club or? Well, right now, it's hard to go to those places right now. Because of all the things that's been impacted by the 64 +|63 |00:11:02,820 ~-~-> 00:11:15,690 |illnesses being spread around the social circles. When you run into people, they'll ask you, Hey, you know, so what do you do yourself? That's not the 65 +|64 |00:11:15,690 ~-~-> 00:11:22,170 |invitation to say, Well, I'm looking to start trading commodities. They're gonna like, what? Yeah, I'm 66 +|65 |00:11:22,170 ~-~-> 00:11:28,050 |trading the foreign exchange market right away, they're gonna be like, What is that, and that's what you want to ask you. And then when you start talking 67 +|66 |00:11:28,050 ~-~-> 00:11:35,880 |about, they're like, Oh, yeah, that's like the stock market, you're not interested, or they're interested, anyone know how much money you made, and you 68 +|67 |00:11:35,880 ~-~-> 00:11:43,350 |can't tell them that you made any money, you're just now starting. So really, you're a startup, and they're not really interested in the conversation anymore. 69 +|68 |00:11:43,530 ~-~-> 00:11:51,240 |So you're not going to get that feedback, again, what you're looking for. So don't seek the approval from others, you have to pursue this on your own steam 70 +|69 |00:11:51,240 ~-~-> 00:12:03,210 |your own energy. And if you have any dependency on an outside source, be at any one of these four groups, family, friends, co workers or strangers to give you 71 +|70 |00:12:03,750 ~-~-> 00:12:16,050 |that, nudge, that little bit of a pat on the back, that you're doing the right thing for yourself, you're going to struggle, because in trading, you got to be 72 +|71 |00:12:16,050 ~-~-> 00:12:26,010 |there to make the decisions whether anyone agrees with you or not. And when you make money, you reap the rewards of that. But when you lose it, and you will, 73 +|72 |00:12:26,850 ~-~-> 00:12:35,010 |you have to be able to endure that and not feel the compulsion to go to someone and say, hey, look, you know, I just lost a lot of money, it's the same thing. 74 +|73 |00:12:35,490 ~-~-> 00:12:44,010 |Don't turn to anyone else and say, I made a mistake today help me feel better, you have to endure that. And if you're going to start your journey with this 75 +|74 |00:12:44,190 ~-~-> 00:12:54,450 |mindset of seeking approval, or support outside of yourself, this is going to be a very hard journey for you. So you have to prepare yourself to seek your own 76 +|75 |00:12:54,450 ~-~-> 00:13:03,360 |approval, by your own study in your own development. reward yourself when you do it, right. And when you do it wrong, give yourself permission to be wrong. And 77 +|76 |00:13:03,360 ~-~-> 00:13:18,540 |allow yourself to grow. Next, learn risk management well, and make that your initial very first thing that you want to master. So you're controlling your 78 +|77 |00:13:18,540 ~-~-> 00:13:27,600 |impulses to stop telling everybody your business, okay? It's your business, it's not their business, stop giving your business to someone else. Next in line, 79 +|78 |00:13:27,720 ~-~-> 00:13:36,780 |it's the risk, you have to understand what you're getting involved in. If you're gonna be treated with live funds, you are losing money, that's a 100% guarantee, 80 +|79 |00:13:36,960 ~-~-> 00:13:48,270 |you are losing money, there is never, ever going to be a trader that starts and never has a loss. My very first trade was a loss, I lost 50% of my account 81 +|80 |00:13:49,170 ~-~-> 00:14:01,800 |overnight. And orange juice option. I had no idea what I was doing. I was baptized, thrown in the water and drown. Okay, it was just that short and sweet. 82 +|81 |00:14:02,340 ~-~-> 00:14:13,140 |And I closed the account asked for the remainder of my account. And that was the end of my Fox investments. Career that was the brokerage firm I use at the time. 83 +|82 |00:14:14,310 ~-~-> 00:14:23,850 |And I had to go and discover how to actually look at charts and learn a little bit more about the risks. So I didn't understand risks. When I got into trading. 84 +|83 |00:14:23,940 ~-~-> 00:14:31,980 |I thought that it should work right away because I saw the book. The book said it does this. So therefore, when I looked at the chart, aren't you should have 85 +|84 |00:14:31,980 ~-~-> 00:14:42,660 |performed the same way. Because that's what this guy said in the book. You know, this guy told me in at least three pages that the market when it does this 86 +|85 |00:14:42,660 ~-~-> 00:14:56,190 |wiggle and waggle didn't ask you to expect it to move this particular way. And where does he get off? telling me this? And then it not being true. You see 87 +|86 |00:14:56,220 ~-~-> 00:15:06,570 |where the disconnection is? That was how I looked at it. Because I didn't want to take the responsibility of the risks. And I figured, well, I'm gonna add an 88 +|87 |00:15:06,570 ~-~-> 00:15:17,010 |option, what's the worst that could happen? All of my money could have been gone. That's the worst. And in one day, overnight, while I was sleeping, woke up 89 +|88 |00:15:17,070 ~-~-> 00:15:28,890 |expecting to see I'm going to be in, I'm gonna be in the profits. Yeah, I wasn't expecting that down 50% Welcome to trading Michael. And it was a shock. And I 90 +|89 |00:15:28,890 ~-~-> 00:15:38,220 |just completely collapsed, said give me my money, I'm worn out. And that money couldn't get back to me fast enough. And back then they'd sent it in a check. 91 +|90 |00:15:38,250 ~-~-> 00:15:47,820 |And he had to wait for the check come in the mail. It was, it was awful. So the first thing you want to be focusing on is managing risk and understanding the 92 +|91 |00:15:47,820 ~-~-> 00:16:02,250 |underlying risks that's available to you, if you trade. You want to appreciate the percent over the dollar gain or loss. When I first started, I was interested 93 +|92 |00:16:02,250 ~-~-> 00:16:12,930 |in making a specific dollar amount. I didn't understand compound interest, I didn't understand the Kelly criterion, optimal F, none of the advanced money 94 +|93 |00:16:12,930 ~-~-> 00:16:15,330 |management theories that I adhere to now. 95 +|94 |00:16:17,040 ~-~-> 00:16:28,140 |And I just looked for dollars, you know, if I can make 500 bucks on this move, that's what I want to make in my stop loss was was the maximum I could take. And 96 +|95 |00:16:28,140 ~-~-> 00:16:37,620 |that's exactly what I was doing. Because I was afraid I'm gonna get stopped out. So I had this unrealistic stop loss that was just unbelievably wide. 97 +|96 |00:16:38,010 ~-~-> 00:16:38,550 |Or 98 +|97 |00:16:38,730 ~-~-> 00:16:48,450 |I didn't have one, I was using a mental stop, which will drive you mental if you're driving in a truck 13 hours a day getting out loading cans, soda, and 99 +|98 |00:16:49,050 ~-~-> 00:16:55,950 |junk food in the candy machines and going around and fixing machines that aren't right. And you're constantly wondering what the markets doing, and you don't 100 +|99 |00:16:55,950 ~-~-> 00:17:05,220 |have a stoploss. Yeah, it's already bad enough that you got the time to market and pick the right direction. But now you got to add to it that you're doing it 101 +|100 |00:17:05,220 ~-~-> 00:17:14,940 |blind, with no stop loss, and anything can happen. And that's what I was doing. I mean, literally, I was like a cowboy out there riding bulls 102 +|101 |00:17:15,510 ~-~-> 00:17:16,020 |with 103 +|102 |00:17:16,800 ~-~-> 00:17:25,020 |no experience whatsoever. And if I was thrown off, it was always going to be the worst case, it was really going to be bad. Every single time I took a loss, it 104 +|103 |00:17:25,020 ~-~-> 00:17:32,490 |was going to be bad. Either I got crushed, and I got out because I couldn't handle the pain anymore. Or if I had to stop, it was running against me taking 105 +|104 |00:17:32,490 ~-~-> 00:17:42,210 |me out and it was going to be the maximum risk that I could absorb in that trade. So you want to appreciate the percentage of what you are taking on as 106 +|105 |00:17:42,210 ~-~-> 00:17:51,840 |risk also with your gains. So don't be impressed with a specific dollar amount. Or don't look at a specific dollar amount as well, it doesn't hurt that bad 107 +|106 |00:17:51,840 ~-~-> 00:18:02,640 |because it's only 300 bucks. But if your account is 3000, that's 10%. That's considerable. You don't want to do that. Because you can't do too many of those 108 +|107 |00:18:02,640 ~-~-> 00:18:13,050 |and not see your account be lowered to a level where it's a little bit difficult to come back from that as a new trader. So appreciate the percentage over dollar 109 +|108 |00:18:13,050 ~-~-> 00:18:27,870 |gain or loss. Learn to limit trade frequency. I felt that since the markets were opening up tomorrow, and I had to be in there. So I was over trading. And if I 110 +|109 |00:18:27,870 ~-~-> 00:18:38,460 |got a profit, and I was able to get out in intraday I was like, Well, that was fun. I want to go on here and do it again. When there was 20 minutes left in the 111 +|110 |00:18:38,460 ~-~-> 00:18:47,610 |trading session, because I was trading commodities. They had pit hours where it would open at this time and close at this time. And I figured well, it's still 112 +|111 |00:18:47,610 ~-~-> 00:18:57,570 |open, anything can happen. And if I'm right, I mean, I can make some more money before it closes. I had no idea what I was doing folks, zero idea. I was looking 113 +|112 |00:18:57,570 ~-~-> 00:19:11,070 |at these these charts, and they were speaking to me. And it was all the wrong things. He was telling me gamble. And that's what I was doing. I had money in 114 +|113 |00:19:11,070 ~-~-> 00:19:18,900 |the account, there was hours still left in the trading or 20 minutes. In this case, as an example, I pathetically and I was going in here. And if I could get 115 +|114 |00:19:18,930 ~-~-> 00:19:27,330 |more money before the close, that's what I was doing. And that's what hurt me. Because I didn't understand the risk. When you're getting close to the end of 116 +|115 |00:19:27,330 ~-~-> 00:19:37,950 |the session, the end of the trading day or the end of the week, you have to know that there's a large degree of risk in the fact that you're probably not going 117 +|116 |00:19:37,950 ~-~-> 00:19:46,680 |to see any really major move at that point because it's already behind you. And you want to limit the number of trades you take because the more frequency you 118 +|117 |00:19:46,680 ~-~-> 00:19:56,730 |have in your trades, the more than likely you're going to lose. And if you have a lot of trades, you're going to have a lot more losses and losses mount up and 119 +|118 |00:19:56,730 ~-~-> 00:20:05,400 |you don't want that to occur, especially as a developing trader. You really don't want that to occur at any time, really. But you have to learn to limit 120 +|119 |00:20:05,550 ~-~-> 00:20:19,800 |your trade frequency. Avoid short term trading, turning it into long term trading. When I first started, I had no idea what style of trading that I was 121 +|120 |00:20:19,800 ~-~-> 00:20:29,220 |going to really focus on on, I was being told I wanted to be a position trader, you get on the daily chart, catch a 123, hold it for three, four or five, six 122 +|121 |00:20:29,220 ~-~-> 00:20:40,110 |months. And I couldn't do it just couldn't do it. And when I started trading with short term strategies, and such, when I was in winners, that started to 123 +|122 |00:20:40,110 ~-~-> 00:20:50,280 |move a lot for me. If you trade of any length of time, eventually you're going to get lucky with something. And when it starts moving in your favor really 124 +|123 |00:20:50,280 ~-~-> 00:21:02,100 |explosively. Something happens inside of our brain, it's like, Okay, this was only going to be a trade for a couple hours and maybe make, you know, five or 125 +|124 |00:21:02,100 ~-~-> 00:21:16,110 |six handles in the s&p, or 100 pips in the Forex, okay, or a $2.50 cent move in the stock that you're trading. But now because it's exploded, you're like, well, 126 +|125 |00:21:16,110 ~-~-> 00:21:28,560 |this is now a six month trade. And you end up holding on to a winner turn loser. And you changed your strategy from it was gonna be a short term trade, to now a 127 +|126 |00:21:28,560 ~-~-> 00:21:40,320 |long term trade in that short term gain turns into a now an immediate loss. It's debilitating. stick to what you were trying to do. When it gets to your 128 +|127 |00:21:40,320 ~-~-> 00:21:51,720 |objectives, scale out and get your target and move to the sidelines, don't change strategies, while you're in a trade that never ever, ever is a good 129 +|128 |00:21:51,720 ~-~-> 00:22:03,660 |thing. And be content with enough. If you had a profitable week, and it's Thursday, close up shop Who says you have to trade on Friday? What happens if 130 +|129 |00:22:03,660 ~-~-> 00:22:13,560 |you have a good Monday and Tuesday, and it's way beyond your normal return you return? Why would you want to press your luck, the chances are, 131 +|130 |00:22:13,559 ~-~-> 00:22:22,739 |you're not going to give some of that back, if not all of it. And when I was younger, I did that a lot in my first six years. But I didn't care. It didn't 132 +|131 |00:22:22,739 ~-~-> 00:22:33,329 |bother me and didn't have any appreciation for the risk. Because I figured well, I'm gonna be right eventually, in every trade, I was swinging for the fences. 133 +|132 |00:22:33,779 ~-~-> 00:22:40,709 |And I wanted to make lots and lots of money. But the problem with that is, because I was taking on so much risk, when I had a little bit of a profit, I 134 +|133 |00:22:40,709 ~-~-> 00:22:50,609 |would close because I just couldn't handle that anymore. It was wearing me down like unexpected to make $1,000 in this trade. Alright, I'm up to 50. I'm just, I 135 +|134 |00:22:50,609 ~-~-> 00:23:03,269 |just gotta get out, I'm fatigued. That's what the market will do to you. If you have no appreciation for the risk. Don't undermine your trading, by not tackling 136 +|135 |00:23:03,359 ~-~-> 00:23:18,179 |the first lesson in risk management, you have to understand it, and how you personally engage with the marketplace and how you are, I guess, adversely 137 +|136 |00:23:19,079 ~-~-> 00:23:27,869 |affected, I guess that's the train of thought I'm trying to communicate here. Because unless you feel the pain of being in a market that's not moving in your 138 +|137 |00:23:27,869 ~-~-> 00:23:41,819 |favor, or screaming against you. You're not going to fully appreciate what I'm saying here. And as a younger man. I saw lots of equity swings that would make 139 +|138 |00:23:41,849 ~-~-> 00:23:50,819 |anyone else nauseous. And I just didn't care. I had no appreciation. I had no respect for the marketplace, because I figured I'm going to get it right and 140 +|139 |00:23:50,819 ~-~-> 00:24:03,029 |eventually. And I went through many accounts, not one or two, many, like 14 individual trading accounts. And I would save up money, save up money. My first 141 +|140 |00:24:03,059 ~-~-> 00:24:13,169 |account was with a credit card. And then the second account was with another credit card 20 $600 on a nation's bank, credit card visa. And you pay a lot a 142 +|141 |00:24:13,229 ~-~-> 00:24:24,059 |lot of percentage in terms of interest when you borrow cash. And I just was doing everything wrong, everything wrong, but I was not going to be deterred. 143 +|142 |00:24:26,879 ~-~-> 00:24:38,639 |Moving on. You want to prevent life imbalances, and this is one of the things that I failed miserably yet. I have a pretty large family of five children. One 144 +|143 |00:24:38,639 ~-~-> 00:24:48,629 |that was brought into my marriage. I brought one into my marriage, and I had three children or three sons with my present wife. I didn't spend a lot of time 145 +|144 |00:24:48,629 ~-~-> 00:24:56,759 |with my kids. When I was younger. I was consumed with the marketplace. I was consumed with making money. I was consumed with building businesses. I was 146 +|145 |00:24:56,789 ~-~-> 00:25:13,019 |consumed with real estate, buying franchises. Just always Money, money, money, money, money, and most of my children's sporting events, I missed them. And it 147 +|146 |00:25:13,019 ~-~-> 00:25:25,259 |was very hard to see how much time I missed when I look back. And now look at my children as adults, not all of them, I have a 15 year old, and he shouldn't be 148 +|147 |00:25:25,259 ~-~-> 00:25:37,619 |13 year old, yet still living with me. But my older children, I don't have a lot of memories. Because I allowed the market to steal that. And I chased it more, 149 +|148 |00:25:37,799 ~-~-> 00:25:48,689 |the faster it ran away from me, the more I would pursue it, because I was telling myself that I'm doing all of this for them. And that wasn't true. I was 150 +|149 |00:25:48,689 ~-~-> 00:26:04,829 |doing it for me, me, because I hated my job. I hated where I was in life. And I wanted more. And I wasn't satisfied where I was. And every adversity brought on 151 +|150 |00:26:04,829 ~-~-> 00:26:20,249 |a new sense of urgency that I gotta get this changed right now. And days would pass and turn to weeks, to months to years. And I missed so much time with my 152 +|151 |00:26:20,249 ~-~-> 00:26:28,589 |wife, I missed so much time with my children. And the greatest lesson, I can tell you right now, if you're new, especially if you're a young man or woman, 153 +|152 |00:26:29,309 ~-~-> 00:26:43,589 |and you're getting ready to get into this, these markets are vampires, they will suck every drop in the marrow in your bones, if you give it to them. It does not 154 +|153 |00:26:43,589 ~-~-> 00:26:53,309 |matter how much money you think you can make or eventually make. Because I'm gonna tell you something, I've made a lot of money, millions of real dollars, 155 +|154 |00:26:53,549 ~-~-> 00:27:02,939 |millions. And I would give it all back. If I could go back in time, and be able to spend the time with my kids and my wife that I missed. 156 +|155 |00:27:08,849 ~-~-> 00:27:20,639 |I created a prison cell for myself with these markets that I willfully put myself into every single day. And it wasn't enough to be in the daytime, 157 +|156 |00:27:21,209 ~-~-> 00:27:31,559 |worrying that all day long at work. Was I being a good employee? No. Many times I have asked my job, because I had to get back to the truck where my quote trek 158 +|157 |00:27:31,559 ~-~-> 00:27:41,969 |was, which was my little quote machine telling me what the soybean market was doing, or what live cattle was doing, or what the bond market was doing. I was 159 +|158 |00:27:41,969 ~-~-> 00:27:53,309 |more concerned about that. And most of the time I was losing money. So I wasn't a good employee at the time. And when I got home in the evening time, what was I 160 +|159 |00:27:53,309 ~-~-> 00:28:11,009 |concerned about? family? No, I was concerned about the market. I was wanting to know, what can I do to make more money. And my family will be there when I'm 161 +|160 |00:28:11,009 ~-~-> 00:28:26,909 |done. And that's a lie. It's a lie. You're going to give up your life if you don't pay attention to it. So how do you avoid it? You have to manage your 162 +|161 |00:28:26,909 ~-~-> 00:28:37,409 |family time and schedule it. This is the time for your family. No markets, no charts, no TV time looking at reports and news events that would drive the 163 +|162 |00:28:37,409 ~-~-> 00:28:49,199 |marketplace. No newspapers, no articles and magazines, no internet, no Twitter, none of that stuff. You manage your family time and you schedule it. And then 164 +|163 |00:28:49,199 ~-~-> 00:29:05,639 |once you have gave your family your time, an ample amount of it, then you'd have to return back to the marketplace. You want to keep a study and trade schedule. 165 +|164 |00:29:07,949 ~-~-> 00:29:18,239 |That means what time of day, are you gonna be looking at the market trade. And there are specific times of the day or days of the week, months of the year that 166 +|165 |00:29:18,239 ~-~-> 00:29:25,739 |you want to be focusing on trading. And there are other times when you don't want to be doing that. And you want to be focusing on what they are. And what 167 +|166 |00:29:25,739 ~-~-> 00:29:33,599 |are you going to study how much time each day are you going to unlock for studying. Because if you don't have that, you're just going to go in there and 168 +|167 |00:29:33,599 ~-~-> 00:29:42,569 |say, well, it's basically like Netflix. I'm gonna sit down, binge watch and see what happens. Well, if you look at a chart long enough, it's gonna start telling 169 +|168 |00:29:42,569 ~-~-> 00:29:54,509 |you, you know, if you put some money into me, I might give you some more back and you're going to gamble. How long will a gambler sit in front of a slot 170 +|169 |00:29:54,509 ~-~-> 00:30:04,799 |machine with a pocketful of quarters before they put all the quarters in there. As fast as they get the next one. And that's what these charts are their slot 171 +|170 |00:30:04,799 ~-~-> 00:30:13,079 |machines. And you're great, you're being groomed as a gambler and all the books and things that you learn from other people. And it's just an enticement to 172 +|171 |00:30:13,079 ~-~-> 00:30:26,519 |constantly do that feed that beast. So you have to keep a study and trade schedule, and only operate on that basis. Off, these are off days, on the 173 +|172 |00:30:26,519 ~-~-> 00:30:35,579 |weekends, I spent more time worrying about the marketplace when I should have been spending it with my family. So you have to absolutely hold yourself hard 174 +|173 |00:30:35,579 ~-~-> 00:30:46,499 |and fast to when you don't have any market activity. And it's not trading or to holiday, it may impact with lower volume, that's an off day. And you don't look 175 +|174 |00:30:46,529 ~-~-> 00:30:55,589 |at the charts, you don't concern yourself with looking at what could have happened, none of that stuff you poured into your family that will prevent you 176 +|175 |00:30:55,589 ~-~-> 00:31:09,059 |from having a life imbalance. And finally, you want to be patient with your development. I was overzealous and unrealistic about what I wanted to do once I 177 +|176 |00:31:09,059 ~-~-> 00:31:17,579 |started making money. That's what caught fire in me. And I was like, I want more, I want more I want more. And when I saw I could take a very small account 178 +|177 |00:31:18,659 ~-~-> 00:31:32,369 |1200 15 $100 to $15,000. In less than six weeks, I was like this is exactly what I want to do. Like I want to do this, I want to do anything else. And you don't 179 +|178 |00:31:32,369 ~-~-> 00:31:45,419 |have to rush, especially if you're younger than 30. Like if you're in your 20s you have so much time to get yourself where you want to be. But you want to take 180 +|179 |00:31:45,419 ~-~-> 00:31:54,449 |the time to develop yourself and learn a lot about yourself. Because if you're not aware of what you're going to likely do to yourself to throw yourself off 181 +|180 |00:31:54,449 ~-~-> 00:31:54,989 |the rails. 182 +|181 |00:31:56,880 ~-~-> 00:32:04,650 |It doesn't matter what you're going to learn or what you're going to do or how much money you start with, or how much time you put into it, it just means that 183 +|182 |00:32:04,650 ~-~-> 00:32:14,940 |you're going to rush to destruction. So you have to give yourself a realistic timeline. When I first started, my plan was I wanted to retire at 40. I want to 184 +|183 |00:32:14,940 ~-~-> 00:32:27,180 |make $1,000 a month and retire at 40. That was my plan. And I quickly learned that that was a really low objective. What was possible was a lot more than 185 +|184 |00:32:27,180 ~-~-> 00:32:40,380 |that. But I wasn't prepared to see that type of equity increase. When I started making a lot of money. It's like a drug in it makes you want to do more and more 186 +|185 |00:32:40,380 ~-~-> 00:32:51,300 |and you throw that in with you didn't care about risk because I didn't it hurt me. And I would see these huge gains and then huge draw downs. So while I'd have 187 +|186 |00:32:51,510 ~-~-> 00:33:01,830 |really big run up, and it had a roller coaster drop, and it would just put me back in that I gotta go back and spend more time on the charts and who was 188 +|187 |00:33:01,830 ~-~-> 00:33:13,200 |suffering, my family, my children didn't get to see her family, her father that much. My wife didn't get to see me as much as her husband. And I missed out on a 189 +|188 |00:33:13,200 ~-~-> 00:33:27,420 |lot. And seeing a couple photographs is not the same as being there to cheer your kid on. When he's up and he hits his first home run. I missed that. When 190 +|189 |00:33:27,420 ~-~-> 00:33:42,720 |his basketball team wins, and he made that shot great for the last bell. I missed that. But hey, I made money on lean hogs. It doesn't measure up. 191 +|190 |00:33:48,510 ~-~-> 00:33:58,200 |Stop buying retail logic and tools. You just don't want to be filling your head out with all of this poor thinking, okay, because that's exactly what it is. 192 +|191 |00:33:58,770 ~-~-> 00:34:08,730 |Everything that you learn in retail books and courses is diametrically opposed to how the actual markets work. So stop wasting money on books. And I've 193 +|192 |00:34:08,730 ~-~-> 00:34:20,820 |purchased either by electronic format, or actual hardcopy books, over 2000 of them, and I won't buy another book ever again. And I wish I would have stopped 194 +|193 |00:34:20,970 ~-~-> 00:34:28,650 |the second year that I started buying in my head. In my mind, I was gonna buy as many books as I could, because somebody out there, it's going to have the 195 +|194 |00:34:28,650 ~-~-> 00:34:37,080 |secret. And I'm gonna tell you after reading over 2000 books, none of them did. And there are some real classics in there. And the ones that I do, like I've 196 +|195 |00:34:37,080 ~-~-> 00:34:48,150 |mentioned before, and I know some of you are new and you want to know what they are. For money management, I like everything from Ralph Vince and Ryan Jones. 197 +|196 |00:34:48,210 ~-~-> 00:34:55,740 |They do a lot of optimal F and Kelly criterion. It's a little bit advanced. I'm not saying that everyone that first starts trading should mess with that because 198 +|197 |00:34:55,980 ~-~-> 00:35:04,380 |it's meant to run your account up pretty quick and You're not going to be prepared for that. And I wasn't either. That's why I couldn't make it work right 199 +|198 |00:35:04,380 ~-~-> 00:35:15,660 |away. So I did learn a lot about myself, and then tune it for me. How many million dollar trading commodities last year, it's a 1970s book from Larry 200 +|199 |00:35:15,660 ~-~-> 00:35:27,360 |Williams, that books still is relevant today. Not every little thing in there is but majority of that book is. That was the real first inspiration for me to see 201 +|200 |00:35:27,360 ~-~-> 00:35:37,500 |how smart money operates in the marketplace. And then that was my pursuit for the rest of my life, I was gonna crack these markets. So that trading for a 202 +|201 |00:35:37,500 ~-~-> 00:35:52,860 |living buy outs and their elder market wizards wanting to just for inspiration, and street smarts, by Linda raschke. And Larry Connors. That's it. Now, if you 203 +|202 |00:35:52,860 ~-~-> 00:36:03,210 |want to know what to do the opposite of john Murphy's technical analysis of financial markets book, that's the retail traders Bible. I always recommend that 204 +|203 |00:36:03,210 ~-~-> 00:36:10,290 |one simply because you want to learn how to do the opposite of everything that's being taught in that book. And if you do that, you're going to quickly see how 205 +|204 |00:36:10,290 ~-~-> 00:36:23,790 |charts are really, really fun to watch, then, because it's such a high degree of percentage of failing, that, it's more likely if you just fade those moves, 206 +|205 |00:36:23,910 ~-~-> 00:36:36,990 |you'll probably see the chart, work in your favor. Avoid looking for hot hand gurus, I did this a lot on America Online. I chased everybody, if they had a 207 +|206 |00:36:36,990 ~-~-> 00:36:47,040 |service, I was trying it out, at least for well back then they would do it by the week. Now everything's by month. And everything was at the time, a 208 +|207 |00:36:47,040 ~-~-> 00:36:56,400 |newsletter, or a phone number, you had a call and pay a couple of dollars a minute or whatever. And he would tell you what they were trading. And I never 209 +|208 |00:36:56,400 ~-~-> 00:37:07,710 |made money with that stuff. Even Larry Williams, not to be disrespectful towards him, but I, at one time, was paying for his hotline. And you would just call him 210 +|209 |00:37:07,710 ~-~-> 00:37:18,030 |up and he would have a recording. And it was basically what he was going to do with the bond market and with the s&p market, and I did those trades, and I lost 211 +|210 |00:37:18,030 ~-~-> 00:37:25,380 |money. And again, I'm not saying that he's not a profitable trader, I'm not saying is not a good trader. I'm not saying he's not a good teacher. I'm just 212 +|211 |00:37:25,380 ~-~-> 00:37:34,110 |saying my personal experience dealing that I lost money on every single trade. So avoid looking for hockey and gurus This is the reason why I don't hold 213 +|212 |00:37:34,110 ~-~-> 00:37:42,510 |people's hands I don't say is that we're gonna do buy here, sell here, stop me, I don't do that. Because all that does is create codependence and you don't want 214 +|213 |00:37:42,510 ~-~-> 00:37:45,090 |to be a codependent trader, you want to be an independent thinking trader, 215 +|214 |00:37:47,550 ~-~-> 00:37:56,250 |become your own signal generator. The big thing is always as a new trader, you want to find someone that's good. You don't want to find a mentor, you want to 216 +|215 |00:37:56,250 ~-~-> 00:38:07,200 |find someone that's going to tell you what they're doing and making money so you can copy them. And I fell victim to that, too. I didn't want to trust my own 217 +|216 |00:38:07,350 ~-~-> 00:38:15,810 |analysis, I got lazy and thinking, well, I really just wanna make a lot of money. So if I can find someone who's really good, I'll just copy them. And 218 +|217 |00:38:16,350 ~-~-> 00:38:23,640 |everything they do, I'm going to take the trades, since they're successful. Even if I take a couple losses here and there. I'm just gonna stick with it. So what 219 +|218 |00:38:23,640 ~-~-> 00:38:34,500 |am I really saying there? I'm saying that I'm going to use them as my system. And I'm accepting losses. I knew they're probably going to come. But I'm holding 220 +|219 |00:38:34,500 ~-~-> 00:38:43,560 |out that they're going to have more wins than losses. Now, doesn't that make sense? If you apply it to your own strategy, but when you as a new trader start, 221 +|220 |00:38:43,800 ~-~-> 00:38:55,380 |you don't want to accept losses. That's not acceptable. But when you justify your suspending, when you buy other people's signals, it's somehow brought into 222 +|221 |00:38:55,380 ~-~-> 00:39:03,690 |the reasoning part of the decision making, that it's something that's acceptable, losing trades, it's acceptable until you take that first loss, and 223 +|222 |00:39:03,690 ~-~-> 00:39:17,250 |then you're not subscribing anymore. You go back to looking for another hot hand guru. Be willing to lose and lose a lot early on. It's part of it. You don't 224 +|223 |00:39:17,250 ~-~-> 00:39:31,260 |know what you're doing. And no book, no course even me. If I sat with you every single day, for a month, you would still take losses, you would lose. it's 225 +|224 |00:39:31,530 ~-~-> 00:39:40,260 |unavoidable. But early on when you are developing, you're going to be wrong a lot. And this is reasonable. I tell people do not trade with my funds until you 226 +|225 |00:39:40,260 ~-~-> 00:39:47,880 |know exactly what you're doing. And you understand yourself. And that may be longer than six months. It may be longer than a year. For somebody it might be 227 +|226 |00:39:47,880 ~-~-> 00:39:57,510 |234 years, like a college degree. And you some of you aren't prepared for that. And there's no shame in you saying you know what this thing for me, that's good. 228 +|227 |00:39:57,510 ~-~-> 00:40:03,690 |That means you're not going to lose money. That means you're not going to have Have imbalances in your life, it means that you're not going to hurt yourself, 229 +|228 |00:40:04,470 ~-~-> 00:40:15,090 |both financially and psychologically. Because I did that. I caused physical problems with an eating disorder. I developed agoraphobia, which was a fear of 230 +|229 |00:40:15,090 ~-~-> 00:40:30,810 |being around other people. Because I didn't want them to find out how bad I was losing. And I wish I could go back in time and tell myself losing is normal. 231 +|230 |00:40:31,560 ~-~-> 00:40:40,620 |it's acceptable, it's part of the business transactions in this industry, you're going to have losses, control them. Over time, you're going to make more money 232 +|231 |00:40:40,620 ~-~-> 00:40:51,330 |than you lose. I didn't think that way. When I first started, I was trying to avoid losing all together. And then every single loss was a paramount event, 233 +|232 |00:40:51,360 ~-~-> 00:41:04,500 |like it was huge, it was elevated to some grandiose, painful, just terrible thing that I had been enduring. When it's just, I did it wrong. Simple. You made 234 +|233 |00:41:04,500 ~-~-> 00:41:12,450 |a mistake, Michael, and you're gonna make lots of them. 27 years from now, you're gonna have so many losing trades, you're gonna look back and say, You 235 +|234 |00:41:12,450 ~-~-> 00:41:21,600 |know what? It didn't kill me. So be willing to lose a lot and early on in your development. That's why you want to do it on paper. That's why you want to do it 236 +|235 |00:41:21,600 ~-~-> 00:41:30,570 |on demo, because you need to see what it feels like to be wrong a lot and not have the money taken from you. And then correct those problems before you put 237 +|236 |00:41:30,570 ~-~-> 00:41:47,460 |real money at work. Stay away from social media drains. Well, in this age, we have a lot of social media. But back when I first started November 5 1992, 238 +|237 |00:41:47,700 ~-~-> 00:41:58,170 |social media was just starting up with message boards, or bulletin boards they call them. So it's kind of like Twitter. Yeah, not so much Instagram, but 239 +|238 |00:41:58,200 ~-~-> 00:42:08,130 |basically like Twitter, he just people would just communicate with open emails, basically, as the format was whatever you would look at and see that would be 240 +|239 |00:42:08,340 ~-~-> 00:42:18,840 |sent by way of an email, it would just be a open source where people could see what everybody was doing a message board, basically. And I would get my feelings 241 +|240 |00:42:18,840 ~-~-> 00:42:25,920 |hurt back then. Because someone would say, that's a stupid idea what you're doing. And then when I was doing it, right, everybody was like, Man, you are a 242 +|241 |00:42:25,920 ~-~-> 00:42:35,040 |rock star. I'm taking that trade. And I was like, Yeah, I don't know, I'm making money now. Because he or she thinks it's a good trade. That's stupid. It was 243 +|242 |00:42:35,040 ~-~-> 00:42:41,910 |dumb. I let other people back then influence my decisions or change the level of 244 +|243 |00:42:43,800 ~-~-> 00:42:55,020 |that expectation I had on the trade. Because if they said me, that's a good idea. I think it's going to go to 1150. When I was looking at like, 1080, I'm 245 +|244 |00:42:55,020 ~-~-> 00:43:01,920 |thinking myself, yeah, they're probably right. And I would change my trade to what they're saying, because, man, I don't want them to be right. And we miss 246 +|245 |00:43:01,920 ~-~-> 00:43:13,410 |out on that extra profit. You see what that trapped is did. It took my trade away from me. And now I took their trade, who's in control there? It wasn't me. 247 +|246 |00:43:14,040 ~-~-> 00:43:27,030 |I let go on the wheel. don't join trading clubs. Okay. That means circles where everyone has the hive mentality. Because you need to discover who you are as a 248 +|247 |00:43:27,030 ~-~-> 00:43:40,680 |trader, and it's very, I guess, wasteful for your time. And it stunts your growth. If you start going into a group that has Well, this is the only way of 249 +|248 |00:43:40,680 ~-~-> 00:43:51,030 |trading. And this is all we do around here. Because what you're trying to do is be part of that. Click, okay. You're trying to take on the hive mentality, and 250 +|249 |00:43:51,030 ~-~-> 00:44:00,900 |it may not be suited for you. But you can waste more time and unfortunately, money. You don't want to discover that you've been wasting your time and money. 251 +|250 |00:44:01,170 ~-~-> 00:44:14,070 |Okay? So you want to be solo. trading is a solo sport. It's not a team sport. No matter how good your guru or mentor is. If you're doing everything they say. You 252 +|251 |00:44:14,070 ~-~-> 00:44:28,260 |aren't in control. You're growing codependent. don't subscribe to alerts, it gets back to signals. You want to be the source or generation of the trade 253 +|252 |00:44:28,260 ~-~-> 00:44:35,160 |ideas. That way when you're wrong. you're forced to assume the responsibility. You can't say, Well, I just listened to that person. They were wrong. They suck. 254 +|253 |00:44:36,150 ~-~-> 00:44:46,590 |Oh, well. What are you gonna do about it? Well, I'm gonna find somebody else. That's not responsible. That's gambling. You're going to another slot machine at 255 +|254 |00:44:46,590 ~-~-> 00:45:02,220 |another casino. That's all that is. Versus I want to learn how to play cards. and manage my risk. Not bet too big. And just be steady Eddie at the table. You 256 +|255 |00:45:02,220 ~-~-> 00:45:08,790 |want to be the generating source of the signals? don't subscribe to someone else because you have no idea what got them in the trade. You don't know what 257 +|256 |00:45:08,790 ~-~-> 00:45:20,190 |influences are being imposed on them. Maybe they had a bad day. Maybe they had just recently had a spat with their spouse. And they feel like they have to feel 258 +|257 |00:45:20,190 ~-~-> 00:45:31,830 |good empowered me. I'm gonna go out there and just tell everybody to buy SMP tomorrow at the open. And if I'm right, I'll feel good. I'll feel better about 259 +|258 |00:45:31,830 ~-~-> 00:45:44,100 |this whole thing. Because they're human too. Do you want to be subscribing to someone that's like that. You don't know if that's what's going on? They're not 260 +|259 |00:45:44,100 ~-~-> 00:45:52,170 |going to come out and say, yeah, it's trade worked out. But let me tell you what really was going on. My wife told me I was a bomb. I spent too much time on 261 +|260 |00:45:52,170 ~-~-> 00:46:02,910 |these charts. And I didn't spend any time with the kids. And I walked the dog in six months. But I knew if I got this right, I'd feel stronger about myself. That 262 +|261 |00:46:02,910 ~-~-> 00:46:12,450 |never happens, folks, that never happens. Never subscribed to other people's alerts. Don't count other people's money. That's what's popular right? Now 263 +|262 |00:46:12,450 ~-~-> 00:46:20,010 |everyone wants to know how much money someone else has Instagram? What cars did he drive? What houses did they live in? Where are they having their vacation? 264 +|263 |00:46:20,040 ~-~-> 00:46:31,590 |What did he wear? What kind of shoes they have on? Did he wear socks? What kind of underwear do they have? What jewelry do they have? Come on. All that stuff is 265 +|264 |00:46:31,590 ~-~-> 00:46:41,160 |a waste. It's a waste, to waste your time, it's a waste of money. And you don't need all those things. If you're trading to do that, you're never going to get 266 +|265 |00:46:41,160 ~-~-> 00:46:52,290 |there. And I'm gonna repeat that. If you are trading to live like that. You're never going to get there. Because you're looking at money. And you're not 267 +|266 |00:46:52,290 ~-~-> 00:47:01,320 |looking at the process that's involved, that would eventually lead to profitability. So you're chasing that carrot, that little piece of candy that's 268 +|267 |00:47:01,320 ~-~-> 00:47:10,350 |dangled in front of a child, you may be a stranger. But if you dangle that candy in front of a child, what's the child gonna do? Reach out for that candy? And 269 +|268 |00:47:10,350 ~-~-> 00:47:23,010 |that's what all these people do. They dangle all this lavish toys and lifestyle, materialism. All of that is fluff. I've never done those types of things. And 270 +|269 |00:47:23,010 ~-~-> 00:47:31,800 |it's important to understand that the reason why I don't do it, it's not because of a lack of it. Because I have all those things. But it doesn't do anything to 271 +|270 |00:47:31,800 ~-~-> 00:47:39,630 |make you a better trader doesn't make you a better student. It will not in any capacity, motivate you. And then 272 +|271 |00:47:39,660 ~-~-> 00:47:49,470 |that translates into a greater skill set that's derived because you saw that it doesn't work like that. But how many people fall victim to that? Everyone, 273 +|272 |00:47:50,310 ~-~-> 00:48:00,150 |everyone, the first course I bought from Ken Roberts, that's all he talked about. You want to go on vacations, you want to have enough money to quit your 274 +|273 |00:48:00,150 ~-~-> 00:48:11,010 |job. You want to buy a yacht, you want to live in a mansion. That's what was sold to me. And I bought that course, in a month one trade the very first trade 275 +|274 |00:48:11,010 ~-~-> 00:48:21,990 |I lost 50% of what I put in? Well, I can tell you that was never said in the book that didn't get talked about at all. It just said, well, you can take some 276 +|275 |00:48:21,990 ~-~-> 00:48:35,220 |losses, but you don't want your losses to be too big. Okay. But what happens if it is because options are a little bit different animal. And I found out the 277 +|276 |00:48:35,220 ~-~-> 00:48:45,750 |hard way. Don't be enticed by other people's money. Don't count other people's money. Don't ask them what they make. Because you can't spend their money. 278 +|277 |00:48:46,890 ~-~-> 00:48:55,410 |That's why I don't talk about what I'm making. That's why I don't talk about what I have. That's why I don't show you what I own. Because you can't drive my 279 +|278 |00:48:55,410 ~-~-> 00:49:04,140 |cars. You're not going to spend a night at my house, you're not going to eat dinner, all my dishes. And you're not going to be on my vacations. So what 280 +|279 |00:49:04,140 ~-~-> 00:49:12,300 |difference does it make? It's not going to make me feel better about myself for doing it. In fact, I'll feel like a slime ball like I did when I was younger. 281 +|280 |00:49:12,570 ~-~-> 00:49:23,610 |Because I did that stuff to get people interested in me. It's not necessary. Don't feel insignificant by contrast, when you see other people succeeding or 282 +|281 |00:49:23,820 ~-~-> 00:49:37,200 |supposedly succeeding, don't measure yourself against that. Because if you do, what you're saying is I'm only successful if I get to where they're at. I did 283 +|282 |00:49:37,200 ~-~-> 00:49:50,850 |that. And when I stopped and said, You know what? I'm going to look at a goal. That's above everyone I've seen out there. I didn't I didn't believe anyone else 284 +|283 |00:49:50,850 ~-~-> 00:50:00,870 |was more successful than Larry Williams. And he took 10,000 hours or $1.2 million in one year. Actually, it was over $2 million that same year. 1987 but 285 +|284 |00:50:00,870 ~-~-> 00:50:09,420 |the crash Hardman had to trade it back and got it to 1.2 before the close of the Robins World Cup, that particular year, and you can see he still has the highest 286 +|285 |00:50:09,780 ~-~-> 00:50:22,350 |percentage gain in that contest. So I said, I'm gonna make more than that. Because that's what that was my measuring stick. And I wanted to do better than 287 +|286 |00:50:22,350 ~-~-> 00:50:35,130 |that. And I always live my life. With that in mind, I didn't want to say, What am I good is at the time, Jake Bernstein which he got himself in a lot of 288 +|287 |00:50:35,130 ~-~-> 00:50:47,280 |trouble. And it's questionable of how much money he actually made as a trader. point is I fell victim to that in the beginning. And you don't want to do that. 289 +|288 |00:50:47,280 ~-~-> 00:50:54,000 |Don't measure yourself against someone else. don't measure yourself against me, don't measure yourself against somebody else you see on social media, Instagram, 290 +|289 |00:50:54,000 ~-~-> 00:51:06,240 |all that these people 99% of time are fake. They are driving cars they don't own. And they're in homes that they don't sleep in. And the clothes that they 291 +|290 |00:51:06,240 ~-~-> 00:51:17,490 |have, many times, they're taking them back the next day. So what's the deal in watches, they're all basically fake. All that stuff is lower to make you think 292 +|291 |00:51:17,490 ~-~-> 00:51:26,700 |they're successful. If they're successful, they'll prove it by showing you. They know what's going to happen in the marketplace. But strangely enough, that's the 293 +|292 |00:51:26,700 ~-~-> 00:51:39,900 |thing they don't ever do. And that's what I focus on. I've made a reputation on telling you what I believe is the best in terms of market analysis concepts. In 294 +|293 |00:51:39,900 ~-~-> 00:51:50,130 |1996, I pinned what everybody else is out there now touting as market maker concepts in one capacity or another. It's a watered down version of what I put 295 +|294 |00:51:50,130 ~-~-> 00:52:03,810 |in lecture notes in 1996. What I started using in 1995, improved was real money. I started teaching one on one sessions. And they have made their way through the 296 +|295 |00:52:03,810 ~-~-> 00:52:13,110 |internet over time. And now we see even more that people have books about it. They've made courses about it, and then even included some of the things that 297 +|296 |00:52:13,110 ~-~-> 00:52:21,870 |actually occurred in my personal life, and some of their narratives. And it's all a lie. They didn't have those experiences, but I did. And I'm the only one 298 +|297 |00:52:21,870 ~-~-> 00:52:31,740 |that can prove that makes this stuff work. Don't feel insignificant by contrast, because majority of the people you see out there, they're fakes. They're frauds, 299 +|298 |00:52:31,740 ~-~-> 00:52:33,360 |and they aren't what they claim to be. 300 +|299 |00:52:38,910 ~-~-> 00:52:46,050 |match your style to your personality. This is something I picked up from Larry Williams, who made a lot of sense, and I avoided doing it for a long time, I 301 +|300 |00:52:46,050 ~-~-> 00:52:55,560 |wish I would have done it sooner. But if you're a scalper, okay, you're going to do very well if you make quick decisions. And that's as simple as that. If you 302 +|301 |00:52:55,620 ~-~-> 00:53:07,170 |hem and haw about trying to make a decision and you want to be a scalper or a day trader, it's going to be a problem. And if you short term trade, typically 303 +|302 |00:53:07,170 ~-~-> 00:53:15,060 |you're the type of person that can take a trade and sleep while you're in it. That that is a real good general rule of thumb. If you can sleep while you're in 304 +|303 |00:53:15,060 ~-~-> 00:53:24,930 |a trade, then you're probably a good short term trader. Don't force yourself into any mold. There's gurus, there's mentors, there's people out there to 305 +|304 |00:53:24,930 ~-~-> 00:53:36,240 |educate. And unfortunately, they try to take everyone and press them into this mold, this cookie cutter approach and it doesn't work. Avoid doing that. Don't 306 +|305 |00:53:36,240 ~-~-> 00:53:50,100 |try to copy someone, their style, their image, their forte, their approach their vocabulary, you see where I'm going with this don't. So many people out there on 307 +|306 |00:53:50,100 ~-~-> 00:54:05,340 |YouTube now sound a lot like ICT. Don't try to copy someone, be original, make your own unique model. Don't change trading approaches. stick to one approach, 308 +|307 |00:54:06,420 ~-~-> 00:54:19,110 |one method mastered and then see how you work with it. That means you're gonna have to spend some time with it. Most people don't want to do that. Avoid system 309 +|308 |00:54:19,110 ~-~-> 00:54:26,850 |hopping, okay. And the trap is if you take a trade and it loses, okay, that's reasonable. But if you take another train, you lose that's it. I'm throwing this 310 +|309 |00:54:26,850 ~-~-> 00:54:34,260 |away. This is stupid, this, this method doesn't work. I did that a lot. And I went through all kinds of trading systems. And that's the reason why I went 311 +|310 |00:54:34,260 ~-~-> 00:54:42,840 |through all kinds of trading accounts, because I wasn't consistent with anything except for system hopping. That was my only consistency. The baseline and my 312 +|311 |00:54:42,840 ~-~-> 00:54:55,290 |consistency was all around me not being consistent with one trading approach. Many traders fail. Every model loses. You're gonna have to accept that I 313 +|312 |00:54:55,290 ~-~-> 00:55:02,040 |mentioned it earlier with the risk. You can't avoid it. It's part of the business. Treat it like a no Normal transaction when you go to work, if you get 314 +|313 |00:55:02,040 ~-~-> 00:55:10,260 |sick, you miss a day's work. That's a loss. Did you lose your job? No. Did you lose your house? No. Did you have a little less money that week? Yeah, that's 315 +|314 |00:55:10,290 ~-~-> 00:55:20,850 |life. Well, that's how trading works. losses are inevitable, you're going to have them. Find your unique model and grow from it. Don't tweak it too much, 316 +|315 |00:55:20,850 ~-~-> 00:55:29,580 |once it's profitable, stick with it. And then what you'll find is, by using a more advanced money management approach, if you have a method that gives you a 317 +|316 |00:55:29,580 ~-~-> 00:55:38,130 |delivered result that's measurable, and it's consistent enough that it does it more times than it doesn't. If you add impeccable risk management and money 318 +|317 |00:55:38,130 ~-~-> 00:55:46,680 |management to that, you will become wealthy. And this story, there's no ifs, ands, or buts, that's the way it is. But you cannot get to that point until you 319 +|318 |00:55:46,680 ~-~-> 00:56:00,570 |go through all these other steps that are very, very boring, admittedly, but they're all part of the process. settle on one trade set up initially. Determine 320 +|319 |00:56:00,570 ~-~-> 00:56:11,400 |your asset class, pick one market asset class, it's a commodity. It's an index future. It's a forex pair. It's a cryptocurrency. It's a stock, whatever it is, 321 +|320 |00:56:12,000 ~-~-> 00:56:21,630 |stick to that one asset class. And inside that one asset class, pick one market. Outline when you want to buy, that means what's the criteria that you feel 322 +|321 |00:56:21,630 ~-~-> 00:56:30,300 |comfortable with when it's a buy, and then outline that and make it as detailed as possible, put it on paper. And the same thing with when you want to go short? 323 +|322 |00:56:30,720 ~-~-> 00:56:43,410 |What's the characteristics and circumstances that would drive you to believing it's a short and with that, you want to build many study journal cases, none. As 324 +|323 |00:56:43,410 ~-~-> 00:56:52,050 |I said, not live trades with real money. You want to have a study journal that has a plethora of examples of where this worked in the past and when it didn't, 325 +|324 |00:56:52,620 ~-~-> 00:57:01,740 |and study them in great lengths. So that way you get familiar with what it looks like by recognition. And then when you see live price action, you'll recognize 326 +|325 |00:57:01,740 ~-~-> 00:57:16,560 |it as it forms. Now, with all those things, you have something to start with. And now you can plan your beginning. In part two, I promise I won't be so long 327 +|326 |00:57:16,560 ~-~-> 00:57:26,370 |winded and boring. We're actually gonna give some insights on how you can go into the marketplace and study a very particular thing. And what that is, is the 328 +|327 |00:57:26,370 ~-~-> 00:57:29,760 |optimal trade entry. And I'll talk to you then I wish good luck and good trading. 4 4 5 -2 6 -00:00:17,669 ~-~-> 00:00:20,129 7 -part series. And right away, let me get 8 - 9 -3 10 -00:00:20,129 ~-~-> 00:00:22,319 11 -your expectations in alignment. This 12 - 13 -4 14 -00:00:22,319 ~-~-> 00:00:25,799 15 -first installment or Part one is 16 - 17 -5 18 -00:00:25,859 ~-~-> 00:00:30,059 19 -basically one of those commuter episodes 20 - 21 -6 22 -00:00:30,299 ~-~-> 00:00:32,819 23 -going back and forth to work. You can 24 - 25 -7 26 -00:00:32,819 ~-~-> 00:00:34,319 27 -listen to it that way because there's 28 - 29 -8 30 -00:00:34,319 ~-~-> 00:00:36,119 31 -not really anything in this one there's 32 - 33 -9 34 -00:00:36,119 ~-~-> 00:00:39,029 35 -going to be graphic intensive, no words, 36 - 37 -10 38 -00:00:39,029 ~-~-> 00:00:41,549 39 -no charts, nothing like that. No market 40 - 41 -11 42 -00:00:41,549 ~-~-> 00:00:43,349 43 -makers secret concepts being revealed on 44 - 45 -12 46 -00:00:43,349 ~-~-> 00:00:45,479 47 -some charts. It's basically a 48 - 49 -13 50 -00:00:45,479 ~-~-> 00:00:46,919 51 -hypothetical conversation with my 52 - 53 -14 54 -00:00:46,919 ~-~-> 00:00:49,979 55 -younger self. I get questions a lot by 56 - 57 -15 58 -00:00:49,979 ~-~-> 00:00:53,009 59 -email. If I could go back in time. You 60 - 61 -16 62 -00:00:53,009 ~-~-> 00:00:56,639 63 -know what I like to do differently and I 64 - 65 -17 66 -00:00:56,639 ~-~-> 00:00:59,369 67 -kind of like twisted that whole idea to 68 - 69 -18 70 -00:00:59,369 ~-~-> 00:01:02,789 71 -come up with the perspective. And if I 72 - 73 -19 74 -00:01:02,789 ~-~-> 00:01:04,979 75 -could go back and tell myself what I 76 - 77 -20 78 -00:01:04,979 ~-~-> 00:01:07,619 79 -know now, and this is basically a 80 - 81 -21 82 -00:01:07,619 ~-~-> 00:01:08,999 83 -hypothetical conversation with my 84 - 85 -22 86 -00:01:08,999 ~-~-> 00:01:09,719 87 -younger self. 88 - 89 -23 90 -00:01:18,539 ~-~-> 00:01:20,279 91 -If I could go back to the start of it 92 - 93 -24 94 -00:01:20,279 ~-~-> 00:01:23,789 95 -all, knowing what I know now, said, 96 - 97 -25 98 -00:01:23,849 ~-~-> 00:01:27,569 99 -Everyone, how many times have you looked 100 - 101 -26 102 -00:01:27,569 ~-~-> 00:01:29,399 103 -at a circumstance in your life not just 104 - 105 -27 106 -00:01:29,399 ~-~-> 00:01:33,359 107 -in trading, but in anything, every facet 108 - 109 -28 110 -00:01:33,359 ~-~-> 00:01:35,069 111 -of your life you wish you could go back 112 - 113 -29 114 -00:01:35,069 ~-~-> 00:01:37,199 115 -knowing what you know now, I used to 116 - 117 -30 118 -00:01:37,199 ~-~-> 00:01:39,149 119 -hear my grandparents say things like 120 - 121 -31 122 -00:01:39,149 ~-~-> 00:01:41,249 123 -that. And I was like, What? I couldn't 124 - 125 -32 126 -00:01:41,249 ~-~-> 00:01:45,449 127 -relate with it and or to it, but being 128 - 129 -33 130 -00:01:45,449 ~-~-> 00:01:49,169 131 -47 about the term 48 years old. There is 132 - 133 -34 134 -00:01:49,169 ~-~-> 00:01:51,719 135 -a laundry list of things. I wish I could 136 - 137 -35 138 -00:01:51,719 ~-~-> 00:01:53,429 139 -go back and change not just in my 140 - 141 -36 142 -00:01:53,429 ~-~-> 00:01:56,339 143 -trading journey, but in all facets of my 144 - 145 -37 146 -00:01:56,339 ~-~-> 00:01:59,399 147 -life. So I shared a bunch of those 148 - 149 -38 150 -00:01:59,399 ~-~-> 00:02:01,049 151 -personal things. Today on my Twitter 152 - 153 -39 154 -00:02:01,049 ~-~-> 00:02:02,849 155 -feed, if you haven't been over there you 156 - 157 -40 158 -00:02:02,849 ~-~-> 00:02:04,589 159 -can take a look at that and see my my 160 - 161 -41 162 -00:02:04,589 ~-~-> 00:02:06,539 163 -open discussion about many of the 164 - 165 -42 166 -00:02:08,129 ~-~-> 00:02:10,109 167 -frailties in my personal life coming up 168 - 169 -43 170 -00:02:10,109 ~-~-> 00:02:13,409 171 -as a younger man into where I am today. 172 - 173 -44 174 -00:02:17,489 ~-~-> 00:02:19,829 175 -I want to talk a little bit about some 176 - 177 -45 178 -00:02:19,829 ~-~-> 00:02:22,169 179 -of the things that I wish I could go 180 - 181 -46 182 -00:02:22,169 ~-~-> 00:02:24,899 183 -back in time and tell my younger self. 184 - 185 -47 186 -00:02:25,679 ~-~-> 00:02:27,449 187 -Now, the way you can use this for 188 - 189 -48 190 -00:02:27,449 ~-~-> 00:02:32,339 191 -yourself is take what I'm saying with a 192 - 193 -49 194 -00:02:32,339 ~-~-> 00:02:36,029 195 -great deal of appreciation because I 196 - 197 -50 198 -00:02:36,029 ~-~-> 00:02:38,429 199 -weathered a lot of storms, financially 200 - 201 -51 202 -00:02:38,429 ~-~-> 00:02:41,099 203 -and personally, to get to what I know 204 - 205 -52 206 -00:02:41,099 ~-~-> 00:02:45,659 207 -now. And you may be a very young person 208 - 209 -53 210 -00:02:46,079 ~-~-> 00:02:49,199 211 -and or an older person just now getting 212 - 213 -54 214 -00:02:49,199 ~-~-> 00:02:52,649 215 -involved in the markets. You're going to 216 - 217 -55 218 -00:02:52,649 ~-~-> 00:02:55,019 219 -have the same growing pains that 220 - 221 -56 222 -00:02:55,079 ~-~-> 00:02:56,879 223 -everyone else has, and some of these 224 - 225 -57 226 -00:02:56,879 ~-~-> 00:02:58,529 227 -things are going to be things you 228 - 229 -58 230 -00:02:58,529 ~-~-> 00:03:00,599 231 -probably read in books heard other 232 - 233 -59 234 -00:03:00,599 ~-~-> 00:03:02,849 235 -people talk about, but I'm going to give 236 - 237 -60 238 -00:03:02,849 ~-~-> 00:03:04,889 239 -you my personal spin on some of them and 240 - 241 -61 242 -00:03:04,889 ~-~-> 00:03:07,769 243 -how it applied to me. So it's kind of 244 - 245 -62 246 -00:03:07,769 ~-~-> 00:03:09,389 247 -like a little bit of a little history 248 - 249 -63 250 -00:03:09,389 ~-~-> 00:03:12,389 251 -book of what I was plagued with in my 252 - 253 -64 254 -00:03:12,389 ~-~-> 00:03:15,419 255 -first six years. The first six years of 256 - 257 -65 258 -00:03:15,419 ~-~-> 00:03:17,789 259 -my trading development, the first six 260 - 261 -66 262 -00:03:17,789 ~-~-> 00:03:20,879 263 -years of my trading, development is 264 - 265 -67 266 -00:03:21,989 ~-~-> 00:03:25,109 267 -plagued with everything you could have 268 - 269 -68 270 -00:03:25,109 ~-~-> 00:03:28,649 271 -possibly done wrong. And I want to kind 272 - 273 -69 274 -00:03:28,649 ~-~-> 00:03:31,229 275 -of like use this discussion to kind of 276 - 277 -70 278 -00:03:31,229 ~-~-> 00:03:32,909 279 -like go through some of the major 280 - 281 -71 282 -00:03:32,909 ~-~-> 00:03:37,139 283 -hurdles that I had. And again, since I 284 - 285 -72 286 -00:03:37,139 ~-~-> 00:03:41,489 287 -have children, adult children now they 288 - 289 -73 290 -00:03:41,879 ~-~-> 00:03:44,399 291 -can hopefully listen to this and mine. 292 - 293 -74 294 -00:03:44,999 ~-~-> 00:03:48,899 295 -The, I guess the experience portion of 296 - 297 -75 298 -00:03:48,899 ~-~-> 00:03:50,759 299 -it, because a lot of the things that 300 - 301 -76 302 -00:03:50,759 ~-~-> 00:03:52,259 303 -I've put on my YouTube channel and I've 304 - 305 -77 306 -00:03:52,259 ~-~-> 00:03:53,159 307 -taught over the years 308 - 309 -78 310 -00:03:54,600 ~-~-> 00:03:55,290 311 -it's 312 - 313 -79 314 -00:03:57,240 ~-~-> 00:04:00,990 315 -heavily technical There's a lot of 316 - 317 -80 318 -00:04:00,990 ~-~-> 00:04:02,700 319 -things that are going on in the chart. 320 - 321 -81 322 -00:04:03,150 ~-~-> 00:04:04,830 323 -And I am always accused of being long 324 - 325 -82 326 -00:04:04,830 ~-~-> 00:04:08,370 327 -winded. And again, if you're not into 328 - 329 -83 330 -00:04:08,760 ~-~-> 00:04:10,680 331 -you really understanding what is most 332 - 333 -84 334 -00:04:10,680 ~-~-> 00:04:12,240 335 -likely going to plague you, if you just 336 - 337 -85 338 -00:04:12,240 ~-~-> 00:04:13,560 339 -want to go through it yourself and have 340 - 341 -86 342 -00:04:13,560 ~-~-> 00:04:16,260 343 -all that experience. Have at it, don't 344 - 345 -87 346 -00:04:16,260 ~-~-> 00:04:19,500 347 -even listen to this video. And there's 348 - 349 -88 350 -00:04:19,500 ~-~-> 00:04:20,880 351 -no harm and you're not listening to this 352 - 353 -89 354 -00:04:20,880 ~-~-> 00:04:22,380 355 -part, you could really just so Kevin's 356 - 357 -90 358 -00:04:22,380 ~-~-> 00:04:24,480 359 -going to wait to part two, but it's 360 - 361 -91 362 -00:04:24,480 ~-~-> 00:04:29,400 363 -meant to be a resource for you to glean 364 - 365 -92 366 -00:04:30,150 ~-~-> 00:04:32,010 367 -experience from without having to go 368 - 369 -93 370 -00:04:32,010 ~-~-> 00:04:34,950 371 -through the suffering portion of it. So 372 - 373 -94 374 -00:04:35,310 ~-~-> 00:04:37,680 375 -if I were to go back in time, and I 376 - 377 -95 378 -00:04:37,680 ~-~-> 00:04:39,600 379 -could sit at a table and talk to my 380 - 381 -96 382 -00:04:39,600 ~-~-> 00:04:43,440 383 -younger self, what would I tell him or 384 - 385 -97 386 -00:04:43,440 ~-~-> 00:04:47,460 387 -me? Where to focus? What should I as a 388 - 389 -98 390 -00:04:47,460 ~-~-> 00:04:50,670 391 -younger person, focus on in my 392 - 393 -99 394 -00:04:50,670 ~-~-> 00:04:54,900 395 -development as a trader. First thing, 396 - 397 -100 398 -00:04:55,200 ~-~-> 00:04:57,060 399 -don't seek the approval from others. 400 - 401 -101 402 -00:04:57,840 ~-~-> 00:05:00,330 403 -Right away. That's the number one One 404 - 405 -102 406 -00:05:00,330 ~-~-> 00:05:02,490 407 -characteristic of a successful trader. 408 - 409 -103 410 -00:05:03,270 ~-~-> 00:05:05,310 411 -Now, you might not agree with the things 412 - 413 -104 414 -00:05:05,310 ~-~-> 00:05:08,520 415 -I'm going to say in this episode, I'm 416 - 417 -105 418 -00:05:08,520 ~-~-> 00:05:10,920 419 -just speaking from my own personal walk, 420 - 421 -106 422 -00:05:11,310 ~-~-> 00:05:14,160 423 -and the things that I had to endure. 424 - 425 -107 426 -00:05:14,490 ~-~-> 00:05:17,520 427 -When I first started, the first people 428 - 429 -108 430 -00:05:17,670 ~-~-> 00:05:20,490 431 -that I look to get approval with, with 432 - 433 -109 434 -00:05:20,490 ~-~-> 00:05:25,620 435 -my family. And I love my family, both my 436 - 437 -110 438 -00:05:25,620 ~-~-> 00:05:28,680 439 -immediate and extended family, but none 440 - 441 -111 442 -00:05:28,680 ~-~-> 00:05:31,230 443 -of them shared in my excitement. They 444 - 445 -112 446 -00:05:31,230 ~-~-> 00:05:33,090 447 -gave me all the reasons why it was a 448 - 449 -113 450 -00:05:33,090 ~-~-> 00:05:35,820 451 -poor decision. It was a bad idea to get 452 - 453 -114 454 -00:05:35,820 ~-~-> 00:05:37,290 455 -involved in it, I'm going to just lose 456 - 457 -115 458 -00:05:37,290 ~-~-> 00:05:40,260 459 -money, and just accept working for the 460 - 461 -116 462 -00:05:40,260 ~-~-> 00:05:42,600 463 -rest of your life and simply not in the 464 - 465 -117 466 -00:05:42,600 ~-~-> 00:05:44,010 467 -cards for me, I just didn't want to do 468 - 469 -118 470 -00:05:44,010 ~-~-> 00:05:46,380 471 -that. So you don't want to seek approval 472 - 473 -119 474 -00:05:46,380 ~-~-> 00:05:47,460 475 -from your family because they're not 476 - 477 -120 478 -00:05:47,460 ~-~-> 00:05:49,530 479 -going to understand what you're trying 480 - 481 -121 482 -00:05:49,530 ~-~-> 00:05:51,660 483 -to do. They're going to give you all of 484 - 485 -122 486 -00:05:51,660 ~-~-> 00:05:53,880 487 -the heartfelt reasons why they're going 488 - 489 -123 490 -00:05:53,880 ~-~-> 00:05:55,260 491 -to try to protect you from yourself, 492 - 493 -124 494 -00:05:55,950 ~-~-> 00:05:57,300 495 -when they don't really understand what 496 - 497 -125 498 -00:05:57,300 ~-~-> 00:05:59,250 499 -it is that you're trying to do or learn 500 - 501 -126 502 -00:06:01,470 ~-~-> 00:06:03,120 503 -Don't seek the approval of your friends. 504 - 505 -127 506 -00:06:03,150 ~-~-> 00:06:04,950 507 -Number one, your friends are only going 508 - 509 -128 510 -00:06:04,950 ~-~-> 00:06:06,540 511 -to be interested once you start making 512 - 513 -129 514 -00:06:06,540 ~-~-> 00:06:07,980 515 -money. When they start seeing the 516 - 517 -130 518 -00:06:07,980 ~-~-> 00:06:10,380 519 -changes in your life, then and only then 520 - 521 -131 522 -00:06:10,380 ~-~-> 00:06:12,000 523 -will your friends be on board with it. 524 - 525 -132 526 -00:06:12,600 ~-~-> 00:06:15,030 527 -Your friends, much like your family, 528 - 529 -133 530 -00:06:15,960 ~-~-> 00:06:19,500 531 -really, don't feel comfortable with you 532 - 533 -134 534 -00:06:19,530 ~-~-> 00:06:20,910 535 -being successful because if you tell 536 - 537 -135 538 -00:06:20,910 ~-~-> 00:06:23,100 539 -them what you're going to do, and you 540 - 541 -136 542 -00:06:23,760 ~-~-> 00:06:25,200 543 -get to the point where you succeed at 544 - 545 -137 546 -00:06:25,200 ~-~-> 00:06:30,090 547 -it, you act like a mirror for them. And 548 - 549 -138 550 -00:06:30,090 ~-~-> 00:06:32,880 551 -they will always look to you as a 552 - 553 -139 554 -00:06:33,120 ~-~-> 00:06:36,090 555 -reminder of what they failed to pursue 556 - 557 -140 558 -00:06:36,090 ~-~-> 00:06:39,000 559 -in our own life. So again, don't try to 560 - 561 -141 562 -00:06:39,930 ~-~-> 00:06:42,510 563 -seek the approval of others, Family 564 - 565 -142 566 -00:06:42,510 ~-~-> 00:06:45,300 567 -First, and friends because it doesn't 568 - 569 -143 570 -00:06:45,300 ~-~-> 00:06:49,860 571 -work out. Third, don't go to work until 572 - 573 -144 574 -00:06:49,860 ~-~-> 00:06:51,120 575 -your co workers that you're going to be 576 - 577 -145 578 -00:06:51,120 ~-~-> 00:06:54,360 579 -quitting your jobs and I made all those 580 - 581 -146 582 -00:06:54,360 ~-~-> 00:06:57,900 583 -errors, okay, and many, many times I've 584 - 585 -147 586 -00:06:57,900 ~-~-> 00:07:01,410 587 -shared the low income I our heavy 588 - 589 -148 590 -00:07:01,410 ~-~-> 00:07:04,920 591 -workload job that I was doing as a young 592 - 593 -149 594 -00:07:04,920 ~-~-> 00:07:07,470 595 -man when I was beginning this journey. 596 - 597 -150 598 -00:07:08,670 ~-~-> 00:07:11,940 599 -And I just don't think that it's a good 600 - 601 -151 602 -00:07:11,940 ~-~-> 00:07:14,160 603 -practice for anyone to go to work and 604 - 605 -152 606 -00:07:14,160 ~-~-> 00:07:15,390 607 -tell their co workers number one, 608 - 609 -153 610 -00:07:15,960 ~-~-> 00:07:17,370 611 -they're going to be giving you again, 612 - 613 -154 614 -00:07:17,490 ~-~-> 00:07:20,010 615 -all the worst feedback you're ever gonna 616 - 617 -155 618 -00:07:20,010 ~-~-> 00:07:22,170 619 -hear. Yeah, right, you'll be here with 620 - 621 -156 622 -00:07:22,170 ~-~-> 00:07:24,180 623 -me the rest of your life. You're going 624 - 625 -157 626 -00:07:24,180 ~-~-> 00:07:26,640 627 -to retire from here, all those things, 628 - 629 -158 630 -00:07:26,760 ~-~-> 00:07:30,540 631 -okay. So when you get this feedback from 632 - 633 -159 634 -00:07:30,540 ~-~-> 00:07:32,640 635 -your co workers, you're going to hate 636 - 637 -160 638 -00:07:32,640 ~-~-> 00:07:34,440 639 -going to work even more, because you 640 - 641 -161 642 -00:07:34,440 ~-~-> 00:07:36,270 643 -might have liked going to work it to 644 - 645 -162 646 -00:07:36,270 ~-~-> 00:07:37,350 647 -some degree and hanging out with the 648 - 649 -163 650 -00:07:37,350 ~-~-> 00:07:38,760 651 -people you work with. Talking about 652 - 653 -164 654 -00:07:38,760 ~-~-> 00:07:40,770 655 -sports, talking about movies, talking 656 - 657 -165 658 -00:07:40,770 ~-~-> 00:07:44,910 659 -about the opposite sex. All these things 660 - 661 -166 662 -00:07:44,910 ~-~-> 00:07:49,380 663 -that you had a common, I guess agreement 664 - 665 -167 666 -00:07:49,380 ~-~-> 00:07:52,650 667 -on or an interest in, will start having 668 - 669 -168 670 -00:07:52,650 ~-~-> 00:07:54,390 671 -a great divide, because you're going to 672 - 673 -169 674 -00:07:54,390 ~-~-> 00:07:55,950 675 -look at them as a source of 676 - 677 -170 678 -00:07:57,600 ~-~-> 00:07:59,730 679 -annoyance and they're just gonna look at 680 - 681 -171 682 -00:07:59,730 ~-~-> 00:08:01,620 683 -you as You're pipe dreaming, and you're 684 - 685 -172 686 -00:08:01,620 ~-~-> 00:08:04,140 687 -not going to get to where you're going, 688 - 689 -173 690 -00:08:04,140 ~-~-> 00:08:05,220 691 -and it's going to be fun for them to 692 - 693 -174 694 -00:08:05,220 ~-~-> 00:08:07,290 695 -watch, you fail. And you don't want to 696 - 697 -175 698 -00:08:07,290 ~-~-> 00:08:08,850 699 -have someone constantly, you know, 700 - 701 -176 702 -00:08:09,630 ~-~-> 00:08:11,640 703 -poking you every day. It looks like 704 - 705 -177 706 -00:08:11,640 ~-~-> 00:08:13,260 707 -you're still here. I guess I'll see you 708 - 709 -178 710 -00:08:13,260 ~-~-> 00:08:16,200 711 -to work tomorrow. No types of things is 712 - 713 -179 714 -00:08:16,200 ~-~-> 00:08:18,450 715 -what I had to endure. So don't tell your 716 - 717 -180 718 -00:08:18,450 ~-~-> 00:08:19,530 719 -co workers which you're going to be 720 - 721 -181 722 -00:08:19,530 ~-~-> 00:08:22,200 723 -doing. Don't tell your boss, what you're 724 - 725 -182 726 -00:08:22,200 ~-~-> 00:08:24,120 727 -gonna be doing. You're going to 728 - 729 -183 730 -00:08:24,120 ~-~-> 00:08:26,970 731 -basically fire your boss and fire your 732 - 733 -184 734 -00:08:26,970 ~-~-> 00:08:29,130 735 -co workers when the time is right, but 736 - 737 -185 738 -00:08:29,130 ~-~-> 00:08:32,250 739 -you don't want to broadcast it. Because 740 - 741 -186 742 -00:08:32,250 ~-~-> 00:08:35,520 743 -all it's going to do is provide them a 744 - 745 -187 746 -00:08:35,520 ~-~-> 00:08:37,440 747 -timeline when they think you should be 748 - 749 -188 750 -00:08:37,440 ~-~-> 00:08:39,960 751 -doing it in teach you the entire time. 752 - 753 -189 754 -00:08:40,260 ~-~-> 00:08:42,300 755 -So your family's gonna constantly give 756 - 757 -190 758 -00:08:42,300 ~-~-> 00:08:44,520 759 -you heartfelt advice of why you 760 - 761 -191 762 -00:08:44,520 ~-~-> 00:08:47,070 763 -shouldn't do it. Your friends are going 764 - 765 -192 766 -00:08:47,070 ~-~-> 00:08:49,560 767 -to say, I'm not really interested. But 768 - 769 -193 770 -00:08:49,560 ~-~-> 00:08:51,690 771 -if you get successful, I might be 772 - 773 -194 774 -00:08:51,690 ~-~-> 00:08:53,790 775 -interested in then. So what why tell 776 - 777 -195 778 -00:08:53,790 ~-~-> 00:08:55,920 779 -them and coworkers are going to give you 780 - 781 -196 782 -00:08:55,920 ~-~-> 00:08:57,420 783 -every negative thing because they hate 784 - 785 -197 786 -00:08:57,420 ~-~-> 00:08:59,310 787 -their life. They're at the same place 788 - 789 -198 790 -00:08:59,310 ~-~-> 00:09:01,830 791 -you're at your job. To escape, so why 792 - 793 -199 794 -00:09:01,830 ~-~-> 00:09:06,120 795 -would you want them to pump you up? 796 - 797 -200 798 -00:09:06,390 ~-~-> 00:09:09,780 799 -That's what we do as humans, we want to 800 - 801 -201 802 -00:09:09,780 ~-~-> 00:09:13,800 803 -have our peers say, Yeah, that's a good 804 - 805 -202 806 -00:09:13,800 ~-~-> 00:09:15,540 807 -idea. But how many times in your life 808 - 809 -203 810 -00:09:15,540 ~-~-> 00:09:17,730 811 -Have you ever had that experience? I can 812 - 813 -204 814 -00:09:17,730 ~-~-> 00:09:21,240 815 -tell you, unless it was my fifth grade 816 - 817 -205 818 -00:09:21,240 ~-~-> 00:09:25,530 819 -teacher, Mr. lorber. Or it was my uncle 820 - 821 -206 822 -00:09:25,920 ~-~-> 00:09:27,630 823 -that talked to me about commodities when 824 - 825 -207 826 -00:09:27,630 ~-~-> 00:09:30,780 827 -I was 16 years old. And taught me about 828 - 829 -208 830 -00:09:32,040 ~-~-> 00:09:34,440 831 -narrow sideways channels and 123 tops 832 - 833 -209 834 -00:09:34,440 ~-~-> 00:09:36,390 835 -and bottoms and head and shoulders, and 836 - 837 -210 838 -00:09:36,390 ~-~-> 00:09:39,210 839 -all those bull flags and things. At 16 840 - 841 -211 842 -00:09:39,210 ~-~-> 00:09:40,650 843 -years old, I was looking at it and it 844 - 845 -212 846 -00:09:40,650 ~-~-> 00:09:42,540 847 -was going in one ear and out the other. 848 - 849 -213 850 -00:09:42,840 ~-~-> 00:09:44,970 851 -Okay, so when you tell all your family, 852 - 853 -214 854 -00:09:44,970 ~-~-> 00:09:47,310 855 -your friends and your co workers, that's 856 - 857 -215 858 -00:09:47,310 ~-~-> 00:09:49,020 859 -what's happening, and they're not going 860 - 861 -216 862 -00:09:49,020 ~-~-> 00:09:50,910 863 -to say, you know what, that's brilliant. 864 - 865 -217 866 -00:09:51,390 ~-~-> 00:09:52,710 867 -I wish I would have thought of that. 868 - 869 -218 870 -00:09:52,770 ~-~-> 00:09:54,330 871 -That's the reality. That's the reaction 872 - 873 -219 874 -00:09:54,330 ~-~-> 00:09:57,240 875 -you're expecting, right? It never works 876 - 877 -220 878 -00:09:57,240 ~-~-> 00:09:59,130 879 -out that way. But yet we all do it as 880 - 881 -221 882 -00:09:59,130 ~-~-> 00:10:01,980 883 -humans. We want to Have that that's a 884 - 885 -222 886 -00:10:01,980 ~-~-> 00:10:04,470 887 -good idea, response and it never comes. 888 - 889 -223 890 -00:10:04,740 ~-~-> 00:10:07,650 891 -So what does it do? It causes deflation. 892 - 893 -224 894 -00:10:07,800 ~-~-> 00:10:09,990 895 -You don't want to be around these 896 - 897 -225 898 -00:10:09,990 ~-~-> 00:10:11,340 899 -people, because now you're like, I wish 900 - 901 -226 902 -00:10:11,340 ~-~-> 00:10:12,300 903 -I would have ever said anything. But 904 - 905 -227 906 -00:10:12,300 ~-~-> 00:10:13,860 907 -once you put it out there, it's done. 908 - 909 -228 910 -00:10:15,450 ~-~-> 00:10:18,990 911 -And lastly, strangers. As a young man, 912 - 913 -229 914 -00:10:20,070 ~-~-> 00:10:22,950 915 -when I was doing my job would finish 916 - 917 -230 918 -00:10:23,160 ~-~-> 00:10:24,900 919 -off, you know, filling up the candy 920 - 921 -231 922 -00:10:24,900 ~-~-> 00:10:26,130 923 -machines and the soda machines and 924 - 925 -232 926 -00:10:26,130 ~-~-> 00:10:28,200 927 -coffee machines and such. And I used to 928 - 929 -233 930 -00:10:28,200 ~-~-> 00:10:31,020 931 -do a vending route, and did a long day, 932 - 933 -234 934 -00:10:31,020 ~-~-> 00:10:35,610 935 -13 hours or so. And during my route, I 936 - 937 -235 938 -00:10:35,610 ~-~-> 00:10:40,680 939 -felt this unreasonable desire to tell 940 - 941 -236 942 -00:10:40,680 ~-~-> 00:10:42,150 943 -other people that I don't even know. 944 - 945 -237 946 -00:10:43,260 ~-~-> 00:10:45,120 947 -Yeah, I'm looking at a market and hope 948 - 949 -238 950 -00:10:45,120 ~-~-> 00:10:46,500 951 -it goes up and then blah, blah, blah. 952 - 953 -239 954 -00:10:46,950 ~-~-> 00:10:48,990 955 -What? What do you talk to me about that 956 - 957 -240 958 -00:10:48,990 ~-~-> 00:10:52,590 959 -for? So when you tell strangers or if 960 - 961 -241 962 -00:10:52,590 ~-~-> 00:10:55,020 963 -you meet someone in the pub, okay, are 964 - 965 -242 966 -00:10:55,020 ~-~-> 00:10:58,260 967 -you at a club or? Well, right now it's 968 - 969 -243 970 -00:10:58,260 ~-~-> 00:10:59,730 971 -hard to go to those places right now 972 - 973 -244 974 -00:10:59,760 ~-~-> 00:11:01,320 975 -because Of all the things that's been 976 - 977 -245 978 -00:11:01,530 ~-~-> 00:11:05,040 979 -impacted by the illnesses being spread 980 - 981 -246 982 -00:11:05,040 ~-~-> 00:11:10,410 983 -around the social circles. When you run 984 - 985 -247 986 -00:11:10,410 ~-~-> 00:11:12,960 987 -into people, they'll ask you, Hey, you 988 - 989 -248 990 -00:11:12,960 ~-~-> 00:11:15,360 991 -know, so what do you do yourself? That's 992 - 993 -249 994 -00:11:15,360 ~-~-> 00:11:18,000 995 -not the invitation to say, Well, I'm 996 - 997 -250 998 -00:11:18,000 ~-~-> 00:11:19,770 999 -looking to start trading commodities. 1000 - 1001 -251 1002 -00:11:20,610 ~-~-> 00:11:22,470 1003 -They're gonna like, What? I'm trading 1004 - 1005 -252 1006 -00:11:22,470 ~-~-> 00:11:24,060 1007 -the foreign exchange market right away, 1008 - 1009 -253 1010 -00:11:24,060 ~-~-> 00:11:25,470 1011 -they're gonna be like, what is that? And 1012 - 1013 -254 1014 -00:11:25,470 ~-~-> 00:11:27,120 1015 -that's what you want them to ask you. 1016 - 1017 -255 1018 -00:11:27,180 ~-~-> 00:11:28,260 1019 -And then when you start talking about, 1020 - 1021 -256 1022 -00:11:28,290 ~-~-> 00:11:29,880 1023 -they're like, Oh, yeah, that's like the 1024 - 1025 -257 1026 -00:11:29,880 ~-~-> 00:11:33,180 1027 -stock market. You're not interested, or 1028 - 1029 -258 1030 -00:11:33,240 ~-~-> 00:11:34,710 1031 -they're interested, and you want to know 1032 - 1033 -259 1034 -00:11:34,710 ~-~-> 00:11:36,150 1035 -how much money you made, and you can't 1036 - 1037 -260 1038 -00:11:36,150 ~-~-> 00:11:37,530 1039 -tell them that you've made any money. 1040 - 1041 -261 1042 -00:11:37,560 ~-~-> 00:11:40,080 1043 -You're just now starting. So really, 1044 - 1045 -262 1046 -00:11:40,170 ~-~-> 00:11:41,610 1047 -you're a startup and they're not really 1048 - 1049 -263 1050 -00:11:41,610 ~-~-> 00:11:43,380 1051 -interested in the conversation anymore. 1052 - 1053 -264 1054 -00:11:43,530 ~-~-> 00:11:45,000 1055 -So you're not going to get that feedback 1056 - 1057 -265 1058 -00:11:45,000 ~-~-> 00:11:46,470 1059 -again, what you're looking for, so don't 1060 - 1061 -266 1062 -00:11:46,470 ~-~-> 00:11:48,780 1063 -seek the approval from others. You have 1064 - 1065 -267 1066 -00:11:48,780 ~-~-> 00:11:51,360 1067 -to pursue this on your own steam your 1068 - 1069 -268 1070 -00:11:51,360 ~-~-> 00:11:54,360 1071 -own energy. And if you had any 1072 - 1073 -269 1074 -00:11:54,600 ~-~-> 00:11:57,810 1075 -dependency on an outside source, be at 1076 - 1077 -270 1078 -00:11:57,810 ~-~-> 00:11:59,670 1079 -any one of these four groups, family, 1080 - 1081 -271 1082 -00:11:59,670 ~-~-> 00:12:02,880 1083 -friends. coworkers are strangers to give 1084 - 1085 -272 1086 -00:12:02,880 ~-~-> 00:12:07,530 1087 -you that, nudge, that little bit of a 1088 - 1089 -273 1090 -00:12:09,300 ~-~-> 00:12:10,710 1091 -pat on the back, that you're doing the 1092 - 1093 -274 1094 -00:12:10,710 ~-~-> 00:12:13,260 1095 -right thing for yourself, you're going 1096 - 1097 -275 1098 -00:12:13,260 ~-~-> 00:12:15,780 1099 -to struggle, because in trading, you got 1100 - 1101 -276 1102 -00:12:15,780 ~-~-> 00:12:17,220 1103 -to be there to make the decisions 1104 - 1105 -277 1106 -00:12:17,220 ~-~-> 00:12:19,380 1107 -whether anyone agrees with you or not. 1108 - 1109 -278 1110 -00:12:20,040 ~-~-> 00:12:22,260 1111 -And when you make money, you reap the 1112 - 1113 -279 1114 -00:12:22,260 ~-~-> 00:12:24,330 1115 -rewards of that. But when you lose it, 1116 - 1117 -280 1118 -00:12:25,140 ~-~-> 00:12:27,600 1119 -and you will, you have to be able to 1120 - 1121 -281 1122 -00:12:27,600 ~-~-> 00:12:30,720 1123 -endure that and not feel the compulsion 1124 - 1125 -282 1126 -00:12:30,720 ~-~-> 00:12:32,970 1127 -to go to someone and say, hey, look, you 1128 - 1129 -283 1130 -00:12:32,970 ~-~-> 00:12:34,320 1131 -know, I just lost a lot of money. It's 1132 - 1133 -284 1134 -00:12:34,320 ~-~-> 00:12:36,450 1135 -the same thing. Don't turn to anyone 1136 - 1137 -285 1138 -00:12:36,450 ~-~-> 00:12:38,610 1139 -else and say, I made a mistake today 1140 - 1141 -286 1142 -00:12:38,610 ~-~-> 00:12:40,740 1143 -help me feel better. You have to endure 1144 - 1145 -287 1146 -00:12:40,740 ~-~-> 00:12:43,080 1147 -that. And if you're going to start your 1148 - 1149 -288 1150 -00:12:43,080 ~-~-> 00:12:45,540 1151 -journey with this mindset of seeking 1152 - 1153 -289 1154 -00:12:45,540 ~-~-> 00:12:47,730 1155 -approval, or support outside of 1156 - 1157 -290 1158 -00:12:47,730 ~-~-> 00:12:50,700 1159 -yourself, this is gonna be a very hard 1160 - 1161 -291 1162 -00:12:50,700 ~-~-> 00:12:52,500 1163 -journey for you. So you have to prepare 1164 - 1165 -292 1166 -00:12:52,500 ~-~-> 00:12:55,110 1167 -yourself to seek your own approval 1168 - 1169 -293 1170 -00:12:55,440 ~-~-> 00:12:56,970 1171 -by your own study and your own 1172 - 1173 -294 1174 -00:12:56,970 ~-~-> 00:12:59,400 1175 -development. reward yourself when you do 1176 - 1177 -295 1178 -00:12:59,400 ~-~-> 00:13:01,470 1179 -it. Right. And when Do it wrong, give 1180 - 1181 -296 1182 -00:13:01,470 ~-~-> 00:13:03,330 1183 -yourself permission to be wrong and 1184 - 1185 -297 1186 -00:13:03,330 ~-~-> 00:13:10,410 1187 -allow yourself to grow. Next, learn risk 1188 - 1189 -298 1190 -00:13:10,440 ~-~-> 00:13:13,230 1191 -management well, and make that your 1192 - 1193 -299 1194 -00:13:13,230 ~-~-> 00:13:15,960 1195 -initial, very first thing that you want 1196 - 1197 -300 1198 -00:13:15,960 ~-~-> 00:13:18,540 1199 -to master. So you're controlling your 1200 - 1201 -301 1202 -00:13:18,540 ~-~-> 00:13:20,580 1203 -impulses to stop telling everybody your 1204 - 1205 -302 1206 -00:13:20,580 ~-~-> 00:13:22,560 1207 -business, okay? It's your business, it's 1208 - 1209 -303 1210 -00:13:22,560 ~-~-> 00:13:24,720 1211 -not their business, stop giving your 1212 - 1213 -304 1214 -00:13:24,720 ~-~-> 00:13:27,600 1215 -business to someone else. Next in line, 1216 - 1217 -305 1218 -00:13:27,690 ~-~-> 00:13:29,910 1219 -it's the risk. You have to understand 1220 - 1221 -306 1222 -00:13:29,910 ~-~-> 00:13:31,830 1223 -what you're getting involved in. If 1224 - 1225 -307 1226 -00:13:31,830 ~-~-> 00:13:33,210 1227 -you're gonna be trading with live funds, 1228 - 1229 -308 1230 -00:13:33,480 ~-~-> 00:13:35,940 1231 -you are losing money. That's a 100% 1232 - 1233 -309 1234 -00:13:35,940 ~-~-> 00:13:38,670 1235 -guarantee. You are losing money. There 1236 - 1237 -310 1238 -00:13:38,670 ~-~-> 00:13:42,060 1239 -is never ever going to be a trader that 1240 - 1241 -311 1242 -00:13:42,060 ~-~-> 00:13:45,570 1243 -starts and never has a loss. My very 1244 - 1245 -312 1246 -00:13:45,570 ~-~-> 00:13:47,880 1247 -first trade was a loss. I lost 50% of my 1248 - 1249 -313 1250 -00:13:47,880 ~-~-> 00:13:52,380 1251 -account overnight. And orange juice 1252 - 1253 -314 1254 -00:13:52,470 ~-~-> 00:13:55,560 1255 -option. I had no idea what I was doing. 1256 - 1257 -315 1258 -00:13:55,860 ~-~-> 00:13:58,950 1259 -I was baptized, thrown into water and 1260 - 1261 -316 1262 -00:13:58,950 ~-~-> 00:14:01,440 1263 -drowned. gate was just that short and 1264 - 1265 -317 1266 -00:14:01,440 ~-~-> 00:14:03,960 1267 -sweet. And I closed the account asked 1268 - 1269 -318 1270 -00:14:03,960 ~-~-> 00:14:06,390 1271 -for the remainder of my account. And 1272 - 1273 -319 1274 -00:14:06,570 ~-~-> 00:14:08,700 1275 -that was the end of my Fox investments. 1276 - 1277 -320 1278 -00:14:10,590 ~-~-> 00:14:12,390 1279 -Career that was the brokerage firm I 1280 - 1281 -321 1282 -00:14:12,390 ~-~-> 00:14:16,260 1283 -used at the time. And I had to go and 1284 - 1285 -322 1286 -00:14:16,260 ~-~-> 00:14:18,870 1287 -discover how to actually look at charts 1288 - 1289 -323 1290 -00:14:18,870 ~-~-> 00:14:20,340 1291 -and learn a little bit more about the 1292 - 1293 -324 1294 -00:14:20,340 ~-~-> 00:14:22,140 1295 -risks. So I didn't understand risks. 1296 - 1297 -325 1298 -00:14:22,170 ~-~-> 00:14:24,720 1299 -When I got into trading. I thought that 1300 - 1301 -326 1302 -00:14:25,440 ~-~-> 00:14:27,030 1303 -it should work right away because I saw 1304 - 1305 -327 1306 -00:14:27,030 ~-~-> 00:14:29,130 1307 -the book. The book said it does this. So 1308 - 1309 -328 1310 -00:14:29,130 ~-~-> 00:14:30,750 1311 -therefore, when I looked at the chart, 1312 - 1313 -329 1314 -00:14:31,260 ~-~-> 00:14:32,460 1315 -aren't you should have performed the 1316 - 1317 -330 1318 -00:14:32,460 ~-~-> 00:14:34,260 1319 -same way. Because that's what this guy 1320 - 1321 -331 1322 -00:14:34,260 ~-~-> 00:14:35,790 1323 -said in the book. You know, this guy 1324 - 1325 -332 1326 -00:14:35,790 ~-~-> 00:14:41,310 1327 -told me in at least three pages that the 1328 - 1329 -333 1330 -00:14:41,340 ~-~-> 00:14:43,050 1331 -market when it does this wiggle and 1332 - 1333 -334 1334 -00:14:43,050 ~-~-> 00:14:45,690 1335 -waggle, then I should expect it to move 1336 - 1337 -335 1338 -00:14:46,410 ~-~-> 00:14:49,800 1339 -this particular way. And where does he 1340 - 1341 -336 1342 -00:14:49,800 ~-~-> 00:14:53,490 1343 -get off? telling me this? And then it 1344 - 1345 -337 1346 -00:14:53,490 ~-~-> 00:14:56,610 1347 -not being true. You see where the 1348 - 1349 -338 1350 -00:14:56,610 ~-~-> 00:14:59,250 1351 -disconnection is? That was how I looked 1352 - 1353 -339 1354 -00:14:59,250 ~-~-> 00:15:01,170 1355 -at it. Because I didn't want to take the 1356 - 1357 -340 1358 -00:15:01,170 ~-~-> 00:15:05,820 1359 -responsibility of the risks. And I 1360 - 1361 -341 1362 -00:15:05,820 ~-~-> 00:15:07,770 1363 -figured, well, I'm an option. What's the 1364 - 1365 -342 1366 -00:15:07,770 ~-~-> 00:15:11,040 1367 -worst that could happen? All of my money 1368 - 1369 -343 1370 -00:15:11,040 ~-~-> 00:15:12,780 1371 -could have been gone. That's the worst. 1372 - 1373 -344 1374 -00:15:13,230 ~-~-> 00:15:16,230 1375 -And in one day overnight while I was 1376 - 1377 -345 1378 -00:15:16,230 ~-~-> 00:15:17,850 1379 -sleeping, woke up expecting to see I'm 1380 - 1381 -346 1382 -00:15:17,850 ~-~-> 00:15:18,780 1383 -going to be in I'm gonna be in the 1384 - 1385 -347 1386 -00:15:18,780 ~-~-> 00:15:22,320 1387 -profits. Yeah, I wasn't expecting that 1388 - 1389 -348 1390 -00:15:22,470 ~-~-> 00:15:26,100 1391 -down. 50% Welcome to trading Michael. 1392 - 1393 -349 1394 -00:15:26,490 ~-~-> 00:15:29,130 1395 -And it was a shock. And I just 1396 - 1397 -350 1398 -00:15:29,130 ~-~-> 00:15:31,470 1399 -completely collapsed, said give me my 1400 - 1401 -351 1402 -00:15:31,470 ~-~-> 00:15:33,750 1403 -money. I'm worn out. And that money 1404 - 1405 -352 1406 -00:15:33,750 ~-~-> 00:15:35,610 1407 -couldn't get back to me fast enough. And 1408 - 1409 -353 1410 -00:15:35,610 ~-~-> 00:15:38,340 1411 -back then they sent it in a cheque and 1412 - 1413 -354 1414 -00:15:38,340 ~-~-> 00:15:39,900 1415 -he had to wait for the cheque to come in 1416 - 1417 -355 1418 -00:15:39,900 ~-~-> 00:15:43,110 1419 -the mail. It was just, it was awful. So 1420 - 1421 -356 1422 -00:15:43,290 ~-~-> 00:15:44,880 1423 -the first thing you want to be focusing 1424 - 1425 -357 1426 -00:15:44,880 ~-~-> 00:15:47,700 1427 -on is managing risk and understanding 1428 - 1429 -358 1430 -00:15:47,700 ~-~-> 00:15:50,610 1431 -the underlying risks that's available to 1432 - 1433 -359 1434 -00:15:50,610 ~-~-> 00:15:55,410 1435 -you if you trade. You want to appreciate 1436 - 1437 -360 1438 -00:15:55,620 ~-~-> 00:15:58,890 1439 -the percent over the dollar gain or loss 1440 - 1441 -361 1442 -00:15:59,490 ~-~-> 00:16:02,250 1443 -when I first started, I was interested 1444 - 1445 -362 1446 -00:16:02,250 ~-~-> 00:16:04,590 1447 -in making a specific dollar amount. I 1448 - 1449 -363 1450 -00:16:04,590 ~-~-> 00:16:06,390 1451 -didn't understand compound interest, I 1452 - 1453 -364 1454 -00:16:06,390 ~-~-> 00:16:09,450 1455 -didn't understand the Kelly criterion, 1456 - 1457 -365 1458 -00:16:10,200 ~-~-> 00:16:12,930 1459 -optimal F, none of the advanced money 1460 - 1461 -366 1462 -00:16:12,930 ~-~-> 00:16:14,850 1463 -management theories that I adhere to 1464 - 1465 -367 1466 -00:16:14,850 ~-~-> 00:16:18,900 1467 -now. And I just looked for dollars, you 1468 - 1469 -368 1470 -00:16:18,900 ~-~-> 00:16:21,300 1471 -know, if I can make 500 bucks on this 1472 - 1473 -369 1474 -00:16:21,300 ~-~-> 00:16:23,790 1475 -move, that's what I want to make. And my 1476 - 1477 -370 1478 -00:16:23,790 ~-~-> 00:16:26,250 1479 -stop loss was what was the maximum I 1480 - 1481 -371 1482 -00:16:26,250 ~-~-> 00:16:28,980 1483 -could take? And that's exactly what I 1484 - 1485 -372 1486 -00:16:28,980 ~-~-> 00:16:30,960 1487 -was doing. Because I was afraid I was 1488 - 1489 -373 1490 -00:16:30,960 ~-~-> 00:16:33,180 1491 -gonna get stopped out. So I had this 1492 - 1493 -374 1494 -00:16:33,360 ~-~-> 00:16:35,940 1495 -unrealistic stop loss that was just 1496 - 1497 -375 1498 -00:16:35,970 ~-~-> 00:16:39,510 1499 -unbelievably wide. Or I didn't have one. 1500 - 1501 -376 1502 -00:16:39,960 ~-~-> 00:16:41,940 1503 -I was using a mental stop, which will 1504 - 1505 -377 1506 -00:16:41,940 ~-~-> 00:16:43,260 1507 -drive you mental if you're driving in a 1508 - 1509 -378 1510 -00:16:43,260 ~-~-> 00:16:45,360 1511 -truck 13 hours a day getting out. 1512 - 1513 -379 1514 -00:16:45,960 ~-~-> 00:16:50,310 1515 -Loading cans, soda, and junk food and 1516 - 1517 -380 1518 -00:16:50,310 ~-~-> 00:16:51,600 1519 -candy machines and going around and 1520 - 1521 -381 1522 -00:16:51,600 ~-~-> 00:16:53,640 1523 -fixing machines that aren't right. And 1524 - 1525 -382 1526 -00:16:53,640 ~-~-> 00:16:54,930 1527 -you're constantly wondering what the 1528 - 1529 -383 1530 -00:16:54,930 ~-~-> 00:16:56,100 1531 -markets doing and you don't have a 1532 - 1533 -384 1534 -00:16:56,100 ~-~-> 00:16:56,670 1535 -stoploss 1536 - 1537 -385 1538 -00:16:58,140 ~-~-> 00:17:00,150 1539 -Yeah, it's already bad enough that You 1540 - 1541 -386 1542 -00:17:00,150 ~-~-> 00:17:01,530 1543 -got to time the market and pick the 1544 - 1545 -387 1546 -00:17:01,530 ~-~-> 00:17:03,480 1547 -right direction. But now you got to add 1548 - 1549 -388 1550 -00:17:03,480 ~-~-> 00:17:06,300 1551 -to it that you're doing it blind, with 1552 - 1553 -389 1554 -00:17:06,300 ~-~-> 00:17:09,030 1555 -no stop loss and anything can happen. 1556 - 1557 -390 1558 -00:17:09,570 ~-~-> 00:17:11,160 1559 -And that's what I was doing. I mean, 1560 - 1561 -391 1562 -00:17:11,160 ~-~-> 00:17:13,500 1563 -literally, I was like a cowboy out there 1564 - 1565 -392 1566 -00:17:13,530 ~-~-> 00:17:17,790 1567 -riding bulls with no experience 1568 - 1569 -393 1570 -00:17:17,790 ~-~-> 00:17:20,310 1571 -whatsoever. And if I was thrown off, it 1572 - 1573 -394 1574 -00:17:20,310 ~-~-> 00:17:21,780 1575 -was always going to be the worst case, 1576 - 1577 -395 1578 -00:17:22,230 ~-~-> 00:17:24,030 1579 -it was really going to be bad. Every 1580 - 1581 -396 1582 -00:17:24,030 ~-~-> 00:17:25,260 1583 -single time I took a loss, it was going 1584 - 1585 -397 1586 -00:17:25,260 ~-~-> 00:17:27,510 1587 -to be bad. Either I got crushed, and I 1588 - 1589 -398 1590 -00:17:27,510 ~-~-> 00:17:28,560 1591 -got out because I couldn't handle the 1592 - 1593 -399 1594 -00:17:28,560 ~-~-> 00:17:31,050 1595 -pain anymore. Or if I had to stop, it 1596 - 1597 -400 1598 -00:17:31,050 ~-~-> 00:17:32,760 1599 -was running against me, taking me out 1600 - 1601 -401 1602 -00:17:32,760 ~-~-> 00:17:34,800 1603 -and it was going to be the maximum risk 1604 - 1605 -402 1606 -00:17:34,950 ~-~-> 00:17:38,550 1607 -that I could absorb in that trade. So 1608 - 1609 -403 1610 -00:17:38,550 ~-~-> 00:17:40,860 1611 -you want to appreciate the percentage of 1612 - 1613 -404 1614 -00:17:40,890 ~-~-> 00:17:43,530 1615 -what you are taking on as risk also with 1616 - 1617 -405 1618 -00:17:43,530 ~-~-> 00:17:46,140 1619 -your gains. So don't be impressed with a 1620 - 1621 -406 1622 -00:17:46,140 ~-~-> 00:17:49,200 1623 -specific dollar amount. Or don't look at 1624 - 1625 -407 1626 -00:17:49,200 ~-~-> 00:17:51,030 1627 -a specific dollar amount as well. It 1628 - 1629 -408 1630 -00:17:51,030 ~-~-> 00:17:52,590 1631 -doesn't hurt that bad because it's only 1632 - 1633 -409 1634 -00:17:52,770 ~-~-> 00:17:56,580 1635 -300 bucks. But if your account is 3000 1636 - 1637 -410 1638 -00:17:56,580 ~-~-> 00:18:00,750 1639 -that's 10%. That's correct. trouble. You 1640 - 1641 -411 1642 -00:18:00,750 ~-~-> 00:18:01,920 1643 -don't want to do that because you can't 1644 - 1645 -412 1646 -00:18:01,920 ~-~-> 00:18:03,210 1647 -do too many of those and not see your 1648 - 1649 -413 1650 -00:18:03,210 ~-~-> 00:18:06,300 1651 -account be lower to a level where it's a 1652 - 1653 -414 1654 -00:18:06,300 ~-~-> 00:18:08,280 1655 -little bit difficult to come back from 1656 - 1657 -415 1658 -00:18:08,280 ~-~-> 00:18:10,890 1659 -that as a new trader. So appreciate the 1660 - 1661 -416 1662 -00:18:10,890 ~-~-> 00:18:13,950 1663 -percentage over dollar gain or loss. 1664 - 1665 -417 1666 -00:18:16,650 ~-~-> 00:18:19,680 1667 -Learn to limit trade frequency. I felt 1668 - 1669 -418 1670 -00:18:19,680 ~-~-> 00:18:22,260 1671 -that since the markets were opening up 1672 - 1673 -419 1674 -00:18:22,290 ~-~-> 00:18:25,620 1675 -tomorrow, I had to be in there. So I was 1676 - 1677 -420 1678 -00:18:25,620 ~-~-> 00:18:29,220 1679 -over trading. And if I got a profit, and 1680 - 1681 -421 1682 -00:18:29,220 ~-~-> 00:18:32,190 1683 -I was able to get out in intraday I 1684 - 1685 -422 1686 -00:18:32,190 ~-~-> 00:18:35,100 1687 -would like Well, that was fun. I want to 1688 - 1689 -423 1690 -00:18:35,100 ~-~-> 00:18:37,200 1691 -go on there and do it again. When there 1692 - 1693 -424 1694 -00:18:37,200 ~-~-> 00:18:38,730 1695 -was 20 minutes left in the trading 1696 - 1697 -425 1698 -00:18:38,730 ~-~-> 00:18:40,290 1699 -session, because I was trading 1700 - 1701 -426 1702 -00:18:40,290 ~-~-> 00:18:43,470 1703 -commodities. They had pit hours where 1704 - 1705 -427 1706 -00:18:43,500 ~-~-> 00:18:44,970 1707 -they would open at this time and close 1708 - 1709 -428 1710 -00:18:44,970 ~-~-> 00:18:47,400 1711 -it this time. And I figured well, it's 1712 - 1713 -429 1714 -00:18:47,400 ~-~-> 00:18:49,890 1715 -still open. Anything could happen. And 1716 - 1717 -430 1718 -00:18:49,890 ~-~-> 00:18:51,660 1719 -if I'm right, I mean I can make some 1720 - 1721 -431 1722 -00:18:51,660 ~-~-> 00:18:54,060 1723 -more money before it closes. I had no 1724 - 1725 -432 1726 -00:18:54,060 ~-~-> 00:18:56,610 1727 -idea what I was doing folks, zero idea. 1728 - 1729 -433 1730 -00:18:57,030 ~-~-> 00:18:59,100 1731 -I was looking at these if these charts 1732 - 1733 -434 1734 -00:18:59,100 ~-~-> 00:19:04,740 1735 -and They were speaking to me. And it was 1736 - 1737 -435 1738 -00:19:05,220 ~-~-> 00:19:07,350 1739 -all the wrong things. He was telling me 1740 - 1741 -436 1742 -00:19:08,070 ~-~-> 00:19:10,590 1743 -gamble. And that's what I was doing. I 1744 - 1745 -437 1746 -00:19:10,590 ~-~-> 00:19:12,360 1747 -had money in the account, there was our 1748 - 1749 -438 1750 -00:19:12,360 ~-~-> 00:19:14,160 1751 -still left in the trading or 20 minutes 1752 - 1753 -439 1754 -00:19:14,160 ~-~-> 00:19:15,330 1755 -in this case as an example, 1756 - 1757 -440 1758 -00:19:15,330 ~-~-> 00:19:17,700 1759 -hypothetically, and I was going in here, 1760 - 1761 -441 1762 -00:19:18,150 ~-~-> 00:19:19,740 1763 -and if I could get more money before the 1764 - 1765 -442 1766 -00:19:19,740 ~-~-> 00:19:21,480 1767 -close, so I was doing and that's what 1768 - 1769 -443 1770 -00:19:21,480 ~-~-> 00:19:23,910 1771 -hurt me. Because I didn't understand the 1772 - 1773 -444 1774 -00:19:23,910 ~-~-> 00:19:26,640 1775 -risk. When you're getting close to the 1776 - 1777 -445 1778 -00:19:26,640 ~-~-> 00:19:28,800 1779 -end of the session, the end of the 1780 - 1781 -446 1782 -00:19:28,800 ~-~-> 00:19:31,380 1783 -trading day or the end of the week, you 1784 - 1785 -447 1786 -00:19:31,380 ~-~-> 00:19:33,810 1787 -have to know that there's a large degree 1788 - 1789 -448 1790 -00:19:33,840 ~-~-> 00:19:37,680 1791 -of risk in the fact that you're probably 1792 - 1793 -449 1794 -00:19:37,680 ~-~-> 00:19:40,680 1795 -not going to see any really major move 1796 - 1797 -450 1798 -00:19:40,680 ~-~-> 00:19:41,670 1799 -at that point because it's already 1800 - 1801 -451 1802 -00:19:41,670 ~-~-> 00:19:44,100 1803 -behind you. And you want to limit the 1804 - 1805 -452 1806 -00:19:44,100 ~-~-> 00:19:45,810 1807 -number of trades you take, because the 1808 - 1809 -453 1810 -00:19:45,810 ~-~-> 00:19:47,610 1811 -more frequency you have in your trades, 1812 - 1813 -454 1814 -00:19:48,150 ~-~-> 00:19:49,620 1815 -the more likely you're going to lose. 1816 - 1817 -455 1818 -00:19:49,950 ~-~-> 00:19:52,140 1819 -And if you have a lot of trades, you're 1820 - 1821 -456 1822 -00:19:52,140 ~-~-> 00:19:53,970 1823 -going to have a lot more losses and 1824 - 1825 -457 1826 -00:19:53,970 ~-~-> 00:19:57,750 1827 -losses mount up and you don't want that 1828 - 1829 -458 1830 -00:19:57,750 ~-~-> 00:19:59,670 1831 -to occur, especially as a developing 1832 - 1833 -459 1834 -00:19:59,730 ~-~-> 00:20:00,870 1835 -trader. You really don't want that to 1836 - 1837 -460 1838 -00:20:01,320 ~-~-> 00:20:04,470 1839 -occur at any time really. But you have 1840 - 1841 -461 1842 -00:20:04,470 ~-~-> 00:20:06,630 1843 -to learn to limit your trade frequency. 1844 - 1845 -462 1846 -00:20:09,030 ~-~-> 00:20:11,790 1847 -Avoid short term trading, turning it 1848 - 1849 -463 1850 -00:20:11,790 ~-~-> 00:20:15,420 1851 -into long term trading. When I first 1852 - 1853 -464 1854 -00:20:15,420 ~-~-> 00:20:18,840 1855 -started, I had no idea what style of 1856 - 1857 -465 1858 -00:20:18,840 ~-~-> 00:20:20,850 1859 -trading that I was going to really focus 1860 - 1861 -466 1862 -00:20:20,850 ~-~-> 00:20:24,660 1863 -on on I was being told I wanted to be a 1864 - 1865 -467 1866 -00:20:24,660 ~-~-> 00:20:26,520 1867 -position trader, you get on the daily 1868 - 1869 -468 1870 -00:20:26,520 ~-~-> 00:20:28,410 1871 -chart, catch a 123, hold it for three, 1872 - 1873 -469 1874 -00:20:28,410 ~-~-> 00:20:31,530 1875 -four or five, six months. And I couldn't 1876 - 1877 -470 1878 -00:20:31,530 ~-~-> 00:20:34,470 1879 -do it. I just couldn't do it. And when I 1880 - 1881 -471 1882 -00:20:34,470 ~-~-> 00:20:35,970 1883 -started trading with short term 1884 - 1885 -472 1886 -00:20:36,300 ~-~-> 00:20:39,270 1887 -strategies and such, when I was in 1888 - 1889 -473 1890 -00:20:39,270 ~-~-> 00:20:41,100 1891 -winners that started to move a lot for 1892 - 1893 -474 1894 -00:20:41,100 ~-~-> 00:20:45,330 1895 -me. If you trade of any length of time, 1896 - 1897 -475 1898 -00:20:45,600 ~-~-> 00:20:46,860 1899 -eventually you're going to get lucky 1900 - 1901 -476 1902 -00:20:46,860 ~-~-> 00:20:48,720 1903 -with something. And when it starts 1904 - 1905 -477 1906 -00:20:48,720 ~-~-> 00:20:51,240 1907 -moving in your favor really explosively. 1908 - 1909 -478 1910 -00:20:52,230 ~-~-> 00:20:54,570 1911 -Something happens inside of our brain. 1912 - 1913 -479 1914 -00:20:54,690 ~-~-> 00:20:56,850 1915 -It's like okay, this was only going to 1916 - 1917 -480 1918 -00:20:56,850 ~-~-> 00:20:59,280 1919 -be a trade for a couple hours, and maybe 1920 - 1921 -481 1922 -00:20:59,280 ~-~-> 00:21:03,630 1923 -make You know, five or six handles in 1924 - 1925 -482 1926 -00:21:03,630 ~-~-> 00:21:08,370 1927 -the SMP or 100 pips in the Forex, okay, 1928 - 1929 -483 1930 -00:21:08,400 ~-~-> 00:21:11,640 1931 -or a $2 and 50 cent move in the stock 1932 - 1933 -484 1934 -00:21:11,820 ~-~-> 00:21:13,860 1935 -that you're trading. But now because 1936 - 1937 -485 1938 -00:21:13,860 ~-~-> 00:21:16,260 1939 -it's exploded, you're like, well, this 1940 - 1941 -486 1942 -00:21:16,260 ~-~-> 00:21:20,670 1943 -is now a six month trade. And you end up 1944 - 1945 -487 1946 -00:21:20,670 ~-~-> 00:21:23,730 1947 -holding on to a winner turn loser. And 1948 - 1949 -488 1950 -00:21:23,730 ~-~-> 00:21:26,640 1951 -you changed your strategy from it was 1952 - 1953 -489 1954 -00:21:26,640 ~-~-> 00:21:28,560 1955 -gonna be a short term trade to now a 1956 - 1957 -490 1958 -00:21:28,560 ~-~-> 00:21:30,900 1959 -long term trade in that short term gain 1960 - 1961 -491 1962 -00:21:30,900 ~-~-> 00:21:35,310 1963 -turns into a now an immediate loss. It's 1964 - 1965 -492 1966 -00:21:35,310 ~-~-> 00:21:38,490 1967 -debilitating. stick to what you were 1968 - 1969 -493 1970 -00:21:38,490 ~-~-> 00:21:40,320 1971 -trying to do. When it gets to your 1972 - 1973 -494 1974 -00:21:40,320 ~-~-> 00:21:44,370 1975 -objectives. scale out and get your 1976 - 1977 -495 1978 -00:21:44,370 ~-~-> 00:21:46,650 1979 -target and move to the sidelines. Don't 1980 - 1981 -496 1982 -00:21:46,830 ~-~-> 00:21:49,440 1983 -change strategies while you're in a 1984 - 1985 -497 1986 -00:21:49,440 ~-~-> 00:21:51,720 1987 -trade that never ever, ever is a good 1988 - 1989 -498 1990 -00:21:51,720 ~-~-> 00:21:52,020 1991 -thing. 1992 - 1993 -499 1994 -00:21:54,270 ~-~-> 00:21:56,640 1995 -And be content with enough. If you had a 1996 - 1997 -500 1998 -00:21:56,640 ~-~-> 00:21:59,730 1999 -profitable week and it's Thursday, close 2000 - 2001 -501 2002 -00:21:59,730 ~-~-> 00:22:01,320 2003 -up shop Who says you have to trade on 2004 - 2005 -502 2006 -00:22:01,320 ~-~-> 00:22:04,230 2007 -Friday? What happens if you have a good 2008 - 2009 -503 2010 -00:22:04,650 ~-~-> 00:22:07,020 2011 -Monday and Tuesday, and it's way beyond 2012 - 2013 -504 2014 -00:22:07,020 ~-~-> 00:22:10,950 2015 -your normal return you return? Why would 2016 - 2017 -505 2018 -00:22:10,950 ~-~-> 00:22:13,470 2019 -you want to press your luck? The chances 2020 - 2021 -506 2022 -00:22:13,470 ~-~-> 00:22:14,430 2023 -are, you're going to give some of that 2024 - 2025 -507 2026 -00:22:14,430 ~-~-> 00:22:17,340 2027 -back, if not all of it. And when I was 2028 - 2029 -508 2030 -00:22:17,340 ~-~-> 00:22:19,560 2031 -younger, I did that a lot in my first 2032 - 2033 -509 2034 -00:22:19,560 ~-~-> 00:22:22,710 2035 -six years. But I didn't care. It didn't 2036 - 2037 -510 2038 -00:22:22,710 ~-~-> 00:22:24,390 2039 -bother me, and didn't have any 2040 - 2041 -511 2042 -00:22:24,390 ~-~-> 00:22:27,000 2043 -appreciation for the risk. Because I 2044 - 2045 -512 2046 -00:22:27,000 ~-~-> 00:22:30,090 2047 -figured, well, I'm going to be right 2048 - 2049 -513 2050 -00:22:30,090 ~-~-> 00:22:32,340 2051 -eventually, in every trade, I was 2052 - 2053 -514 2054 -00:22:32,340 ~-~-> 00:22:34,290 2055 -swinging for the fences. And I wanted to 2056 - 2057 -515 2058 -00:22:34,290 ~-~-> 00:22:36,450 2059 -make lots and lots of money. But the 2060 - 2061 -516 2062 -00:22:36,450 ~-~-> 00:22:38,160 2063 -problem with that is, because I was 2064 - 2065 -517 2066 -00:22:38,160 ~-~-> 00:22:39,570 2067 -taking on so much risk. When I had a 2068 - 2069 -518 2070 -00:22:39,570 ~-~-> 00:22:41,250 2071 -little bit of profit, I would close 2072 - 2073 -519 2074 -00:22:41,250 ~-~-> 00:22:42,420 2075 -because I just couldn't handle it 2076 - 2077 -520 2078 -00:22:42,420 ~-~-> 00:22:44,730 2079 -anymore. It was wearing me down like, 2080 - 2081 -521 2082 -00:22:45,240 ~-~-> 00:22:46,950 2083 -I'm expecting to make $1,000 in this 2084 - 2085 -522 2086 -00:22:46,950 ~-~-> 00:22:50,580 2087 -trade. Alright, I'm up to 50 I'm just I 2088 - 2089 -523 2090 -00:22:50,580 ~-~-> 00:22:53,520 2091 -just gotta get out, I'm fatigued. That's 2092 - 2093 -524 2094 -00:22:53,520 ~-~-> 00:22:54,690 2095 -what the market will do to you. If you 2096 - 2097 -525 2098 -00:22:54,690 ~-~-> 00:22:58,470 2099 -have no appreciation for the risk. Don't 2100 - 2101 -526 2102 -00:22:59,490 ~-~-> 00:23:03,270 2103 -undermine You're trading by not tackling 2104 - 2105 -527 2106 -00:23:03,360 ~-~-> 00:23:06,030 2107 -the first lesson in risk management, you 2108 - 2109 -528 2110 -00:23:06,030 ~-~-> 00:23:08,400 2111 -have to understand it, and how you 2112 - 2113 -529 2114 -00:23:08,910 ~-~-> 00:23:11,820 2115 -personally engage with the marketplace 2116 - 2117 -530 2118 -00:23:12,000 ~-~-> 00:23:18,180 2119 -and how you are, I guess, adversely 2120 - 2121 -531 2122 -00:23:19,110 ~-~-> 00:23:21,480 2123 -affected, I guess that's the train of 2124 - 2125 -532 2126 -00:23:21,480 ~-~-> 00:23:23,040 2127 -thought. I'm trying to communicate here 2128 - 2129 -533 2130 -00:23:23,040 ~-~-> 00:23:25,860 2131 -because unless you feel the pain of 2132 - 2133 -534 2134 -00:23:25,860 ~-~-> 00:23:27,750 2135 -being in a market that's not moving in 2136 - 2137 -535 2138 -00:23:27,750 ~-~-> 00:23:30,180 2139 -your favor, or screaming against you, 2140 - 2141 -536 2142 -00:23:31,110 ~-~-> 00:23:32,850 2143 -you're not going to fully appreciate 2144 - 2145 -537 2146 -00:23:33,840 ~-~-> 00:23:36,900 2147 -what I'm saying here. And as a younger 2148 - 2149 -538 2150 -00:23:36,900 ~-~-> 00:23:41,370 2151 -man, I saw lots of equity swings that 2152 - 2153 -539 2154 -00:23:41,370 ~-~-> 00:23:43,350 2155 -would make anyone else nauseous. And I 2156 - 2157 -540 2158 -00:23:43,350 ~-~-> 00:23:45,390 2159 -just, I didn't care. I had no 2160 - 2161 -541 2162 -00:23:45,390 ~-~-> 00:23:47,160 2163 -appreciation. I had no respect for the 2164 - 2165 -542 2166 -00:23:47,160 ~-~-> 00:23:50,130 2167 -marketplace because I figured I'm going 2168 - 2169 -543 2170 -00:23:50,130 ~-~-> 00:23:52,980 2171 -to get it right eventually. And I went 2172 - 2173 -544 2174 -00:23:52,980 ~-~-> 00:23:55,620 2175 -through many accounts, not one or two, 2176 - 2177 -545 2178 -00:23:55,650 ~-~-> 00:23:59,010 2179 -many like 14 individual trading 2180 - 2181 -546 2182 -00:23:59,010 ~-~-> 00:24:02,220 2183 -accounts. I would save up money, save up 2184 - 2185 -547 2186 -00:24:02,220 ~-~-> 00:24:04,170 2187 -money. My first account was with a 2188 - 2189 -548 2190 -00:24:04,170 ~-~-> 00:24:06,960 2191 -credit card. And then the second account 2192 - 2193 -549 2194 -00:24:06,960 ~-~-> 00:24:09,720 2195 -was with another credit card 20 $600 on 2196 - 2197 -550 2198 -00:24:09,720 ~-~-> 00:24:12,570 2199 -a nation's bank, credit card visa. And 2200 - 2201 -551 2202 -00:24:12,570 ~-~-> 00:24:14,610 2203 -you pay a lot of a lot of percentage in 2204 - 2205 -552 2206 -00:24:14,610 ~-~-> 00:24:16,710 2207 -terms of interest when you borrow cash. 2208 - 2209 -553 2210 -00:24:17,490 ~-~-> 00:24:19,950 2211 -And I just was doing everything wrong, 2212 - 2213 -554 2214 -00:24:20,130 ~-~-> 00:24:23,430 2215 -everything wrong, but I was not going to 2216 - 2217 -555 2218 -00:24:23,430 ~-~-> 00:24:28,590 2219 -be deterred. Moving on, you want to 2220 - 2221 -556 2222 -00:24:28,590 ~-~-> 00:24:31,140 2223 -prevent life imbalances, and this is one 2224 - 2225 -557 2226 -00:24:31,140 ~-~-> 00:24:32,820 2227 -of the things that I failed miserably 2228 - 2229 -558 2230 -00:24:32,820 ~-~-> 00:24:37,290 2231 -at. Have a pretty large family of five 2232 - 2233 -559 2234 -00:24:37,290 ~-~-> 00:24:39,420 2235 -children. One that was brought into my 2236 - 2237 -560 2238 -00:24:39,420 ~-~-> 00:24:40,950 2239 -marriage, I brought one into my 2240 - 2241 -561 2242 -00:24:40,950 ~-~-> 00:24:42,930 2243 -marriage, and I had three children with 2244 - 2245 -562 2246 -00:24:42,930 ~-~-> 00:24:47,310 2247 -three sons with my present wife. I 2248 - 2249 -563 2250 -00:24:47,700 ~-~-> 00:24:49,350 2251 -didn't spend a lot of time with my kids. 2252 - 2253 -564 2254 -00:24:49,560 ~-~-> 00:24:51,210 2255 -When I was younger, I was consumed with 2256 - 2257 -565 2258 -00:24:51,210 ~-~-> 00:24:52,680 2259 -the marketplace. I was consumed with 2260 - 2261 -566 2262 -00:24:52,680 ~-~-> 00:24:54,600 2263 -making money. I was consumed with 2264 - 2265 -567 2266 -00:24:54,660 ~-~-> 00:24:57,600 2267 -building businesses, consumed with real 2268 - 2269 -568 2270 -00:24:57,600 ~-~-> 00:25:02,370 2271 -estate, buying franchises. Just always 2272 - 2273 -569 2274 -00:25:02,370 ~-~-> 00:25:04,350 2275 -Money, money, money, money, money, and 2276 - 2277 -570 2278 -00:25:04,380 ~-~-> 00:25:07,230 2279 -most of my children's sporting events, I 2280 - 2281 -571 2282 -00:25:07,230 ~-~-> 00:25:15,930 2283 -missed them. And it was very hard to see 2284 - 2285 -572 2286 -00:25:15,930 ~-~-> 00:25:17,730 2287 -how much time I missed when I look back. 2288 - 2289 -573 2290 -00:25:17,880 ~-~-> 00:25:20,340 2291 -And now look at my children as adults. 2292 - 2293 -574 2294 -00:25:20,730 ~-~-> 00:25:24,360 2295 -Not all of them I have a 15 year old and 2296 - 2297 -575 2298 -00:25:24,360 ~-~-> 00:25:27,240 2299 -a shouldn't be 13 year old. It's still 2300 - 2301 -576 2302 -00:25:27,240 ~-~-> 00:25:29,820 2303 -living with me, but my older children, I 2304 - 2305 -577 2306 -00:25:29,820 ~-~-> 00:25:32,880 2307 -don't have a lot of memories. Because I 2308 - 2309 -578 2310 -00:25:32,880 ~-~-> 00:25:36,540 2311 -allowed the market to steal that. And I 2312 - 2313 -579 2314 -00:25:36,540 ~-~-> 00:25:38,850 2315 -chased it more, the faster it ran away 2316 - 2317 -580 2318 -00:25:38,850 ~-~-> 00:25:40,950 2319 -from me, the more I would pursue it, 2320 - 2321 -581 2322 -00:25:41,280 ~-~-> 00:25:43,830 2323 -because I was telling myself that I'm 2324 - 2325 -582 2326 -00:25:43,830 ~-~-> 00:25:46,530 2327 -doing all of this for them. And that 2328 - 2329 -583 2330 -00:25:46,530 ~-~-> 00:25:51,360 2331 -wasn't true. I was doing it for me. me 2332 - 2333 -584 2334 -00:25:52,170 ~-~-> 00:25:55,140 2335 -because I hated my job. I hated where I 2336 - 2337 -585 2338 -00:25:55,140 ~-~-> 00:25:58,830 2339 -was in life and I wanted more and I 2340 - 2341 -586 2342 -00:25:58,950 ~-~-> 00:26:02,130 2343 -wasn't sad. Despite where I was, and 2344 - 2345 -587 2346 -00:26:02,130 ~-~-> 00:26:05,790 2347 -every adversity brought on a new sense 2348 - 2349 -588 2350 -00:26:05,820 ~-~-> 00:26:09,360 2351 -of urgency that I gotta get this changed 2352 - 2353 -589 2354 -00:26:09,360 ~-~-> 00:26:13,500 2355 -right now. And days would pass in turn 2356 - 2357 -590 2358 -00:26:13,500 ~-~-> 00:26:17,970 2359 -two weeks, two months, two years. And I 2360 - 2361 -591 2362 -00:26:17,970 ~-~-> 00:26:21,570 2363 -missed so much time with my wife. I 2364 - 2365 -592 2366 -00:26:21,570 ~-~-> 00:26:23,280 2367 -missed so much time with my children. 2368 - 2369 -593 2370 -00:26:24,000 ~-~-> 00:26:26,010 2371 -And the greatest lesson I can tell you 2372 - 2373 -594 2374 -00:26:26,010 ~-~-> 00:26:27,390 2375 -right now, if you're new, especially if 2376 - 2377 -595 2378 -00:26:27,390 ~-~-> 00:26:29,490 2379 -you're a young man or a woman, and 2380 - 2381 -596 2382 -00:26:29,490 ~-~-> 00:26:31,020 2383 -you're getting ready to get into this, 2384 - 2385 -597 2386 -00:26:32,250 ~-~-> 00:26:36,120 2387 -these markets are vampires. They will 2388 - 2389 -598 2390 -00:26:36,120 ~-~-> 00:26:39,600 2391 -suck every drop in the marrow in your 2392 - 2393 -599 2394 -00:26:39,600 ~-~-> 00:26:43,290 2395 -bones if you give it to them. It does 2396 - 2397 -600 2398 -00:26:43,290 ~-~-> 00:26:45,300 2399 -not matter how much money you think you 2400 - 2401 -601 2402 -00:26:45,300 ~-~-> 00:26:47,520 2403 -can make or eventually make, because I'm 2404 - 2405 -602 2406 -00:26:47,520 ~-~-> 00:26:48,870 2407 -gonna tell you something. I've made a 2408 - 2409 -603 2410 -00:26:48,870 ~-~-> 00:26:53,310 2411 -lot of money. Millions of real dollars, 2412 - 2413 -604 2414 -00:26:53,550 ~-~-> 00:26:54,570 2415 -millions. 2416 - 2417 -605 2418 -00:26:55,980 ~-~-> 00:26:58,470 2419 -And I would give it all back. If I could 2420 - 2421 -606 2422 -00:26:58,470 ~-~-> 00:27:00,810 2423 -go back in time and be To spend the time 2424 - 2425 -607 2426 -00:27:00,810 ~-~-> 00:27:02,940 2427 -with my kids and my wife that I missed. 2428 - 2429 -608 2430 -00:27:08,849 ~-~-> 00:27:12,419 2431 -I created a prison cell for myself with 2432 - 2433 -609 2434 -00:27:12,419 ~-~-> 00:27:14,999 2435 -these markets that I willfully put 2436 - 2437 -610 2438 -00:27:14,999 ~-~-> 00:27:17,999 2439 -myself into every single day. And it 2440 - 2441 -611 2442 -00:27:17,999 ~-~-> 00:27:20,639 2443 -wasn't enough to be in the daytime, 2444 - 2445 -612 2446 -00:27:21,239 ~-~-> 00:27:23,189 2447 -worrying that all day long at work Was I 2448 - 2449 -613 2450 -00:27:23,189 ~-~-> 00:27:26,519 2451 -being a good employee No. Many times I 2452 - 2453 -614 2454 -00:27:26,519 ~-~-> 00:27:29,369 2455 -half assed my job, because I had to get 2456 - 2457 -615 2458 -00:27:29,369 ~-~-> 00:27:31,559 2459 -back to the truck where my quote trek 2460 - 2461 -616 2462 -00:27:31,559 ~-~-> 00:27:33,149 2463 -was, which was my little quote machine, 2464 - 2465 -617 2466 -00:27:33,959 ~-~-> 00:27:35,879 2467 -telling me what the soybean market was 2468 - 2469 -618 2470 -00:27:35,879 ~-~-> 00:27:39,269 2471 -doing, or what live cattle was doing, or 2472 - 2473 -619 2474 -00:27:39,299 ~-~-> 00:27:41,969 2475 -what the bond market was doing. I was 2476 - 2477 -620 2478 -00:27:41,969 ~-~-> 00:27:43,739 2479 -more concerned about that. And most of 2480 - 2481 -621 2482 -00:27:43,739 ~-~-> 00:27:46,559 2483 -the time I was losing money. So I wasn't 2484 - 2485 -622 2486 -00:27:46,559 ~-~-> 00:27:49,919 2487 -a good employee at the time. And when I 2488 - 2489 -623 2490 -00:27:49,919 ~-~-> 00:27:53,279 2491 -got home in the evening time, what was I 2492 - 2493 -624 2494 -00:27:53,279 ~-~-> 00:27:59,009 2495 -concerned about? family know I was 2496 - 2497 -625 2498 -00:27:59,009 ~-~-> 00:28:03,179 2499 -concerned about The market. I was 2500 - 2501 -626 2502 -00:28:03,179 ~-~-> 00:28:07,379 2503 -wanting to know, what can I do to make 2504 - 2505 -627 2506 -00:28:07,379 ~-~-> 00:28:10,739 2507 -more money. And my family will be there 2508 - 2509 -628 2510 -00:28:10,739 ~-~-> 00:28:16,919 2511 -when I'm done. And that's a lie. It's a 2512 - 2513 -629 2514 -00:28:16,919 ~-~-> 00:28:20,609 2515 -lie. You're going to give up your life 2516 - 2517 -630 2518 -00:28:21,419 ~-~-> 00:28:24,599 2519 -if you don't pay attention to it. So how 2520 - 2521 -631 2522 -00:28:24,599 ~-~-> 00:28:26,879 2523 -do you avoid it? You have to manage your 2524 - 2525 -632 2526 -00:28:26,879 ~-~-> 00:28:30,059 2527 -family time and schedule it. This is the 2528 - 2529 -633 2530 -00:28:30,059 ~-~-> 00:28:32,489 2531 -time for your family. No markets, no 2532 - 2533 -634 2534 -00:28:32,489 ~-~-> 00:28:36,029 2535 -charts, no TV time looking at reports 2536 - 2537 -635 2538 -00:28:36,029 ~-~-> 00:28:37,409 2539 -and news events that would drive the 2540 - 2541 -636 2542 -00:28:37,409 ~-~-> 00:28:40,289 2543 -marketplace. No newspapers, no articles 2544 - 2545 -637 2546 -00:28:40,289 ~-~-> 00:28:43,349 2547 -and magazines, no internet, no Twitter, 2548 - 2549 -638 2550 -00:28:43,649 ~-~-> 00:28:46,439 2551 -none of that stuff. You manage your 2552 - 2553 -639 2554 -00:28:46,469 ~-~-> 00:28:49,049 2555 -family time and you schedule it. And 2556 - 2557 -640 2558 -00:28:49,049 ~-~-> 00:28:52,319 2559 -then once you have gave your family your 2560 - 2561 -641 2562 -00:28:52,319 ~-~-> 00:28:57,539 2563 -time, an ample amount of it. Then you 2564 - 2565 -642 2566 -00:28:57,539 ~-~-> 00:28:59,009 2567 -have to return back to the marketplace. 2568 - 2569 -643 2570 -00:29:01,019 ~-~-> 00:29:05,099 2571 -Do you want to keep a study and trade 2572 - 2573 -644 2574 -00:29:05,099 ~-~-> 00:29:09,689 2575 -schedule? That means, what time of day? 2576 - 2577 -645 2578 -00:29:09,719 ~-~-> 00:29:11,069 2579 -Are you gonna be looking at the market 2580 - 2581 -646 2582 -00:29:11,399 ~-~-> 00:29:14,219 2583 -trade. And there are specific times of 2584 - 2585 -647 2586 -00:29:14,219 ~-~-> 00:29:17,339 2587 -the day, days of the week, months of the 2588 - 2589 -648 2590 -00:29:17,339 ~-~-> 00:29:19,079 2591 -year that you want to be focusing on 2592 - 2593 -649 2594 -00:29:19,079 ~-~-> 00:29:20,489 2595 -trading. And there are other times when 2596 - 2597 -650 2598 -00:29:20,489 ~-~-> 00:29:21,809 2599 -you don't want to be doing that. And you 2600 - 2601 -651 2602 -00:29:21,809 ~-~-> 00:29:23,849 2603 -want to be focusing on what they are. 2604 - 2605 -652 2606 -00:29:24,569 ~-~-> 00:29:26,969 2607 -And when are you going to study how much 2608 - 2609 -653 2610 -00:29:26,969 ~-~-> 00:29:28,439 2611 -time each day are you going to unlock 2612 - 2613 -654 2614 -00:29:28,499 ~-~-> 00:29:31,469 2615 -for studying? Because if you don't have 2616 - 2617 -655 2618 -00:29:31,469 ~-~-> 00:29:33,449 2619 -that, you're just going to go in there 2620 - 2621 -656 2622 -00:29:33,449 ~-~-> 00:29:35,699 2623 -and say, well, it's basically like 2624 - 2625 -657 2626 -00:29:35,699 ~-~-> 00:29:38,039 2627 -Netflix. I'm going to sit down, binge 2628 - 2629 -658 2630 -00:29:38,039 ~-~-> 00:29:40,319 2631 -watch and see what happens. Well, if you 2632 - 2633 -659 2634 -00:29:40,319 ~-~-> 00:29:41,999 2635 -look at a chart long enough, it's going 2636 - 2637 -660 2638 -00:29:41,999 ~-~-> 00:29:43,919 2639 -to start telling you, you know, if you 2640 - 2641 -661 2642 -00:29:43,919 ~-~-> 00:29:45,779 2643 -put some money into me, I might give you 2644 - 2645 -662 2646 -00:29:45,779 ~-~-> 00:29:49,829 2647 -some more back and you're going to 2648 - 2649 -663 2650 -00:29:49,829 ~-~-> 00:29:53,729 2651 -gamble. How long will a gambler sit in 2652 - 2653 -664 2654 -00:29:53,729 ~-~-> 00:29:55,529 2655 -front of a slot machine with a pocketful 2656 - 2657 -665 2658 -00:29:55,529 ~-~-> 00:29:57,809 2659 -of quarters before they put all the 2660 - 2661 -666 2662 -00:29:57,809 ~-~-> 00:30:00,809 2663 -quarters in there. As fast as they get 2664 - 2665 -667 2666 -00:30:00,809 ~-~-> 00:30:03,239 2667 -the next one. And that's what these 2668 - 2669 -668 2670 -00:30:03,239 ~-~-> 00:30:06,179 2671 -charts are their slot machines. And 2672 - 2673 -669 2674 -00:30:06,179 ~-~-> 00:30:07,949 2675 -you're great you're being groomed as a 2676 - 2677 -670 2678 -00:30:07,949 ~-~-> 00:30:09,779 2679 -gambler and all the books and things 2680 - 2681 -671 2682 -00:30:09,779 ~-~-> 00:30:11,729 2683 -that you learn from other people. And 2684 - 2685 -672 2686 -00:30:11,729 ~-~-> 00:30:13,889 2687 -it's just an enticement to constantly do 2688 - 2689 -673 2690 -00:30:13,889 ~-~-> 00:30:17,549 2691 -that feed that beast. So you have to 2692 - 2693 -674 2694 -00:30:17,549 ~-~-> 00:30:19,829 2695 -keep a study and trade schedule, and 2696 - 2697 -675 2698 -00:30:19,829 ~-~-> 00:30:24,479 2699 -only operate on that basis. off days are 2700 - 2701 -676 2702 -00:30:24,479 ~-~-> 00:30:28,229 2703 -off days. On the weekends, I spent more 2704 - 2705 -677 2706 -00:30:28,229 ~-~-> 00:30:30,359 2707 -time worrying about the marketplace when 2708 - 2709 -678 2710 -00:30:30,359 ~-~-> 00:30:31,499 2711 -I should have been spending it with my 2712 - 2713 -679 2714 -00:30:31,499 ~-~-> 00:30:34,589 2715 -family. So you have to absolutely hold 2716 - 2717 -680 2718 -00:30:34,589 ~-~-> 00:30:37,679 2719 -yourself hard and fast to when you don't 2720 - 2721 -681 2722 -00:30:37,679 ~-~-> 00:30:40,049 2723 -have any market activity and it's not 2724 - 2725 -682 2726 -00:30:40,049 ~-~-> 00:30:42,659 2727 -trading or it's a holiday, it may impact 2728 - 2729 -683 2730 -00:30:42,929 ~-~-> 00:30:45,959 2731 -with lower volume. That's an off day and 2732 - 2733 -684 2734 -00:30:45,959 ~-~-> 00:30:47,489 2735 -you don't look at the charts you don't 2736 - 2737 -685 2738 -00:30:47,489 ~-~-> 00:30:50,579 2739 -concern yourself with looking at what 2740 - 2741 -686 2742 -00:30:50,579 ~-~-> 00:30:52,319 2743 -could have happened. None of that stuff. 2744 - 2745 -687 2746 -00:30:52,859 ~-~-> 00:30:54,929 2747 -You pour it into your family and that 2748 - 2749 -688 2750 -00:30:54,929 ~-~-> 00:30:56,609 2751 -will prevent you from having a life 2752 - 2753 -689 2754 -00:30:56,609 ~-~-> 00:30:59,879 2755 -imbalance and finally want to be patient 2756 - 2757 -690 2758 -00:30:59,879 ~-~-> 00:31:05,939 2759 -with Development. I was overzealous and 2760 - 2761 -691 2762 -00:31:05,939 ~-~-> 00:31:08,759 2763 -unrealistic about what I wanted to do 2764 - 2765 -692 2766 -00:31:08,759 ~-~-> 00:31:10,529 2767 -once I started making money. That's what 2768 - 2769 -693 2770 -00:31:10,739 ~-~-> 00:31:12,929 2771 -caught fire in me. And I was like, I 2772 - 2773 -694 2774 -00:31:12,929 ~-~-> 00:31:15,179 2775 -want more, I want more, I want more. And 2776 - 2777 -695 2778 -00:31:15,179 ~-~-> 00:31:17,129 2779 -when I saw I could take a very small 2780 - 2781 -696 2782 -00:31:17,129 ~-~-> 00:31:22,829 2783 -Count 1200 1500 dollars to $15,000 in 2784 - 2785 -697 2786 -00:31:22,829 ~-~-> 00:31:26,099 2787 -less than six weeks, I was like, This is 2788 - 2789 -698 2790 -00:31:26,159 ~-~-> 00:31:27,899 2791 -exactly what I want to do. Like I want 2792 - 2793 -699 2794 -00:31:27,899 ~-~-> 00:31:29,579 2795 -to do this, I want to do anything else. 2796 - 2797 -700 2798 -00:31:30,509 ~-~-> 00:31:34,259 2799 -And you don't have to rush, especially 2800 - 2801 -701 2802 -00:31:34,259 ~-~-> 00:31:38,159 2803 -if you're younger than 30. Like if 2804 - 2805 -702 2806 -00:31:38,159 ~-~-> 00:31:41,159 2807 -you're in your 20s you have so much time 2808 - 2809 -703 2810 -00:31:42,209 ~-~-> 00:31:43,739 2811 -to get yourself where you want to be. 2812 - 2813 -704 2814 -00:31:44,459 ~-~-> 00:31:47,789 2815 -But you want to take the time to develop 2816 - 2817 -705 2818 -00:31:47,789 ~-~-> 00:31:49,919 2819 -yourself and learn a lot about yourself 2820 - 2821 -706 2822 -00:31:49,919 ~-~-> 00:31:51,899 2823 -because if you're not aware of what 2824 - 2825 -707 2826 -00:31:51,899 ~-~-> 00:31:53,459 2827 -you're going to likely do to yourself to 2828 - 2829 -708 2830 -00:31:53,459 ~-~-> 00:31:57,269 2831 -throw yourself off the rails. It doesn't 2832 - 2833 -709 2834 -00:31:57,269 ~-~-> 00:31:59,729 2835 -matter what you're going to learn or 2836 - 2837 -710 2838 -00:31:59,729 ~-~-> 00:32:00,899 2839 -what you're Gonna do or how much money 2840 - 2841 -711 2842 -00:32:00,899 ~-~-> 00:32:01,289 2843 -you start 2844 - 2845 -712 2846 -00:32:01,290 ~-~-> 00:32:03,090 2847 -with, or how much time you put into it, 2848 - 2849 -713 2850 -00:32:03,810 ~-~-> 00:32:06,270 2851 -it just means that you're going to rush 2852 - 2853 -714 2854 -00:32:06,270 ~-~-> 00:32:09,060 2855 -to destruction. So you have to give 2856 - 2857 -715 2858 -00:32:09,060 ~-~-> 00:32:11,670 2859 -yourself a realistic timeline. When I 2860 - 2861 -716 2862 -00:32:11,670 ~-~-> 00:32:13,680 2863 -first started, my plan was I wanted to 2864 - 2865 -717 2866 -00:32:13,680 ~-~-> 00:32:15,750 2867 -retire at 40. I want to make $1,000 a 2868 - 2869 -718 2870 -00:32:15,750 ~-~-> 00:32:18,150 2871 -month and retire at 40. That was my 2872 - 2873 -719 2874 -00:32:18,150 ~-~-> 00:32:21,600 2875 -plan. And I quickly learned that that 2876 - 2877 -720 2878 -00:32:21,600 ~-~-> 00:32:25,170 2879 -was a really low objective. What was 2880 - 2881 -721 2882 -00:32:25,170 ~-~-> 00:32:28,890 2883 -possible was a lot more than that. But I 2884 - 2885 -722 2886 -00:32:28,890 ~-~-> 00:32:31,080 2887 -wasn't prepared to see that type of 2888 - 2889 -723 2890 -00:32:31,080 ~-~-> 00:32:33,330 2891 -equity increase. When I started making a 2892 - 2893 -724 2894 -00:32:33,330 ~-~-> 00:32:39,090 2895 -lot of money. It's like a drug it makes 2896 - 2897 -725 2898 -00:32:39,090 ~-~-> 00:32:40,800 2899 -you want to do more and more and you 2900 - 2901 -726 2902 -00:32:40,950 ~-~-> 00:32:43,320 2903 -throw that in with he didn't care about 2904 - 2905 -727 2906 -00:32:43,320 ~-~-> 00:32:46,590 2907 -risk because I didn't it hurt me and I 2908 - 2909 -728 2910 -00:32:46,590 ~-~-> 00:32:49,140 2911 -would see these huge gains and then huge 2912 - 2913 -729 2914 -00:32:49,140 ~-~-> 00:32:52,170 2915 -draw downs. So while I'd have really big 2916 - 2917 -730 2918 -00:32:52,170 ~-~-> 00:32:54,330 2919 -run up, and I'd have a roller coaster 2920 - 2921 -731 2922 -00:32:54,330 ~-~-> 00:32:58,020 2923 -drop, and it would just put me back in 2924 - 2925 -732 2926 -00:32:58,020 ~-~-> 00:33:00,690 2927 -that I gotta go back in Spend more time 2928 - 2929 -733 2930 -00:33:00,690 ~-~-> 00:33:03,120 2931 -on the charts and who was suffering my 2932 - 2933 -734 2934 -00:33:03,120 ~-~-> 00:33:05,310 2935 -family. My children didn't get to see 2936 - 2937 -735 2938 -00:33:05,310 ~-~-> 00:33:07,050 2939 -their family or their father that much. 2940 - 2941 -736 2942 -00:33:07,470 ~-~-> 00:33:10,380 2943 -My wife didn't get to see me as much as 2944 - 2945 -737 2946 -00:33:10,380 ~-~-> 00:33:13,530 2947 -her husband. And I missed out on a lot. 2948 - 2949 -738 2950 -00:33:14,520 ~-~-> 00:33:19,080 2951 -And seeing a couple photographs is not 2952 - 2953 -739 2954 -00:33:19,080 ~-~-> 00:33:20,760 2955 -the same as being there to cheer your 2956 - 2957 -740 2958 -00:33:20,760 ~-~-> 00:33:22,680 2959 -kid on. When he's up here and he hits 2960 - 2961 -741 2962 -00:33:22,680 ~-~-> 00:33:27,420 2963 -his first home run. I missed that. When 2964 - 2965 -742 2966 -00:33:27,420 ~-~-> 00:33:30,150 2967 -his basketball team wins, and he made 2968 - 2969 -743 2970 -00:33:30,150 ~-~-> 00:33:33,510 2971 -that shot, great for the last bell. I 2972 - 2973 -744 2974 -00:33:33,510 ~-~-> 00:33:38,760 2975 -missed that. But hey, I made money on 2976 - 2977 -745 2978 -00:33:38,790 ~-~-> 00:33:42,720 2979 -lean hogs. It doesn't measure up. 2980 - 2981 -746 2982 -00:33:48,510 ~-~-> 00:33:50,790 2983 -Stop buying retail logic and tools. You 2984 - 2985 -747 2986 -00:33:50,790 ~-~-> 00:33:53,130 2987 -just don't want to be filling your head 2988 - 2989 -748 2990 -00:33:53,130 ~-~-> 00:33:56,970 2991 -up with all of this poor thinking, okay, 2992 - 2993 -749 2994 -00:33:56,970 ~-~-> 00:33:58,200 2995 -because that's exactly what it is. 2996 - 2997 -750 2998 -00:33:58,770 ~-~-> 00:34:01,110 2999 -Everything you learn in retailed books 3000 - 3001 -751 3002 -00:34:01,110 ~-~-> 00:34:03,240 3003 -and courses is diametrically opposed to 3004 - 3005 -752 3006 -00:34:03,240 ~-~-> 00:34:06,660 3007 -how the actual markets work. So stop 3008 - 3009 -753 3010 -00:34:06,660 ~-~-> 00:34:08,730 3011 -wasting money on books. And I've 3012 - 3013 -754 3014 -00:34:08,730 ~-~-> 00:34:11,550 3015 -purchased either by electronic format or 3016 - 3017 -755 3018 -00:34:12,000 ~-~-> 00:34:16,110 3019 -actual hardcopy books. I have over 2000 3020 - 3021 -756 3022 -00:34:16,110 ~-~-> 00:34:18,570 3023 -of them, and I won't buy another book 3024 - 3025 -757 3026 -00:34:18,570 ~-~-> 00:34:20,280 3027 -ever again. And I wish I would have 3028 - 3029 -758 3030 -00:34:20,280 ~-~-> 00:34:22,950 3031 -stopped. The second year that I started 3032 - 3033 -759 3034 -00:34:22,950 ~-~-> 00:34:24,390 3035 -buying them I had in my mind, I was 3036 - 3037 -760 3038 -00:34:24,390 ~-~-> 00:34:27,120 3039 -gonna buy as many books as I could, 3040 - 3041 -761 3042 -00:34:27,120 ~-~-> 00:34:28,410 3043 -because somebody out there, it's gonna 3044 - 3045 -762 3046 -00:34:28,410 ~-~-> 00:34:30,120 3047 -have the secret. And I'm gonna tell you 3048 - 3049 -763 3050 -00:34:30,120 ~-~-> 00:34:32,190 3051 -after reading over 2000 books, none of 3052 - 3053 -764 3054 -00:34:32,190 ~-~-> 00:34:34,170 3055 -them did. And there are some real 3056 - 3057 -765 3058 -00:34:34,170 ~-~-> 00:34:36,030 3059 -classics in there. And the ones that I 3060 - 3061 -766 3062 -00:34:36,030 ~-~-> 00:34:38,760 3063 -do, like I've mentioned before, and I 3064 - 3065 -767 3066 -00:34:38,760 ~-~-> 00:34:40,530 3067 -know some of you are new and you want to 3068 - 3069 -768 3070 -00:34:40,530 ~-~-> 00:34:43,950 3071 -know what they are. For money 3072 - 3073 -769 3074 -00:34:43,950 ~-~-> 00:34:45,660 3075 -management, I like everything from Ralph 3076 - 3077 -770 3078 -00:34:45,660 ~-~-> 00:34:49,110 3079 -Vince and Ryan Jones. They do a lot of 3080 - 3081 -771 3082 -00:34:49,230 ~-~-> 00:34:51,900 3083 -optimal F and Kelly criterion. It's a 3084 - 3085 -772 3086 -00:34:51,900 ~-~-> 00:34:53,100 3087 -little bit advanced. I'm not saying that 3088 - 3089 -773 3090 -00:34:53,100 ~-~-> 00:34:54,390 3091 -everyone that first starts trading 3092 - 3093 -774 3094 -00:34:54,390 ~-~-> 00:34:57,510 3095 -should mess with that because it's meant 3096 - 3097 -775 3098 -00:34:57,510 ~-~-> 00:34:59,910 3099 -to run your account up pretty quick and 3100 - 3101 -776 3102 -00:35:00,000 ~-~-> 00:35:01,140 3103 -You're not gonna be prepared for that. 3104 - 3105 -777 3106 -00:35:01,290 ~-~-> 00:35:03,600 3107 -And I wasn't either. That's why I 3108 - 3109 -778 3110 -00:35:03,600 ~-~-> 00:35:06,120 3111 -couldn't make it work right away. So I 3112 - 3113 -779 3114 -00:35:06,120 ~-~-> 00:35:08,010 3115 -did learn a lot about myself and then 3116 - 3117 -780 3118 -00:35:08,610 ~-~-> 00:35:12,090 3119 -tune it for me. How many million dollar 3120 - 3121 -781 3122 -00:35:12,090 ~-~-> 00:35:14,100 3123 -strain commodities last year? It's a 3124 - 3125 -782 3126 -00:35:14,100 ~-~-> 00:35:16,290 3127 -1970s book from Larry Williams. That 3128 - 3129 -783 3130 -00:35:16,290 ~-~-> 00:35:19,170 3131 -book still is relevant today. Not every 3132 - 3133 -784 3134 -00:35:19,170 ~-~-> 00:35:22,170 3135 -little thing in there is but majority of 3136 - 3137 -785 3138 -00:35:22,170 ~-~-> 00:35:25,140 3139 -that book is. That was the real first 3140 - 3141 -786 3142 -00:35:25,140 ~-~-> 00:35:28,230 3143 -inspiration for me to see how smart 3144 - 3145 -787 3146 -00:35:28,230 ~-~-> 00:35:30,150 3147 -money operates in the marketplace. And 3148 - 3149 -788 3150 -00:35:30,150 ~-~-> 00:35:31,830 3151 -then that was my pursuit press my life. 3152 - 3153 -789 3154 -00:35:31,860 ~-~-> 00:35:35,010 3155 -I was going to crack these markets. So 3156 - 3157 -790 3158 -00:35:35,670 ~-~-> 00:35:38,460 3159 -that trading for a living buyouts and 3160 - 3161 -791 3162 -00:35:38,460 ~-~-> 00:35:41,610 3163 -their elder market wizards wanting to 3164 - 3165 -792 3166 -00:35:42,000 ~-~-> 00:35:47,010 3167 -just inspiration and street smarts by 3168 - 3169 -793 3170 -00:35:47,070 ~-~-> 00:35:50,220 3171 -Linda raschke and Larry conners. That's 3172 - 3173 -794 3174 -00:35:51,000 ~-~-> 00:35:53,790 3175 -it. Now if you want to know what to do 3176 - 3177 -795 3178 -00:35:53,790 ~-~-> 00:35:57,300 3179 -the opposite of john Murphy's technical 3180 - 3181 -796 3182 -00:35:57,300 ~-~-> 00:35:59,100 3183 -analysis of financial markets book, 3184 - 3185 -797 3186 -00:35:59,100 ~-~-> 00:36:02,370 3187 -that's the retail Traders Bible. I 3188 - 3189 -798 3190 -00:36:02,370 ~-~-> 00:36:03,960 3191 -always recommend that one simply because 3192 - 3193 -799 3194 -00:36:03,960 ~-~-> 00:36:06,030 3195 -you want to learn how to do the opposite 3196 - 3197 -800 3198 -00:36:06,030 ~-~-> 00:36:07,380 3199 -of everything is being taught that book. 3200 - 3201 -801 3202 -00:36:07,920 ~-~-> 00:36:09,570 3203 -And if you do that, you're going to 3204 - 3205 -802 3206 -00:36:09,570 ~-~-> 00:36:11,340 3207 -quickly see how charts are really, 3208 - 3209 -803 3210 -00:36:11,340 ~-~-> 00:36:14,820 3211 -really fun to watch then, because it's 3212 - 3213 -804 3214 -00:36:15,630 ~-~-> 00:36:19,560 3215 -such a high degree of percentage of 3216 - 3217 -805 3218 -00:36:19,560 ~-~-> 00:36:22,440 3219 -failure failing, that it's more likely 3220 - 3221 -806 3222 -00:36:22,440 ~-~-> 00:36:24,180 3223 -if you just fade those moves, you'll 3224 - 3225 -807 3226 -00:36:24,180 ~-~-> 00:36:26,370 3227 -probably see the chart, work in your 3228 - 3229 -808 3230 -00:36:26,370 ~-~-> 00:36:31,980 3231 -favor. Avoid looking for hot hand gurus. 3232 - 3233 -809 3234 -00:36:32,220 ~-~-> 00:36:34,620 3235 -I did this a lot on America Online. I 3236 - 3237 -810 3238 -00:36:34,620 ~-~-> 00:36:37,620 3239 -chased everybody. If they had a service, 3240 - 3241 -811 3242 -00:36:38,100 ~-~-> 00:36:39,720 3243 -I was trying it out, at least for a 3244 - 3245 -812 3246 -00:36:39,780 ~-~-> 00:36:41,010 3247 -while back then they would do it by the 3248 - 3249 -813 3250 -00:36:41,010 ~-~-> 00:36:43,920 3251 -week. Now everything's by month, and 3252 - 3253 -814 3254 -00:36:44,700 ~-~-> 00:36:47,040 3255 -everything was at the time, a 3256 - 3257 -815 3258 -00:36:47,040 ~-~-> 00:36:49,800 3259 -newsletter, or a phone number that you 3260 - 3261 -816 3262 -00:36:49,800 ~-~-> 00:36:52,380 3263 -had to call and pay a couple dollars a 3264 - 3265 -817 3266 -00:36:52,380 ~-~-> 00:36:54,030 3267 -minute or whatever. And he would tell 3268 - 3269 -818 3270 -00:36:54,030 ~-~-> 00:36:56,370 3271 -you what they were trading, and I never 3272 - 3273 -819 3274 -00:36:56,370 ~-~-> 00:36:59,100 3275 -made money with that stuff. Even Larry 3276 - 3277 -820 3278 -00:36:59,100 ~-~-> 00:37:00,540 3279 -Williams, not to beat disrespectful 3280 - 3281 -821 3282 -00:37:00,540 ~-~-> 00:37:03,750 3283 -towards him. But I, at one time was 3284 - 3285 -822 3286 -00:37:04,230 ~-~-> 00:37:07,140 3287 -paying for his hotline. And you would 3288 - 3289 -823 3290 -00:37:07,140 ~-~-> 00:37:08,820 3291 -just call him up and he would have a 3292 - 3293 -824 3294 -00:37:08,820 ~-~-> 00:37:12,330 3295 -recording. And it was basically what he 3296 - 3297 -825 3298 -00:37:12,330 ~-~-> 00:37:14,190 3299 -was going to do with the bond market and 3300 - 3301 -826 3302 -00:37:14,280 ~-~-> 00:37:16,620 3303 -what the SMP market and I did those 3304 - 3305 -827 3306 -00:37:16,620 ~-~-> 00:37:19,800 3307 -trades, and I lost money. Again, I'm not 3308 - 3309 -828 3310 -00:37:19,800 ~-~-> 00:37:20,880 3311 -saying that he's not a profitable 3312 - 3313 -829 3314 -00:37:20,880 ~-~-> 00:37:22,830 3315 -trader. I'm not saying he's not a good 3316 - 3317 -830 3318 -00:37:22,830 ~-~-> 00:37:24,540 3319 -trader. I'm not saying he's not a good 3320 - 3321 -831 3322 -00:37:24,540 ~-~-> 00:37:26,760 3323 -teacher. I'm just saying, my personal 3324 - 3325 -832 3326 -00:37:26,760 ~-~-> 00:37:29,100 3327 -experience doing that. I lost money on 3328 - 3329 -833 3330 -00:37:29,100 ~-~-> 00:37:32,280 3331 -every single trade. So avoid looking for 3332 - 3333 -834 3334 -00:37:32,280 ~-~-> 00:37:33,600 3335 -hockey and gurus This is the reason why 3336 - 3337 -835 3338 -00:37:33,600 ~-~-> 00:37:35,580 3339 -I don't hold people's hands. I don't say 3340 - 3341 -836 3342 -00:37:35,610 ~-~-> 00:37:37,530 3343 -is that we're going to do buy here, sell 3344 - 3345 -837 3346 -00:37:37,530 ~-~-> 00:37:40,230 3347 -here, stop. Don't do that. Because all 3348 - 3349 -838 3350 -00:37:40,230 ~-~-> 00:37:42,240 3351 -that does is create codependence and you 3352 - 3353 -839 3354 -00:37:42,240 ~-~-> 00:37:43,500 3355 -don't want to be a codependent trader, 3356 - 3357 -840 3358 -00:37:43,500 ~-~-> 00:37:44,670 3359 -you want to be an independent thinking 3360 - 3361 -841 3362 -00:37:44,670 ~-~-> 00:37:45,090 3363 -trader. 3364 - 3365 -842 3366 -00:37:47,550 ~-~-> 00:37:50,010 3367 -become your own signal generator. The 3368 - 3369 -843 3370 -00:37:50,010 ~-~-> 00:37:52,950 3371 -big thing is always as a new trader, you 3372 - 3373 -844 3374 -00:37:52,950 ~-~-> 00:37:54,870 3375 -want to find someone that's good. You 3376 - 3377 -845 3378 -00:37:54,870 ~-~-> 00:37:56,250 3379 -don't want to find a mentor. You want to 3380 - 3381 -846 3382 -00:37:56,250 ~-~-> 00:37:57,570 3383 -find someone that's going to tell you 3384 - 3385 -847 3386 -00:37:57,570 ~-~-> 00:37:59,160 3387 -what they're doing and making money so 3388 - 3389 -848 3390 -00:37:59,160 ~-~-> 00:38:02,460 3391 -you can copy them. And I fell victim to 3392 - 3393 -849 3394 -00:38:02,460 ~-~-> 00:38:07,200 3395 -that, too. I didn't want to trust my own 3396 - 3397 -850 3398 -00:38:07,350 ~-~-> 00:38:10,620 3399 -analysis, I got lazy and thinking, well, 3400 - 3401 -851 3402 -00:38:10,710 ~-~-> 00:38:11,700 3403 -I really just want to make a lot of 3404 - 3405 -852 3406 -00:38:11,700 ~-~-> 00:38:13,410 3407 -money. So if I can find someone really 3408 - 3409 -853 3410 -00:38:13,410 ~-~-> 00:38:15,810 3411 -good, I'll just copy them. And 3412 - 3413 -854 3414 -00:38:16,380 ~-~-> 00:38:17,610 3415 -everything they do, I'm going to take 3416 - 3417 -855 3418 -00:38:17,610 ~-~-> 00:38:19,470 3419 -the trades, since they're successful. 3420 - 3421 -856 3422 -00:38:19,920 ~-~-> 00:38:21,210 3423 -Even if I take a couple of losses here 3424 - 3425 -857 3426 -00:38:21,210 ~-~-> 00:38:22,890 3427 -and there, I'm just going to stick with 3428 - 3429 -858 3430 -00:38:22,890 ~-~-> 00:38:24,870 3431 -it. So what am I really saying there? 3432 - 3433 -859 3434 -00:38:25,470 ~-~-> 00:38:28,290 3435 -I'm saying that I'm going to use them as 3436 - 3437 -860 3438 -00:38:28,290 ~-~-> 00:38:32,130 3439 -my system. And I'm accepting losses. I 3440 - 3441 -861 3442 -00:38:32,130 ~-~-> 00:38:33,840 3443 -know they're probably going to come, but 3444 - 3445 -862 3446 -00:38:33,870 ~-~-> 00:38:35,340 3447 -I'm holding out that they're going to 3448 - 3449 -863 3450 -00:38:35,340 ~-~-> 00:38:36,930 3451 -have more wins and losses. Now, doesn't 3452 - 3453 -864 3454 -00:38:36,930 ~-~-> 00:38:39,720 3455 -that make sense? If you apply it to your 3456 - 3457 -865 3458 -00:38:39,720 ~-~-> 00:38:42,750 3459 -own strategy, but when you as a new 3460 - 3461 -866 3462 -00:38:42,750 ~-~-> 00:38:44,940 3463 -trader start, you don't want to accept 3464 - 3465 -867 3466 -00:38:45,000 ~-~-> 00:38:48,690 3467 -losses. That's not acceptable. But when 3468 - 3469 -868 3470 -00:38:48,690 ~-~-> 00:38:51,690 3471 -you justify your spending, when you're 3472 - 3473 -869 3474 -00:38:51,690 ~-~-> 00:38:54,660 3475 -by other people's signals, it's somehow 3476 - 3477 -870 3478 -00:38:54,690 ~-~-> 00:38:57,090 3479 -brought into the reasoning part of the 3480 - 3481 -871 3482 -00:38:57,090 ~-~-> 00:38:58,980 3483 -decision making, that it's something 3484 - 3485 -872 3486 -00:38:58,980 ~-~-> 00:39:01,650 3487 -that's acceptable. losing trades, it's 3488 - 3489 -873 3490 -00:39:01,650 ~-~-> 00:39:03,000 3491 -acceptable until you take that first 3492 - 3493 -874 3494 -00:39:03,000 ~-~-> 00:39:04,560 3495 -loss, and then you're not subscribing 3496 - 3497 -875 3498 -00:39:04,560 ~-~-> 00:39:07,140 3499 -anymore. You go back to looking for 3500 - 3501 -876 3502 -00:39:07,140 ~-~-> 00:39:11,910 3503 -another hot hand guru. Be willing to 3504 - 3505 -877 3506 -00:39:11,910 ~-~-> 00:39:15,900 3507 -lose and lose a lot early on. It's part 3508 - 3509 -878 3510 -00:39:15,900 ~-~-> 00:39:18,120 3511 -of it. You don't know what you're doing 3512 - 3513 -879 3514 -00:39:18,120 ~-~-> 00:39:21,600 3515 -and no book, no course even me. If I sat 3516 - 3517 -880 3518 -00:39:21,600 ~-~-> 00:39:25,080 3519 -with you every single day, for a month, 3520 - 3521 -881 3522 -00:39:26,430 ~-~-> 00:39:29,670 3523 -you would still take losses, you would 3524 - 3525 -882 3526 -00:39:29,670 ~-~-> 00:39:33,870 3527 -lose. it's unavoidable. But early on 3528 - 3529 -883 3530 -00:39:33,870 ~-~-> 00:39:35,940 3531 -when you are developing, you're going to 3532 - 3533 -884 3534 -00:39:35,940 ~-~-> 00:39:37,770 3535 -be wrong a lot. And this is reason why I 3536 - 3537 -885 3538 -00:39:37,770 ~-~-> 00:39:39,480 3539 -tell people do not trade with my funds 3540 - 3541 -886 3542 -00:39:39,540 ~-~-> 00:39:41,100 3543 -until you know exactly what you're 3544 - 3545 -887 3546 -00:39:41,100 ~-~-> 00:39:43,800 3547 -doing. And you understand yourself. And 3548 - 3549 -888 3550 -00:39:43,800 ~-~-> 00:39:45,360 3551 -that may be longer than six months, it 3552 - 3553 -889 3554 -00:39:45,360 ~-~-> 00:39:47,520 3555 -may be longer than a year. For some of 3556 - 3557 -890 3558 -00:39:47,520 ~-~-> 00:39:50,370 3559 -you it might be 234 years, like a 3560 - 3561 -891 3562 -00:39:50,370 ~-~-> 00:39:52,680 3563 -college degree. And some of you aren't 3564 - 3565 -892 3566 -00:39:52,680 ~-~-> 00:39:55,140 3567 -prepared for that. And there's no shame 3568 - 3569 -893 3570 -00:39:55,140 ~-~-> 00:39:56,250 3571 -in you saying you know what, this ain't 3572 - 3573 -894 3574 -00:39:56,250 ~-~-> 00:39:57,960 3575 -for me. That's good. That means you're 3576 - 3577 -895 3578 -00:39:57,960 ~-~-> 00:39:59,400 3579 -not going to lose money. That means 3580 - 3581 -896 3582 -00:39:59,400 ~-~-> 00:40:00,690 3583 -you're not going to have In bounces your 3584 - 3585 -897 3586 -00:40:00,690 ~-~-> 00:40:02,670 3587 -life, it means that you're not going to 3588 - 3589 -898 3590 -00:40:02,670 ~-~-> 00:40:05,490 3591 -hurt yourself, both financially and 3592 - 3593 -899 3594 -00:40:05,490 ~-~-> 00:40:08,970 3595 -psychologically. Because I did that. I 3596 - 3597 -900 3598 -00:40:08,970 ~-~-> 00:40:11,460 3599 -caused physical problems with an eating 3600 - 3601 -901 3602 -00:40:11,460 ~-~-> 00:40:14,460 3603 -disorder. I developed agoraphobia, which 3604 - 3605 -902 3606 -00:40:14,460 ~-~-> 00:40:16,200 3607 -was a fear of being around other people. 3608 - 3609 -903 3610 -00:40:16,800 ~-~-> 00:40:18,990 3611 -Because I didn't want them to find out 3612 - 3613 -904 3614 -00:40:18,990 ~-~-> 00:40:25,410 3615 -how bad I was losing. And I wish I could 3616 - 3617 -905 3618 -00:40:25,410 ~-~-> 00:40:29,880 3619 -go back in time and tell myself losing 3620 - 3621 -906 3622 -00:40:29,880 ~-~-> 00:40:33,390 3623 -is normal. it's acceptable. It's part of 3624 - 3625 -907 3626 -00:40:33,390 ~-~-> 00:40:34,770 3627 -the business transactions in this 3628 - 3629 -908 3630 -00:40:34,770 ~-~-> 00:40:36,840 3631 -industry. You're going to have losses, 3632 - 3633 -909 3634 -00:40:37,230 ~-~-> 00:40:40,050 3635 -control them. Over time, you're gonna 3636 - 3637 -910 3638 -00:40:40,050 ~-~-> 00:40:43,260 3639 -make more money than you lose. I didn't 3640 - 3641 -911 3642 -00:40:43,260 ~-~-> 00:40:44,850 3643 -think that way. When I first started, I 3644 - 3645 -912 3646 -00:40:44,850 ~-~-> 00:40:46,770 3647 -was trying to avoid losing all together. 3648 - 3649 -913 3650 -00:40:47,250 ~-~-> 00:40:49,170 3651 -And then every single loss was a 3652 - 3653 -914 3654 -00:40:49,170 ~-~-> 00:40:53,070 3655 -paramount event like it was huge. It was 3656 - 3657 -915 3658 -00:40:53,070 ~-~-> 00:40:56,490 3659 -elevated to some grandiose, painful, 3660 - 3661 -916 3662 -00:40:56,640 ~-~-> 00:40:58,410 3663 -just terrible thing that I had been 3664 - 3665 -917 3666 -00:40:58,440 ~-~-> 00:41:02,130 3667 -enduring When it's just, I did it wrong. 3668 - 3669 -918 3670 -00:41:03,180 ~-~-> 00:41:05,910 3671 -Simple. You made a mistake, Michael, and 3672 - 3673 -919 3674 -00:41:05,910 ~-~-> 00:41:08,850 3675 -you're gonna make lots of them. 27 years 3676 - 3677 -920 3678 -00:41:08,850 ~-~-> 00:41:11,070 3679 -from now, you're gonna have so many 3680 - 3681 -921 3682 -00:41:11,070 ~-~-> 00:41:12,180 3683 -losing trades, you're gonna look back 3684 - 3685 -922 3686 -00:41:12,180 ~-~-> 00:41:14,640 3687 -and say, You know what? It didn't kill 3688 - 3689 -923 3690 -00:41:14,640 ~-~-> 00:41:18,210 3691 -me. So be willing to lose a lot early on 3692 - 3693 -924 3694 -00:41:18,330 ~-~-> 00:41:20,100 3695 -in your development. That's why you want 3696 - 3697 -925 3698 -00:41:20,100 ~-~-> 00:41:21,360 3699 -to do it on paper. That's why you want 3700 - 3701 -926 3702 -00:41:21,360 ~-~-> 00:41:23,100 3703 -to do it on demo, because you need to 3704 - 3705 -927 3706 -00:41:23,100 ~-~-> 00:41:26,370 3707 -see what it feels like to be wrong a lot 3708 - 3709 -928 3710 -00:41:26,610 ~-~-> 00:41:27,990 3711 -and not have the money taken from you. 3712 - 3713 -929 3714 -00:41:28,410 ~-~-> 00:41:30,180 3715 -And then correct those problems before 3716 - 3717 -930 3718 -00:41:30,180 ~-~-> 00:41:36,330 3719 -you put real money at work. Stay away 3720 - 3721 -931 3722 -00:41:36,330 ~-~-> 00:41:41,460 3723 -from social media drains. Well, in this 3724 - 3725 -932 3726 -00:41:41,490 ~-~-> 00:41:43,890 3727 -age, we have a lot of social media. But 3728 - 3729 -933 3730 -00:41:43,890 ~-~-> 00:41:46,290 3731 -back when I first started November 3732 - 3733 -934 3734 -00:41:46,290 ~-~-> 00:41:50,040 3735 -5 1992, social media was just starting 3736 - 3737 -935 3738 -00:41:50,040 ~-~-> 00:41:53,070 3739 -up with message boards, or bulletin 3740 - 3741 -936 3742 -00:41:53,070 ~-~-> 00:41:54,360 3743 -boards they call them so it's kinda like 3744 - 3745 -937 3746 -00:41:54,360 ~-~-> 00:41:58,080 3747 -Twitter. Yeah, not so much Instagram, 3748 - 3749 -938 3750 -00:41:58,080 ~-~-> 00:42:00,750 3751 -but I see like Twitter. He just People 3752 - 3753 -939 3754 -00:42:00,750 ~-~-> 00:42:04,800 3755 -would just communicate with open emails 3756 - 3757 -940 3758 -00:42:04,830 ~-~-> 00:42:06,600 3759 -basically is the format was whatever you 3760 - 3761 -941 3762 -00:42:06,600 ~-~-> 00:42:08,700 3763 -would look at and see that would be sent 3764 - 3765 -942 3766 -00:42:08,700 ~-~-> 00:42:10,800 3767 -by way of an email. It would just be a 3768 - 3769 -943 3770 -00:42:10,800 ~-~-> 00:42:13,020 3771 -open source where people could see what 3772 - 3773 -944 3774 -00:42:13,020 ~-~-> 00:42:15,090 3775 -everybody was doing a message board 3776 - 3777 -945 3778 -00:42:15,090 ~-~-> 00:42:18,840 3779 -basically. And I would get my feelings 3780 - 3781 -946 3782 -00:42:18,840 ~-~-> 00:42:20,670 3783 -hurt back then. Because someone would 3784 - 3785 -947 3786 -00:42:20,670 ~-~-> 00:42:21,900 3787 -say, that's a stupid idea what you're 3788 - 3789 -948 3790 -00:42:21,900 ~-~-> 00:42:24,060 3791 -doing. And then when I was doing it, 3792 - 3793 -949 3794 -00:42:24,060 ~-~-> 00:42:25,890 3795 -right, everybody was like, Man, you are 3796 - 3797 -950 3798 -00:42:25,890 ~-~-> 00:42:28,440 3799 -a rock star. I'm taking that trade. And 3800 - 3801 -951 3802 -00:42:28,440 ~-~-> 00:42:29,850 3803 -I was like, Yeah, no, I'm making money 3804 - 3805 -952 3806 -00:42:29,850 ~-~-> 00:42:31,740 3807 -now because he or she thinks it's a good 3808 - 3809 -953 3810 -00:42:31,740 ~-~-> 00:42:36,120 3811 -trade. And it's stupid. It was dumb. I 3812 - 3813 -954 3814 -00:42:36,120 ~-~-> 00:42:38,100 3815 -let other people back then influence my 3816 - 3817 -955 3818 -00:42:38,100 ~-~-> 00:42:41,910 3819 -decisions or change the level of 3820 - 3821 -956 3822 -00:42:43,830 ~-~-> 00:42:46,410 3823 -expectation I had on the trade because 3824 - 3825 -957 3826 -00:42:46,440 ~-~-> 00:42:48,120 3827 -if they said, Man, it's a good idea. I 3828 - 3829 -958 3830 -00:42:48,120 ~-~-> 00:42:52,380 3831 -think it's going to go to 1150 when I 3832 - 3833 -959 3834 -00:42:52,380 ~-~-> 00:42:55,230 3835 -was looking at like, 1080 I'm thinking 3836 - 3837 -960 3838 -00:42:55,230 ~-~-> 00:42:56,580 3839 -myself, yeah, they're probably right. 3840 - 3841 -961 3842 -00:42:56,970 ~-~-> 00:42:58,260 3843 -And now I change my trade to what 3844 - 3845 -962 3846 -00:42:58,260 ~-~-> 00:43:00,420 3847 -they're saying because many I don't want 3848 - 3849 -963 3850 -00:43:00,420 ~-~-> 00:43:02,130 3851 -them to be right. And we miss out on 3852 - 3853 -964 3854 -00:43:02,130 ~-~-> 00:43:04,410 3855 -that extra profit. You see what that 3856 - 3857 -965 3858 -00:43:04,410 ~-~-> 00:43:08,460 3859 -trap just did. It took my trade away 3860 - 3861 -966 3862 -00:43:08,460 ~-~-> 00:43:10,110 3863 -from me. And now I took their trade. 3864 - 3865 -967 3866 -00:43:10,710 ~-~-> 00:43:14,190 3867 -who's in control there? It wasn't me. I 3868 - 3869 -968 3870 -00:43:14,190 ~-~-> 00:43:18,090 3871 -let go on the wheel. don't join trading 3872 - 3873 -969 3874 -00:43:18,090 ~-~-> 00:43:21,870 3875 -clubs. Okay? That means circles where 3876 - 3877 -970 3878 -00:43:21,870 ~-~-> 00:43:25,350 3879 -everyone has the hive mentality. Because 3880 - 3881 -971 3882 -00:43:25,350 ~-~-> 00:43:27,030 3883 -you need to discover who you are as a 3884 - 3885 -972 3886 -00:43:27,030 ~-~-> 00:43:32,820 3887 -trader, and it's very, I guess, wasteful 3888 - 3889 -973 3890 -00:43:32,850 ~-~-> 00:43:35,130 3891 -for your time. And it stunts your 3892 - 3893 -974 3894 -00:43:35,130 ~-~-> 00:43:38,580 3895 -growth. If you start going into a group 3896 - 3897 -975 3898 -00:43:38,880 ~-~-> 00:43:40,680 3899 -that has Well, this is the only way of 3900 - 3901 -976 3902 -00:43:40,680 ~-~-> 00:43:42,420 3903 -trading and this is all we do around 3904 - 3905 -977 3906 -00:43:42,420 ~-~-> 00:43:44,250 3907 -here. Because what you're trying to do 3908 - 3909 -978 3910 -00:43:44,250 ~-~-> 00:43:48,450 3911 -is be part of that, click, okay. You're 3912 - 3913 -979 3914 -00:43:48,450 ~-~-> 00:43:50,370 3915 -trying to take on the hive mentality, 3916 - 3917 -980 3918 -00:43:50,820 ~-~-> 00:43:53,880 3919 -and it may not be suited for you. But if 3920 - 3921 -981 3922 -00:43:53,880 ~-~-> 00:43:55,710 3923 -you waste more time and unfortunately 3924 - 3925 -982 3926 -00:43:55,710 ~-~-> 00:43:59,430 3927 -money you don't want to discover that 3928 - 3929 -983 3930 -00:43:59,430 ~-~-> 00:44:00,900 3931 -you've been wasted Your time and money. 3932 - 3933 -984 3934 -00:44:01,170 ~-~-> 00:44:04,260 3935 -Okay? So you want to be solo trading is 3936 - 3937 -985 3938 -00:44:04,260 ~-~-> 00:44:06,930 3939 -a solo sport. It's not a team sport, no 3940 - 3941 -986 3942 -00:44:06,930 ~-~-> 00:44:09,930 3943 -matter how good your guru or mentor is. 3944 - 3945 -987 3946 -00:44:10,350 ~-~-> 00:44:14,070 3947 -If you're doing everything they say, you 3948 - 3949 -988 3950 -00:44:14,070 ~-~-> 00:44:16,710 3951 -aren't in control, you're growing 3952 - 3953 -989 3954 -00:44:16,710 ~-~-> 00:44:21,330 3955 -codependent. don't subscribe to alerts, 3956 - 3957 -990 3958 -00:44:21,720 ~-~-> 00:44:25,380 3959 -it gets back to signals. You want to be 3960 - 3961 -991 3962 -00:44:25,830 ~-~-> 00:44:28,260 3963 -the source or generation of the trade 3964 - 3965 -992 3966 -00:44:28,260 ~-~-> 00:44:30,090 3967 -ideas. That way when you're wrong, 3968 - 3969 -993 3970 -00:44:30,570 ~-~-> 00:44:31,740 3971 -you're forced to assume the 3972 - 3973 -994 3974 -00:44:31,740 ~-~-> 00:44:33,360 3975 -responsibility. You can't say, Well, I 3976 - 3977 -995 3978 -00:44:33,360 ~-~-> 00:44:34,440 3979 -just listened to that person. They were 3980 - 3981 -996 3982 -00:44:34,440 ~-~-> 00:44:37,230 3983 -wrong. They suck. Well, what are you 3984 - 3985 -997 3986 -00:44:37,230 ~-~-> 00:44:38,730 3987 -gonna do about it? Well, I'm gonna find 3988 - 3989 -998 3990 -00:44:38,730 ~-~-> 00:44:41,160 3991 -somebody else. That's not responsible. 3992 - 3993 -999 3994 -00:44:41,700 ~-~-> 00:44:44,910 3995 -That's gambling. You're going to another 3996 - 3997 -1000 3998 -00:44:44,910 ~-~-> 00:44:48,510 3999 -slot machine at another casino. That's 4000 - 4001 -1001 4002 -00:44:48,540 ~-~-> 00:44:53,040 4003 -all that is. Versus I want to learn how 4004 - 4005 -1002 4006 -00:44:53,040 ~-~-> 00:44:57,360 4007 -to play cards. and manage my risk. Not 4008 - 4009 -1003 4010 -00:44:57,360 ~-~-> 00:44:59,640 4011 -bet too big. And just be steady Eddie at 4012 - 4013 -1004 4014 -00:44:59,640 ~-~-> 00:45:03,210 4015 -the table. You want to be the generating 4016 - 4017 -1005 4018 -00:45:03,240 ~-~-> 00:45:05,430 4019 -source of the signals? don't subscribe 4020 - 4021 -1006 4022 -00:45:05,430 ~-~-> 00:45:06,780 4023 -to someone else because you have no idea 4024 - 4025 -1007 4026 -00:45:06,780 ~-~-> 00:45:08,490 4027 -what got them into the trade. You don't 4028 - 4029 -1008 4030 -00:45:08,490 ~-~-> 00:45:11,940 4031 -know what influences are being imposed 4032 - 4033 -1009 4034 -00:45:11,940 ~-~-> 00:45:14,610 4035 -on them. Maybe they had a bad day. Maybe 4036 - 4037 -1010 4038 -00:45:14,610 ~-~-> 00:45:17,370 4039 -they had just recently had a spat with 4040 - 4041 -1011 4042 -00:45:17,370 ~-~-> 00:45:19,620 4043 -their spouse. And they feel like they 4044 - 4045 -1012 4046 -00:45:19,620 ~-~-> 00:45:22,620 4047 -have to feel good, empowered, man. I'm 4048 - 4049 -1013 4050 -00:45:22,620 ~-~-> 00:45:23,460 4051 -gonna go out there and just tell 4052 - 4053 -1014 4054 -00:45:23,460 ~-~-> 00:45:27,840 4055 -everybody to buy SMP tomorrow at the 4056 - 4057 -1015 4058 -00:45:27,840 ~-~-> 00:45:30,720 4059 -open. And if I'm right, I'll feel good. 4060 - 4061 -1016 4062 -00:45:31,170 ~-~-> 00:45:32,460 4063 -I'll feel better about this whole thing. 4064 - 4065 -1017 4066 -00:45:33,300 ~-~-> 00:45:39,090 4067 -Because they're human too. Do you want 4068 - 4069 -1018 4070 -00:45:39,090 ~-~-> 00:45:40,620 4071 -to be subscribing to someone that's like 4072 - 4073 -1019 4074 -00:45:40,620 ~-~-> 00:45:43,290 4075 -that. You don't know if that's what's 4076 - 4077 -1020 4078 -00:45:43,290 ~-~-> 00:45:44,490 4079 -going on. They're not going to come out 4080 - 4081 -1021 4082 -00:45:44,490 ~-~-> 00:45:46,890 4083 -and say, yeah, it's trade worked out. 4084 - 4085 -1022 4086 -00:45:46,890 ~-~-> 00:45:48,060 4087 -But let me tell you what really was 4088 - 4089 -1023 4090 -00:45:48,060 ~-~-> 00:45:51,180 4091 -going on. My wife told me I was a bum. I 4092 - 4093 -1024 4094 -00:45:51,180 ~-~-> 00:45:52,740 4095 -spent too much time on these charts and 4096 - 4097 -1025 4098 -00:45:52,740 ~-~-> 00:45:54,030 4099 -I didn't spend any time with the kids. 4100 - 4101 -1026 4102 -00:45:54,420 ~-~-> 00:45:57,360 4103 -And I walk the dog in six months. But I 4104 - 4105 -1027 4106 -00:45:57,360 ~-~-> 00:45:59,730 4107 -knew if I got this right, I'd feel 4108 - 4109 -1028 4110 -00:45:59,730 ~-~-> 00:46:03,210 4111 -strong. about myself. That never 4112 - 4113 -1029 4114 -00:46:03,210 ~-~-> 00:46:05,040 4115 -happens, folks, that never happens. 4116 - 4117 -1030 4118 -00:46:05,190 ~-~-> 00:46:06,690 4119 -Never subscribed to other people's 4120 - 4121 -1031 4122 -00:46:06,690 ~-~-> 00:46:10,230 4123 -alerts. Don't count other people's 4124 - 4125 -1032 4126 -00:46:10,230 ~-~-> 00:46:12,420 4127 -money. That's what's popular right now 4128 - 4129 -1033 4130 -00:46:12,420 ~-~-> 00:46:13,680 4131 -everyone wants to know how much money 4132 - 4133 -1034 4134 -00:46:13,680 ~-~-> 00:46:16,590 4135 -someone else has Instagram. What cars do 4136 - 4137 -1035 4138 -00:46:16,590 ~-~-> 00:46:18,630 4139 -they drive? What houses do they live in? 4140 - 4141 -1036 4142 -00:46:18,660 ~-~-> 00:46:20,040 4143 -Where are they having their vacation? 4144 - 4145 -1037 4146 -00:46:20,040 ~-~-> 00:46:21,780 4147 -What do they wear? What kind of shoes 4148 - 4149 -1038 4150 -00:46:21,780 ~-~-> 00:46:24,390 4151 -they have on? Do they wear socks? What 4152 - 4153 -1039 4154 -00:46:24,390 ~-~-> 00:46:26,400 4155 -kind of underwear they have? What 4156 - 4157 -1040 4158 -00:46:26,430 ~-~-> 00:46:30,300 4159 -jewelry do they have? Come on. All that 4160 - 4161 -1041 4162 -00:46:30,300 ~-~-> 00:46:34,440 4163 -stuff is a waste. It's a waste, to waste 4164 - 4165 -1042 4166 -00:46:34,440 ~-~-> 00:46:37,650 4167 -your time. It's a waste of money. And 4168 - 4169 -1043 4170 -00:46:37,650 ~-~-> 00:46:38,850 4171 -you don't need all those things. If 4172 - 4173 -1044 4174 -00:46:38,850 ~-~-> 00:46:40,830 4175 -you're trading to do that, you're never 4176 - 4177 -1045 4178 -00:46:40,830 ~-~-> 00:46:42,720 4179 -gonna get there. And I'm gonna repeat 4180 - 4181 -1046 4182 -00:46:42,720 ~-~-> 00:46:45,960 4183 -that. If you are trading to live like 4184 - 4185 -1047 4186 -00:46:45,960 ~-~-> 00:46:48,810 4187 -that. You're never going to get there. 4188 - 4189 -1048 4190 -00:46:49,560 ~-~-> 00:46:51,900 4191 -Because you're looking at money. And 4192 - 4193 -1049 4194 -00:46:51,900 ~-~-> 00:46:53,640 4195 -you're not looking at the process that's 4196 - 4197 -1050 4198 -00:46:53,640 ~-~-> 00:46:56,070 4199 -involved, that would eventually lead to 4200 - 4201 -1051 4202 -00:46:56,070 ~-~-> 00:46:58,710 4203 -profitability. So you're chasing that 4204 - 4205 -1052 4206 -00:46:58,710 ~-~-> 00:47:01,290 4207 -carrot little piece of candy that's 4208 - 4209 -1053 4210 -00:47:01,290 ~-~-> 00:47:03,750 4211 -dangled in front of a child, you may be 4212 - 4213 -1054 4214 -00:47:03,750 ~-~-> 00:47:05,700 4215 -a stranger. But if you dangle that candy 4216 - 4217 -1055 4218 -00:47:05,700 ~-~-> 00:47:07,080 4219 -in front of a child, what's the child 4220 - 4221 -1056 4222 -00:47:07,080 ~-~-> 00:47:10,350 4223 -gonna do? Reach out for that candy? And 4224 - 4225 -1057 4226 -00:47:10,350 ~-~-> 00:47:12,480 4227 -that's what all these people do. They 4228 - 4229 -1058 4230 -00:47:12,480 ~-~-> 00:47:16,440 4231 -dangle all this lavish toys and 4232 - 4233 -1059 4234 -00:47:16,440 ~-~-> 00:47:17,670 4235 -lifestyle, materialism. 4236 - 4237 -1060 4238 -00:47:18,960 ~-~-> 00:47:21,450 4239 -All of that is fluff. I've never done 4240 - 4241 -1061 4242 -00:47:21,450 ~-~-> 00:47:23,160 4243 -those types of things. And it's 4244 - 4245 -1062 4246 -00:47:23,160 ~-~-> 00:47:25,290 4247 -important to understand that the reason 4248 - 4249 -1063 4250 -00:47:25,290 ~-~-> 00:47:26,640 4251 -why I don't do it, it's not because of 4252 - 4253 -1064 4254 -00:47:26,640 ~-~-> 00:47:29,220 4255 -lack of it. Because I have all those 4256 - 4257 -1065 4258 -00:47:29,220 ~-~-> 00:47:31,770 4259 -things. But it doesn't do anything to 4260 - 4261 -1066 4262 -00:47:31,770 ~-~-> 00:47:34,080 4263 -make you a better trader doesn't make 4264 - 4265 -1067 4266 -00:47:34,080 ~-~-> 00:47:37,050 4267 -you a better student. And it will not in 4268 - 4269 -1068 4270 -00:47:37,050 ~-~-> 00:47:39,900 4271 -any capacity, motivate you and then that 4272 - 4273 -1069 4274 -00:47:39,900 ~-~-> 00:47:41,760 4275 -translates into a greater skill set 4276 - 4277 -1070 4278 -00:47:42,030 ~-~-> 00:47:44,850 4279 -that's derived because you saw that it 4280 - 4281 -1071 4282 -00:47:44,850 ~-~-> 00:47:46,770 4283 -doesn't work like that. But how many 4284 - 4285 -1072 4286 -00:47:46,770 ~-~-> 00:47:49,470 4287 -people fall victim to that? Everyone, 4288 - 4289 -1073 4290 -00:47:50,310 ~-~-> 00:47:53,700 4291 -everyone, the first course I bought from 4292 - 4293 -1074 4294 -00:47:53,700 ~-~-> 00:47:55,710 4295 -Ken Roberts, that's all he talked about. 4296 - 4297 -1075 4298 -00:47:56,070 ~-~-> 00:47:59,070 4299 -You want to go on vacations. You want to 4300 - 4301 -1076 4302 -00:47:59,070 ~-~-> 00:48:01,260 4303 -have enough money to quit. Your job, you 4304 - 4305 -1077 4306 -00:48:01,260 ~-~-> 00:48:03,660 4307 -want to buy a yacht, you want to live in 4308 - 4309 -1078 4310 -00:48:03,660 ~-~-> 00:48:06,900 4311 -a mansion. That's what was sold to me. 4312 - 4313 -1079 4314 -00:48:07,440 ~-~-> 00:48:09,720 4315 -And I bought that course. And in month 4316 - 4317 -1080 4318 -00:48:09,810 ~-~-> 00:48:11,340 4319 -one trade the very first trait I lost 4320 - 4321 -1081 4322 -00:48:11,340 ~-~-> 00:48:15,540 4323 -50% of what I put in. Well, I can tell 4324 - 4325 -1082 4326 -00:48:15,540 ~-~-> 00:48:19,500 4327 -you that was never said in the book that 4328 - 4329 -1083 4330 -00:48:19,500 ~-~-> 00:48:21,180 4331 -didn't get talked about at all. It just 4332 - 4333 -1084 4334 -00:48:21,180 ~-~-> 00:48:22,290 4335 -said, well, you can take some losses, 4336 - 4337 -1085 4338 -00:48:22,290 ~-~-> 00:48:23,370 4339 -but you don't want your losses to be too 4340 - 4341 -1086 4342 -00:48:23,370 ~-~-> 00:48:23,700 4343 -big. 4344 - 4345 -1087 4346 -00:48:25,380 ~-~-> 00:48:25,950 4347 -Okay. 4348 - 4349 -1088 4350 -00:48:27,420 ~-~-> 00:48:29,910 4351 -But what happens if it is because 4352 - 4353 -1089 4354 -00:48:29,940 ~-~-> 00:48:32,100 4355 -options are a little bit different 4356 - 4357 -1090 4358 -00:48:32,100 ~-~-> 00:48:35,670 4359 -animal. And I found out the hard way. 4360 - 4361 -1091 4362 -00:48:37,500 ~-~-> 00:48:38,970 4363 -Don't be enticed by other people's 4364 - 4365 -1092 4366 -00:48:38,970 ~-~-> 00:48:40,590 4367 -money. Don't count other people's money. 4368 - 4369 -1093 4370 -00:48:40,620 ~-~-> 00:48:43,920 4371 -Don't ask them what they make, because 4372 - 4373 -1094 4374 -00:48:44,190 ~-~-> 00:48:47,310 4375 -you can't spend their money. That's why 4376 - 4377 -1095 4378 -00:48:47,310 ~-~-> 00:48:48,870 4379 -I don't talk about what I'm making. 4380 - 4381 -1096 4382 -00:48:49,350 ~-~-> 00:48:50,490 4383 -That's why I don't talk about what I 4384 - 4385 -1097 4386 -00:48:50,490 ~-~-> 00:48:52,770 4387 -have. That's why I don't show you what I 4388 - 4389 -1098 4390 -00:48:52,770 ~-~-> 00:48:55,890 4391 -own. Because you can't drive my cars. 4392 - 4393 -1099 4394 -00:48:56,220 ~-~-> 00:48:57,420 4395 -You're not going to spend a night in my 4396 - 4397 -1100 4398 -00:48:57,420 ~-~-> 00:48:58,890 4399 -house. You're not going to eat dinner. 4400 - 4401 -1101 4402 -00:48:58,890 ~-~-> 00:49:01,890 4403 -All my dishes. You're not going to be on 4404 - 4405 -1102 4406 -00:49:01,890 ~-~-> 00:49:04,770 4407 -my vacations. So what difference does it 4408 - 4409 -1103 4410 -00:49:04,770 ~-~-> 00:49:07,620 4411 -make? It's not going to make me feel 4412 - 4413 -1104 4414 -00:49:07,650 ~-~-> 00:49:09,450 4415 -better about myself for doing it. In 4416 - 4417 -1105 4418 -00:49:09,450 ~-~-> 00:49:11,490 4419 -fact, I'll feel like a slimeball like I 4420 - 4421 -1106 4422 -00:49:11,490 ~-~-> 00:49:13,170 4423 -did when I was younger, because I did 4424 - 4425 -1107 4426 -00:49:13,170 ~-~-> 00:49:15,090 4427 -that stuff to get people interested in 4428 - 4429 -1108 4430 -00:49:15,090 ~-~-> 00:49:20,220 4431 -me. And it's not necessary. Don't feel 4432 - 4433 -1109 4434 -00:49:20,220 ~-~-> 00:49:22,140 4435 -insignificant by contrast, when you see 4436 - 4437 -1110 4438 -00:49:22,140 ~-~-> 00:49:24,540 4439 -other people succeeding or supposedly 4440 - 4441 -1111 4442 -00:49:24,540 ~-~-> 00:49:27,030 4443 -succeeding, don't measure yourself 4444 - 4445 -1112 4446 -00:49:27,030 ~-~-> 00:49:30,120 4447 -against that. Because if you do, what 4448 - 4449 -1113 4450 -00:49:30,120 ~-~-> 00:49:33,030 4451 -you're saying is I'm only successful if 4452 - 4453 -1114 4454 -00:49:33,030 ~-~-> 00:49:37,530 4455 -I get to where they're at. I did that. 4456 - 4457 -1115 4458 -00:49:38,310 ~-~-> 00:49:40,110 4459 -And when I stopped and said, You know 4460 - 4461 -1116 4462 -00:49:40,110 ~-~-> 00:49:43,770 4463 -what? I'm going to look at a goal. 4464 - 4465 -1117 4466 -00:49:44,010 ~-~-> 00:49:46,650 4467 -That's above everyone I've seen out 4468 - 4469 -1118 4470 -00:49:46,650 ~-~-> 00:49:50,700 4471 -there. I didn't, I didn't believe anyone 4472 - 4473 -1119 4474 -00:49:50,700 ~-~-> 00:49:51,960 4475 -else was more successful than Larry 4476 - 4477 -1120 4478 -00:49:51,960 ~-~-> 00:49:54,990 4479 -Williams. And he took $10,000 of $1.2 4480 - 4481 -1121 4482 -00:49:54,990 ~-~-> 00:49:58,830 4483 -million in one year, actually was over 4484 - 4485 -1122 4486 -00:49:58,830 ~-~-> 00:50:00,990 4487 -$2 million that same year. 1987 but that 4488 - 4489 -1123 4490 -00:50:00,990 ~-~-> 00:50:02,700 4491 -crash hurt him and had to trade it back 4492 - 4493 -1124 4494 -00:50:02,700 ~-~-> 00:50:05,190 4495 -and got it to 1.2 before the close of 4496 - 4497 -1125 4498 -00:50:05,190 ~-~-> 00:50:07,290 4499 -the Robbins World Cup that particularly 4500 - 4501 -1126 4502 -00:50:07,290 ~-~-> 00:50:08,880 4503 -here, and you can see he still has the 4504 - 4505 -1127 4506 -00:50:08,880 ~-~-> 00:50:12,240 4507 -highest percentage gain in that contest. 4508 - 4509 -1128 4510 -00:50:13,560 ~-~-> 00:50:15,600 4511 -So I said I'm gonna make more than that. 4512 - 4513 -1129 4514 -00:50:17,130 ~-~-> 00:50:19,980 4515 -Because that was that was my measuring 4516 - 4517 -1130 4518 -00:50:19,980 ~-~-> 00:50:22,350 4519 -stick. And I wanted to do better than 4520 - 4521 -1131 4522 -00:50:22,350 ~-~-> 00:50:25,380 4523 -that. And I always live my life. With 4524 - 4525 -1132 4526 -00:50:25,410 ~-~-> 00:50:27,930 4527 -that in mind, I didn't want to say, What 4528 - 4529 -1133 4530 -00:50:27,930 ~-~-> 00:50:31,050 4531 -am I good is at the time, Jake Bernstein 4532 - 4533 -1134 4534 -00:50:33,000 ~-~-> 00:50:35,130 4535 -which he got himself in a lot of 4536 - 4537 -1135 4538 -00:50:35,130 ~-~-> 00:50:38,790 4539 -trouble. And it's questionable of how 4540 - 4541 -1136 4542 -00:50:38,790 ~-~-> 00:50:40,350 4543 -much money he actually made as a trader. 4544 - 4545 -1137 4546 -00:50:41,460 ~-~-> 00:50:46,020 4547 -point is I fell victim to that in the 4548 - 4549 -1138 4550 -00:50:46,020 ~-~-> 00:50:47,280 4551 -beginning and you don't want to do that. 4552 - 4553 -1139 4554 -00:50:47,280 ~-~-> 00:50:49,650 4555 -Don't measure yourself against someone 4556 - 4557 -1140 4558 -00:50:49,650 ~-~-> 00:50:50,970 4559 -else. don't measure yourself against me. 4560 - 4561 -1141 4562 -00:50:50,970 ~-~-> 00:50:52,290 4563 -Don't measure yourself against somebody 4564 - 4565 -1142 4566 -00:50:52,290 ~-~-> 00:50:54,000 4567 -else you see on social media, Instagram, 4568 - 4569 -1143 4570 -00:50:54,000 ~-~-> 00:50:56,340 4571 -all that. These people 99% of time are 4572 - 4573 -1144 4574 -00:50:56,340 ~-~-> 00:50:58,980 4575 -fake. They are driving cars, they don't 4576 - 4577 -1145 4578 -00:50:58,980 ~-~-> 00:51:02,550 4579 -own They are in homes that they don't 4580 - 4581 -1146 4582 -00:51:03,150 ~-~-> 00:51:06,240 4583 -sleep in. And the clothes that they 4584 - 4585 -1147 4586 -00:51:06,240 ~-~-> 00:51:09,660 4587 -have. Many times, they're taking them 4588 - 4589 -1148 4590 -00:51:09,660 ~-~-> 00:51:13,260 4591 -back the next day. You know, what's the 4592 - 4593 -1149 4594 -00:51:13,260 ~-~-> 00:51:15,480 4595 -deal and watches are all basically fake. 4596 - 4597 -1150 4598 -00:51:15,600 ~-~-> 00:51:17,310 4599 -All that stuff is lower to make you 4600 - 4601 -1151 4602 -00:51:17,310 ~-~-> 00:51:18,660 4603 -think they're successful. If they're 4604 - 4605 -1152 4606 -00:51:18,660 ~-~-> 00:51:20,790 4607 -successful, they'll prove it by showing 4608 - 4609 -1153 4610 -00:51:20,790 ~-~-> 00:51:22,650 4611 -you. They know what's going to happen in 4612 - 4613 -1154 4614 -00:51:22,650 ~-~-> 00:51:25,140 4615 -the marketplace. But strangely enough, 4616 - 4617 -1155 4618 -00:51:26,250 ~-~-> 00:51:29,190 4619 -that's the thing they don't ever do. And 4620 - 4621 -1156 4622 -00:51:29,190 ~-~-> 00:51:31,770 4623 -that's what I focus on. I've made a 4624 - 4625 -1157 4626 -00:51:31,770 ~-~-> 00:51:35,430 4627 -reputation on telling you what I believe 4628 - 4629 -1158 4630 -00:51:35,460 ~-~-> 00:51:37,770 4631 -is the best in terms of market analysis 4632 - 4633 -1159 4634 -00:51:37,770 ~-~-> 00:51:42,270 4635 -concepts. In 1996, I penned what 4636 - 4637 -1160 4638 -00:51:42,270 ~-~-> 00:51:44,520 4639 -everybody else is out there now touting 4640 - 4641 -1161 4642 -00:51:44,520 ~-~-> 00:51:47,100 4643 -as market maker concepts in one capacity 4644 - 4645 -1162 4646 -00:51:47,100 ~-~-> 00:51:49,380 4647 -or another. It's a watered down version 4648 - 4649 -1163 4650 -00:51:49,380 ~-~-> 00:51:51,630 4651 -of what I put in lecture notes in 1996. 4652 - 4653 -1164 4654 -00:51:52,170 ~-~-> 00:51:55,350 4655 -What I started using in 1995, improves 4656 - 4657 -1165 4658 -00:51:55,350 ~-~-> 00:51:58,920 4659 -with real money. I started teaching one 4660 - 4661 -1166 4662 -00:51:58,920 ~-~-> 00:52:01,530 4663 -on one sessions. And they have made 4664 - 4665 -1167 4666 -00:52:01,530 ~-~-> 00:52:04,470 4667 -their way through the internet over 4668 - 4669 -1168 4670 -00:52:04,470 ~-~-> 00:52:06,990 4671 -time. And now we see even more of it. 4672 - 4673 -1169 4674 -00:52:06,990 ~-~-> 00:52:09,600 4675 -People have books about it. They've made 4676 - 4677 -1170 4678 -00:52:09,600 ~-~-> 00:52:12,450 4679 -courses about it and even included some 4680 - 4681 -1171 4682 -00:52:12,450 ~-~-> 00:52:13,860 4683 -of the things that actually occurred in 4684 - 4685 -1172 4686 -00:52:13,860 ~-~-> 00:52:15,630 4687 -my personal life as some of their 4688 - 4689 -1173 4690 -00:52:15,630 ~-~-> 00:52:18,270 4691 -narratives. And it's all a lie. They 4692 - 4693 -1174 4694 -00:52:18,270 ~-~-> 00:52:19,920 4695 -didn't have those experiences, but I 4696 - 4697 -1175 4698 -00:52:19,920 ~-~-> 00:52:22,350 4699 -did. And I'm the only one that can prove 4700 - 4701 -1176 4702 -00:52:22,350 ~-~-> 00:52:26,670 4703 -that makes this stuff work. Don't feel 4704 - 4705 -1177 4706 -00:52:26,670 ~-~-> 00:52:28,500 4707 -insignificant by contrast, because 4708 - 4709 -1178 4710 -00:52:28,530 ~-~-> 00:52:30,000 4711 -majority of the people you see out 4712 - 4713 -1179 4714 -00:52:30,000 ~-~-> 00:52:31,740 4715 -there, they're fakes. They're frauds, 4716 - 4717 -1180 4718 -00:52:31,740 ~-~-> 00:52:33,360 4719 -and they aren't what they claim to be. 4720 - 4721 -1181 4722 -00:52:38,910 ~-~-> 00:52:40,500 4723 -match your style to your personality. 4724 - 4725 -1182 4726 -00:52:41,400 ~-~-> 00:52:42,570 4727 -This is something I picked up from Larry 4728 - 4729 -1183 4730 -00:52:42,570 ~-~-> 00:52:44,430 4731 -Williams, who made a lot of sense and I 4732 - 4733 -1184 4734 -00:52:44,430 ~-~-> 00:52:46,200 4735 -avoided doing it for a long time. I wish 4736 - 4737 -1185 4738 -00:52:46,200 ~-~-> 00:52:48,960 4739 -I would have done it sooner. But if 4740 - 4741 -1186 4742 -00:52:48,960 ~-~-> 00:52:51,300 4743 -you're a scalper Okay, you're going to 4744 - 4745 -1187 4746 -00:52:51,300 ~-~-> 00:52:52,470 4747 -do very well if you make quick 4748 - 4749 -1188 4750 -00:52:52,470 ~-~-> 00:52:54,930 4751 -decisions. And that's as simple as that. 4752 - 4753 -1189 4754 -00:52:55,170 ~-~-> 00:52:56,910 4755 -If you hem and haw about trying to make 4756 - 4757 -1190 4758 -00:52:56,910 ~-~-> 00:52:58,140 4759 -a decision and you're going to be a 4760 - 4761 -1191 4762 -00:52:59,340 ~-~-> 00:53:01,590 4763 -scalper again. Traitor, it's going to be 4764 - 4765 -1192 4766 -00:53:01,590 ~-~-> 00:53:04,890 4767 -a problem. And if you short term trade 4768 - 4769 -1193 4770 -00:53:06,720 ~-~-> 00:53:07,890 4771 -typically you're the type of person that 4772 - 4773 -1194 4774 -00:53:07,890 ~-~-> 00:53:10,500 4775 -can take a trade and sleep while you're 4776 - 4777 -1195 4778 -00:53:10,500 ~-~-> 00:53:13,320 4779 -in it. That that is a real good general 4780 - 4781 -1196 4782 -00:53:13,320 ~-~-> 00:53:14,880 4783 -rule of thumb. If you can sleep while 4784 - 4785 -1197 4786 -00:53:14,880 ~-~-> 00:53:16,110 4787 -you're in a trade, then you're probably 4788 - 4789 -1198 4790 -00:53:16,110 ~-~-> 00:53:18,990 4791 -a good short term trader. Don't force 4792 - 4793 -1199 4794 -00:53:18,990 ~-~-> 00:53:23,430 4795 -yourself into any mold. There's gurus, 4796 - 4797 -1200 4798 -00:53:23,430 ~-~-> 00:53:24,750 4799 -there's mentors, there's people out 4800 - 4801 -1201 4802 -00:53:24,750 ~-~-> 00:53:26,610 4803 -there to educate. And unfortunately, 4804 - 4805 -1202 4806 -00:53:26,610 ~-~-> 00:53:28,080 4807 -they try to take everyone and press them 4808 - 4809 -1203 4810 -00:53:28,080 ~-~-> 00:53:30,030 4811 -into this mold, this cookie cutter 4812 - 4813 -1204 4814 -00:53:30,030 ~-~-> 00:53:32,190 4815 -approach and it doesn't work. Avoid 4816 - 4817 -1205 4818 -00:53:32,190 ~-~-> 00:53:37,320 4819 -doing that. Don't try to copy someone, 4820 - 4821 -1206 4822 -00:53:38,220 ~-~-> 00:53:41,910 4823 -their style, their image, their forte, 4824 - 4825 -1207 4826 -00:53:42,720 ~-~-> 00:53:46,470 4827 -their approach their vocabulary. You see 4828 - 4829 -1208 4830 -00:53:46,470 ~-~-> 00:53:49,110 4831 -where I'm going with this don't just so 4832 - 4833 -1209 4834 -00:53:49,110 ~-~-> 00:53:50,640 4835 -many people out there on YouTube now 4836 - 4837 -1210 4838 -00:53:50,640 ~-~-> 00:53:53,670 4839 -sound a lot like ICT. Don't try to copy 4840 - 4841 -1211 4842 -00:53:53,670 ~-~-> 00:53:55,770 4843 -someone, be original. Make your own 4844 - 4845 -1212 4846 -00:53:55,770 ~-~-> 00:54:01,800 4847 -unique model. Don't change trading 4848 - 4849 -1213 4850 -00:54:01,800 ~-~-> 00:54:07,020 4851 -approaches. stick to one approach, one 4852 - 4853 -1214 4854 -00:54:07,050 ~-~-> 00:54:11,130 4855 -method, master it, and then see how you 4856 - 4857 -1215 4858 -00:54:11,130 ~-~-> 00:54:13,140 4859 -work with it. That means you're gonna 4860 - 4861 -1216 4862 -00:54:13,140 ~-~-> 00:54:14,670 4863 -have to spend some time with it. Most 4864 - 4865 -1217 4866 -00:54:14,670 ~-~-> 00:54:18,690 4867 -people don't want to do that. Avoid 4868 - 4869 -1218 4870 -00:54:18,690 ~-~-> 00:54:21,660 4871 -system hopping, okay? And the trap is if 4872 - 4873 -1219 4874 -00:54:21,660 ~-~-> 00:54:23,640 4875 -you take a trade and it loses, okay, 4876 - 4877 -1220 4878 -00:54:23,670 ~-~-> 00:54:25,260 4879 -that's reasonable. But if you take 4880 - 4881 -1221 4882 -00:54:25,260 ~-~-> 00:54:26,460 4883 -another train, you lose. That's it. I'm 4884 - 4885 -1222 4886 -00:54:26,460 ~-~-> 00:54:28,350 4887 -throwing this away. as stupid as this 4888 - 4889 -1223 4890 -00:54:28,350 ~-~-> 00:54:30,180 4891 -method doesn't work. I did that a lot. 4892 - 4893 -1224 4894 -00:54:30,570 ~-~-> 00:54:32,580 4895 -And I went through all kinds of trading 4896 - 4897 -1225 4898 -00:54:32,580 ~-~-> 00:54:34,110 4899 -systems. And that's the reason why I 4900 - 4901 -1226 4902 -00:54:34,110 ~-~-> 00:54:35,760 4903 -went through all kinds of trading 4904 - 4905 -1227 4906 -00:54:35,760 ~-~-> 00:54:37,710 4907 -accounts, because I wasn't consistent 4908 - 4909 -1228 4910 -00:54:37,710 ~-~-> 00:54:39,840 4911 -with anything, except for system 4912 - 4913 -1229 4914 -00:54:39,840 ~-~-> 00:54:42,090 4915 -hopping. That was my only consistency, 4916 - 4917 -1230 4918 -00:54:42,120 ~-~-> 00:54:44,070 4919 -the baseline and my consistency was all 4920 - 4921 -1231 4922 -00:54:44,220 ~-~-> 00:54:47,160 4923 -around me not being consistent with one 4924 - 4925 -1232 4926 -00:54:47,190 ~-~-> 00:54:50,160 4927 -trading approach. Many traders failed at 4928 - 4929 -1233 4930 -00:54:52,380 ~-~-> 00:54:54,600 4931 -every model loses. You're gonna have to 4932 - 4933 -1234 4934 -00:54:54,600 ~-~-> 00:54:56,190 4935 -accept that I mentioned it earlier with 4936 - 4937 -1235 4938 -00:54:56,190 ~-~-> 00:54:57,930 4939 -risk. You can't avoid it. It's part of 4940 - 4941 -1236 4942 -00:54:57,930 ~-~-> 00:55:00,240 4943 -the business. Treat it like a new Normal 4944 - 4945 -1237 4946 -00:55:00,240 ~-~-> 00:55:01,860 4947 -transaction when you go to work, if you 4948 - 4949 -1238 4950 -00:55:01,860 ~-~-> 00:55:03,330 4951 -get sick, you miss a day's work. That's 4952 - 4953 -1239 4954 -00:55:03,330 ~-~-> 00:55:05,880 4955 -a loss. Did you lose your job? No. Did 4956 - 4957 -1240 4958 -00:55:05,880 ~-~-> 00:55:07,770 4959 -you lose your house? No. Did you have a 4960 - 4961 -1241 4962 -00:55:07,770 ~-~-> 00:55:09,300 4963 -little less money that week? Yeah, 4964 - 4965 -1242 4966 -00:55:09,840 ~-~-> 00:55:11,640 4967 -that's life. Well, that's how trading 4968 - 4969 -1243 4970 -00:55:11,640 ~-~-> 00:55:13,350 4971 -works. losses are inevitable, you're 4972 - 4973 -1244 4974 -00:55:13,350 ~-~-> 00:55:17,400 4975 -going to have them. Find your unique 4976 - 4977 -1245 4978 -00:55:17,400 ~-~-> 00:55:20,460 4979 -model and grow from it. Don't tweak it 4980 - 4981 -1246 4982 -00:55:20,460 ~-~-> 00:55:22,590 4983 -too much. Once it's profitable, stick 4984 - 4985 -1247 4986 -00:55:22,590 ~-~-> 00:55:25,200 4987 -with it. And then what you'll find is by 4988 - 4989 -1248 4990 -00:55:25,230 ~-~-> 00:55:27,000 4991 -using a more advanced money management 4992 - 4993 -1249 4994 -00:55:27,000 ~-~-> 00:55:29,220 4995 -approach, if you have a method that 4996 - 4997 -1250 4998 -00:55:29,220 ~-~-> 00:55:31,200 4999 -gives you a delivered result that's 5000 - 5001 -1251 5002 -00:55:31,200 ~-~-> 00:55:33,150 5003 -measurable, and it's consistent enough 5004 - 5005 -1252 5006 -00:55:33,180 ~-~-> 00:55:34,650 5007 -that it does it more times than it 5008 - 5009 -1253 5010 -00:55:34,650 ~-~-> 00:55:37,410 5011 -doesn't. If you add impeccable risk 5012 - 5013 -1254 5014 -00:55:37,410 ~-~-> 00:55:38,850 5015 -management and money management to that, 5016 - 5017 -1255 5018 -00:55:39,180 ~-~-> 00:55:42,660 5019 -you will become wealthy. In this story. 5020 - 5021 -1256 5022 -00:55:42,660 ~-~-> 00:55:44,100 5023 -There's no ifs, ands or buts. That's the 5024 - 5025 -1257 5026 -00:55:44,100 ~-~-> 00:55:45,990 5027 -way it is. But you cannot get to that 5028 - 5029 -1258 5030 -00:55:45,990 ~-~-> 00:55:47,280 5031 -point until you go through all these 5032 - 5033 -1259 5034 -00:55:47,280 ~-~-> 00:55:49,380 5035 -other steps that are very, very boring, 5036 - 5037 -1260 5038 -00:55:49,410 ~-~-> 00:55:50,910 5039 -admittedly, but they're all part of the 5040 - 5041 -1261 5042 -00:55:50,910 ~-~-> 00:55:56,160 5043 -process. settle on one trade set up 5044 - 5045 -1262 5046 -00:55:56,160 ~-~-> 00:56:01,530 5047 -initially. Determine your asset class. 5048 - 5049 -1263 5050 -00:56:02,310 ~-~-> 00:56:04,710 5051 -Pick one market asset class as Commodity 5052 - 5053 -1264 5054 -00:56:04,740 ~-~-> 00:56:07,410 5055 -Index future. It's a forex pair. It's a 5056 - 5057 -1265 5058 -00:56:07,410 ~-~-> 00:56:10,890 5059 -cryptocurrency. It's a stock, whatever 5060 - 5061 -1266 5062 -00:56:10,890 ~-~-> 00:56:13,980 5063 -it is, stick to that one asset class. 5064 - 5065 -1267 5066 -00:56:14,160 ~-~-> 00:56:16,020 5067 -And inside that one asset class, pick 5068 - 5069 -1268 5070 -00:56:16,020 ~-~-> 00:56:19,260 5071 -one market. Outline when you want to 5072 - 5073 -1269 5074 -00:56:19,260 ~-~-> 00:56:21,210 5075 -buy, that means what's the criteria that 5076 - 5077 -1270 5078 -00:56:21,210 ~-~-> 00:56:22,680 5079 -you feel comfortable with when it's a 5080 - 5081 -1271 5082 -00:56:22,680 ~-~-> 00:56:24,990 5083 -buy, and then outline that and make it 5084 - 5085 -1272 5086 -00:56:24,990 ~-~-> 00:56:26,490 5087 -as detailed as possible, put it on 5088 - 5089 -1273 5090 -00:56:26,490 ~-~-> 00:56:29,520 5091 -paper. And the same thing with when you 5092 - 5093 -1274 5094 -00:56:29,520 ~-~-> 00:56:31,440 5095 -want to go short. What's the 5096 - 5097 -1275 5098 -00:56:31,440 ~-~-> 00:56:33,360 5099 -characteristics and circumstances that 5100 - 5101 -1276 5102 -00:56:33,360 ~-~-> 00:56:36,180 5103 -would drive you to believing it's a 5104 - 5105 -1277 5106 -00:56:36,180 ~-~-> 00:56:40,650 5107 -short and with that you want to build 5108 - 5109 -1278 5110 -00:56:40,650 ~-~-> 00:56:43,890 5111 -many study journal cases. Notice I said, 5112 - 5113 -1279 5114 -00:56:44,250 ~-~-> 00:56:46,110 5115 -not live trades with real money. You 5116 - 5117 -1280 5118 -00:56:46,110 ~-~-> 00:56:48,240 5119 -want to have a study journal that has a 5120 - 5121 -1281 5122 -00:56:48,240 ~-~-> 00:56:50,490 5123 -plethora of examples of where this 5124 - 5125 -1282 5126 -00:56:50,490 ~-~-> 00:56:52,050 5127 -worked in the past and when it didn't, 5128 - 5129 -1283 5130 -00:56:52,590 ~-~-> 00:56:55,950 5131 -and study them and it great links set 5132 - 5133 -1284 5134 -00:56:55,950 ~-~-> 00:56:57,360 5135 -way you get familiar with what it looks 5136 - 5137 -1285 5138 -00:56:57,360 ~-~-> 00:56:59,580 5139 -like by recognition and then when you 5140 - 5141 -1286 5142 -00:56:59,580 ~-~-> 00:57:01,740 5143 -see like price action, you'll recognize 5144 - 5145 -1287 5146 -00:57:01,740 ~-~-> 00:57:08,160 5147 -it as forms. Now, with all those things, 5148 - 5149 -1288 5150 -00:57:08,490 ~-~-> 00:57:10,830 5151 -you have something to start with. And 5152 - 5153 -1289 5154 -00:57:10,830 ~-~-> 00:57:14,250 5155 -now you can plan your beginning. In part 5156 - 5157 -1290 5158 -00:57:14,250 ~-~-> 00:57:16,920 5159 -two, I promise I won't be so long winded 5160 - 5161 -1291 5162 -00:57:17,070 ~-~-> 00:57:18,990 5163 -and boring. We're actually gonna give 5164 - 5165 -1292 5166 -00:57:18,990 ~-~-> 00:57:21,930 5167 -some insights on how you can go into the 5168 - 5169 -1293 5170 -00:57:21,930 ~-~-> 00:57:24,480 5171 -marketplace and study a very particular 5172 - 5173 -1294 5174 -00:57:24,480 ~-~-> 00:57:26,640 5175 -thing. And what that is, is the optimal 5176 - 5177 -1295 5178 -00:57:26,640 ~-~-> 00:57:28,230 5179 -trade entry. And I'll talk to you then 5180 - 5181 -1296 5182 -00:57:28,320 ~-~-> 00:57:29,760 5183 -wish good luck and good trading.